I Accidentally Found Out My Brother Is Gay And Dont Know What To Do (he Doesnt Know I Know)

[Xander94]

@Xander94, LOL, I am a dark knight. Batman was my hero growing up. What did I say that triggered you? I told you I understand you better than anyone here. I used to think like you do. Actually sometimes I still do.

Sorry didn't read the whole post Batman was my idol aswell

 

[DoctorHouse]

Great post House as usual.

One thing I overlooked is that yes, if you're not prepared for it, the darkness that some people cast in some parts of this forum can definitely swallow you up.

You need to make sure you have your act together and that you are strong enough to deal with the people who have a great deal of anger, resentment and hatred in their hearts.

This is no joke, so I can understand where @EvilLocks is coming from, she's definitely grown stronger in the recent years, but it might still not be enough to withstand the deep negativity and nihilism of some of the members on here.

White knight White Polar Bear checking out.

This all I needed to read. When you get a like by WPW it's like getting a complement by Jon Snow or Agent Dale Cooper. Off topic, last episode of Twin Peaks was the best yet. Two more episodes and that is the end of the storyline. Unfortunately Frost and Lynch said this will be the end. If they have any cliffhangers I won't believe them.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Sorry didn't read the whole post Batman was my idol aswell

OK then go back and take my dislike back. If you dislike me, you are disliking our hero, the Dark Knight. I am Batman.

 

[EvilLocks]

I get it, it's scary to see the worldview that you cling damaged or shattered, no one likes to feel stupid.

Not true, I don't feel stupid, nor is my worldview being damaged or shattered. I still have the same values and morals as I did before I joined here, I have only matured (naturally) over the past few years I've been active here. There is a vast difference between the 20year-old mentality and the (nearly)25year-old mentality. I might look the same (besides hair), but it feels like my soul has grown decades older from all the crap I've been through...
Anyway, I meant that it's easy to be influenced by people you spend a lot of time with, even people you know strictly online. This place can be quite negative sometimes and if I'm already feeling weak then it gets to me.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

If I were a girl I wouldn't let it be known on forums. Wonder if so many people would stand up if they thought a guy made that post.

That must be one of the few problems of being a woman contra a man. You'll never know if people actually agree with you or white knight.

 

[Dante92]

 

[Marky]

I can't see any images in your post. And AGAIN, the issue at hand (I guess, not that I would actually "debate" this with someone like you lol) is - are same sex relationships immoral or otherwise problematic? And you keep building strawgays, with risque outfits and sexual practices that you disagree with. Whether someone should take their minor child to a pride parade has nothing to do with the nature of homosexuality. Just like the fact that some priests are kiddie fiddlers isn't a commentary on the validity of Catholicism. Hope it sinks in this time.

Give it some thought.

Here are the images, pretty disturbing no? or is this perfectly acceptable behavior in your book:

The current year argument!

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It depends on how broad your definition of happy and healthy is.

I have high standards for myself and for the people I surround myself with.

Healthy and happy means that for a man in his 40's, the kid in question will have used no psychiatric medication for the past 10 years, will never have had any sort of addiction (alcohol, weed, video games), will have a loving and equally successful wife, will be at least a manager in his companies, will be successful in his hobbies, will have kids that are themselves healthy and well-behaved, the kind of kids other adults genuinely smile at when they see them.

You're below that bar and you find it offense that it's how I define a healthy and happy life? Tough luck, that's where I place it for myself. That means that if I don't get there in my 40's, I will have failed to attain my ideal, but at least it keeps me going.

What is your ideal? What are your goals in life? Again, I'm curious.

Spot on about Trudeau. How did my country go from this:

to this:

sick and unimaginable

 

[Marky]

At first I thought he was making a joke, because his avatar is Forest Gump.

It turns out he has more in common than his avatar than I thought.

And I thought from your avatar you were the savior, but from your foul language and devilish rhetoric I think you might want
to change it to this:

 

[yetti]

Here are the images, pretty disturbing no? or is this perfectly acceptable behavior in your book:

Spot on about Trudeau. How did my country go from this:
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to this:

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sick and unimaginable

What are you fixated on in the photo?

 

[hairblues]

I agree with this, there are a lot of harmful ideologies floating around, but this forum has enough experienced members to counterbalance those toxic points of view.

If people get tricked by harmful those harmful ideologies floating around, whether it's Isis, lookism or feminism, they are partially to blame for falling for them.

It's like you're arguing that people (even if they're young) have no free-will and are not to partially (keyword here) to blame when they submit to ideologies that says that infidels/women/men are not truly human but horrible creatures that must be fought.

Those people know exactly what they're doing for the most part, they have a powerful and sound rationale for it which is why it's so heard to reason with them.

Everyone is responsible for their own actions. If they get harmed by some of the BS that is written on this forum, they are partially to blame for it.

Eh, there is debate on this as to what degree by what age.

The mind is much easier influenced in young people than in older people for a scientific reason.

children and teens are more susceptible to making rash decisions and choices and don't consider consequences as much as adults do.

I think the brain is not fully developed until 24, so the mind of a 12 year old is much different then the mind of an 18 year old. And the 18 year old much different then the 28 year old, you have a stronger sense of self as you mature.

this is why parents, relatives, teachers, neighbors are supposed to 'guide' children until they reach maturity.

I also think to add to this there is a depersonalization that can happen with the internet--the more time a young developing person spends socializing on the internet--the less chance they will force themselves to go out and develop people skills...Not saying they won't--but makes it easier for a reclusive kid to be even more reclusive and 'live' on internet instead of in real life.

 

[Xander94]

Not true, I don't feel stupid, nor is my worldview being damaged or shattered. I still have the same values and morals as I did before I joined here, I have only matured (naturally) over the past few years I've been active here. There is a vast difference between the 20year-old mentality and the (nearly)25year-old mentality. I might look the same (besides hair), but it feels like my soul has grown decades older from all the crap I've been through...
Anyway, I meant that it's easy to be influenced by people you spend a lot of time with, even people you know strictly online. This place can be quite negative sometimes and if I'm already feeling weak then it gets to me.

http://imgur.com/r/Incels/W9v6xNQ

 

[Marky]

What are you fixated on in the photo?

kidding right?

 

[DoctorHouse]

@Xander94, Do you watch Gotham? Just caught up with the last season. It was actually good toward the last 6 episodes.

 

[yetti]

kidding right?

Not at all. 100 people could look at the photo and not care, but you're fixated. Talk about it. Let it out man. Is it the tongue?

 

[Marky]

Not at all. 100 people could look at the photo and not care, but you're fixated. Talk about it. Let it out man. Is it the tongue?

ya its the tongue

 

[hairblues]

I looked at that picture and the first word that came to my mind was "disgrace".

Especially for a prime minister.

I am pretty liberal but his loosey goosie ways bother me

as does Trumps.

I like Presidents and world leaders to be Stately and have decorum.

 

[yetti]

I looked at that picture and the first word that came to my mind was "disgrace".

Especially for a prime minister.

Do you think it's impossible to find photos of other world leaders sticking their tongues out, in all kionds of contexts? Why does this one bother you so much?

 

[yetti]

I am pretty liberal but his loosey goosie ways bother me

as does Trumps.

I like Presidents and world leaders to be Stately and have decorum.

And this is exactly my point. It's by no means unique. Why is this one in particular a disgrace? There are disgraces all around.

 

[Marky]

I looked at that picture and the first word that came to my mind was "disgrace".

Especially for a prime minister.

Bingo.

 

[hairblues]

And this is exactly my point. It's by no means unique. Why is this one in particular a disgrace? There are disgraces all around.

Because a world leader should not be walking around with his tongue hanging out of his mouth.

I am assuming these pics were taken after he was PM but even if he intended to run for PM he should keep his tongue in his mouth its not a good look for a world leader.