HPM - living the dream?(Whatever happend to) thread

[HairPieceMan]

hello,

yes I am still here.

I would like to see s.a.f. on this forum again, I would like his input.

my friend is coming round in january now, he will help me get a girl soon.

currently I am getting carboxy therapy to get rid of the dark circles I have, it has been going well, I am noticing an obvious improvement, by January it will all be gone.

my hair systems are way better, I have found a way to make them last for 18 months, that means it only costs £20 a month to wear hair, it's only £350 per system so there you go!

on the elevator shoes that make me appear taller, I have the ultimate shoe that makes me appear 5 9!

I bought these

https://www.bugarrishoes.com/index.php?collectionID=1731&page=collectionDet&offset=1#.UL-HNYPtSn8

and ordered one size up, and added this to it.

http://www.tallmenshoes.com/to12inheenco.html

to add an 0.5" to it.

that makes me 4.5" taller vs. regular shoe. (note: an elevator shoe with an advertised gain of 5.5" makes you 4.0" taller vs regular shoe, since it takes into account the sole of the shoe, and you need to take away 0.5" from the added heel with your weight)

so I go from 5 4.5 -> 5 9!

here are some picture of the shoes, they look "ok", but given the height gain I keep to them, I am a legit 5 9 barefoot in them.

note: I am 5' 9" in these shoes, but that is 5' 10" including the sole of the shoe, but officially I am 5' 9".

if I meet any girl who is 4' 11" - 5' 4", that means I am 5" -10" taller than her!

yes it will be a - yet another - lie, My height, but it will have to do until I have done my LL surgery, once I have done 2 LL surgeries I will be 5 9 with a 0.5" rise. But I will wear a 4.5" rise until then, I could even get married at 5' 9" if I needed to.

 

[Thom]

So no running barefoot on the beach with your love I assume? 5'9 is not bad, not sure why that bothers you.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

He's not 5 9, that's in his heels/lifts. I think it's after the leg lengthening he will be 5 9. Just hope he doesn't end up crippled after doing it. I wouldn't fancy surgery like that in a foreign country, but each to their own

 

[HairPieceMan]

im 5 4.5

but WITH the 4.0" elevator shoe and a 0.5" rise I am 5' 9".

but no with the special shoes I am 5 9, and that is high heels hidden inside a boot.

but with LL I can get to that height legitimately, but that would be 2 surgeries costing about £20,000 and 10 months of my time out.

I'll just wear the shoes for just now tbh, even after the surgeries I could still wear the shoes to bring me to 6 1!

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Is that £20k for each one or in total? Helluva lot of money. So you'd be away from home for 10 months?

 

[Thom]

Well, I can't judge someone for wanting that surgery as I'm 5'11 and don't know what it's like. I had gynocmastia in high school that wouldn't go away no matter how skinny and fit I was. People thought they were pecs but taking my shirt off at the pool was always an embarrassment. So I got surgery to correct it in '07 and have never regretted it since.

I have read that the heightening surgery is quite painful though. To each their own!

Just remember Tom Cruise and Mel Gibson are incredibly short people too. Not the best mental examples but they did overcome the odds!

 

[HairPieceMan]

no 20K in total.

well if I do one LL that is 6 months and that is 5 6.5 for me barefoot, then I wear 3.5" lifts to 5 10 and not give a **** about my height beyond that tbh!

I am happy with 4.5" lifts at the moment to 5 9!

we will see how it goes, my thoughts are I will likely do one LL surgery to 5 6.5 costing £10,000 and then I have 1.5"+ lifts, that brings me to 5 8- 5 11 via the lifts.

it depends on the girls I meet, I hope I meet a 4 11 - 5 2 girl that isn't that bothered about my height.

But I will try with my Hair and dark circles treatment.

for the record- not that it matters - I don't put a lot of stock into what a girls looks like, or how much shorter she is from me, but most women DO put a lot of stock into how tall a guy is. most women need to be with a guy who is 4" taller than her.

 

[Thom]

No quick fix for BDD! Your mind will always be wanting more. I know from experience.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Yikes. I mean this in the nicest possible way, but rather you than me dude!

 

[HairPieceMan]

@ thom

not really mate.

If I woke up tomorrow a legit 5 9'ner, I wouldn't be dreaming of being a 6 2'er, I mean, why would I care?

there are 100s of examples of guys who are 5 9 with great relationships with girls who are 5 4 and under, no one blinks an eye at that.

why would I have a height insecurity @ 5 9? I wouldn't "want more" height, height is NOT everything, I would be overeating @ 5 9 wanting more height to 6 1 or something.

please let's keep this in perceptive, thanks!

 

[Thom]

I'm not saying you would want to grow even more, I'm just suggesting that your mind would find another area to obsess about and fix. I'm not knocking you, I just think the real culprit is being ignored as it was in me so often.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I think if I could choose, 5ft7 would be mine. Not tall by any means, but a bit taller. Then again, it was at a gig last week I was wishing to be tall so I could see better!

 

[HairPieceMan]

tbh I'm not in 100% agreement with you.

Did you watch the 20/20 report on dating?

they put a 5 6 guy next to a 5 10 guy and a 6 1 guy.

the 5 6 guy was better looking than the 5 10 guy, but no girl like the 5 6 guy, they Had to make the 5 6 guy

1. rich
2. chief surgeon
3. gourmet cook
4. loves children (aka beta-fied)
5. champion ski-er

to make him on the same "level" as the 5 10 guy.

honestly short stature it- literally - is a killer on the dating scene, I would - politely- ask you what would it be like, to be 5 4, or you're son to be 5 4, and understand that women, would reject him based on his height and his height alone, no one likes to be alone, but if your a 5 4 male that may happen quoit often.

I please you to watch the "short and male" documentary by howard goldsberg, the 5' 4" dentist ended up "ordering" a foreign bride to "like" him, it's pretty bad.

even howard goldsberg, who was 5 3.5 and wore elevator shoe to 5 5, got rejected by women al the time due to being "waaay too short".

 

[Thom]

But Chris dispels that as he is short and happily in love.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Is that directed at me HPM? Not sure, but if you remember, I'm shorter than you fella

 

[LooseItAll]

But you're good looking with hair. He is chubby, with a piggy nose and bald with a thinning horseshose so I guess there is a huge difference here.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Those shoes look nice.

 

[HairPieceMan]

Those shoes look nice.

but i'm wearing hair!

never thought about my nose, I'm not bothered by it, I think it looks fine.

no i'm pretty sure 5 3 is a massive deal breaker height, you must be using cash to keep the whole thing going shorty.

also on weight I have a girdle, and weight loss program.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

but i'm wearing hair!

never thought about my nose, I'm not bothered by it, I think it looks fine.

no i'm pretty sure 5 3 is a massive deal breaker height, you must be using cash to keep the whole thing going shorty.

also on weight I have a girdle, and weight loss program.

It's not kept going by money at all. I know that that's your plan. Never needed it to be mine. Now this may shock you, but I've actually had women APPROACH ME in night clubs, zero effort on my part. I don't want to get into that, as I just come across as bragging :/

Classy how you call me shorty, lol! You take self loathing to a new level! You have a girdle? This just gets better I hadn't actually said anything negative towards you since your ignominious return, but once again you show your true colours....

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I'm pretty sure that if youl take Chris hair he will look like ****

He kinda look like **** even now

Haha! So I'm shorter than you, look like crap even with hair, yet am still doing better than you in the women stakes. What does that tell you?

 

[HairPieceMan]

It's not kept going by money at all. I know that that's your plan. Never needed it to be mine. Now this may shock you, but I've actually had women APPROACH ME in night clubs, zero effort on my part. I don't want to get into that, as I just come across as bragging :/

Classy how you call me shorty, lol! You take self loathing to a new level! You have a girdle? This just gets better I hadn't actually said anything negative towards you since your ignominious return, but once again you show your true colours....

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Haha! So I'm shorter than you, look like crap even with hair, yet am still doing better than you in the women stakes. What does that tell you?

your not, you are lying, you are not getting girls at 5 freaking 3!

even if you were, I wouldn't trade my 5 4.5 for your 5 3 no matter what!