I feel like people don't understand incels

[Moro]

i cant remember my ex anymore is that a good or bad thing?

Both, I think.
You forget the bad, it doesn't haunt you.
You forget the bad, you don't know what to look out for to avoid it in the future.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Both, I think.
You forget the bad, it doesn't haunt you.
You forget the bad, you don't know what to look out for to avoid it in the future.

younmean good* and bad ?

i remember but domt think aboyt it anymore
thatbfeel

 

[vondoom]

People read the fear mongering misinformation, such as this, and buy into it, and it screws up their life.

Girls read it and think they'll be a-ok to have kids in their 30s.
Meanwhile, in reality land; their eggs are basically gone when they hit 30.

Men and women kill themselves when they fail at life. Doesn't that even slightly bother you? Or do you get some sort of sick rush from screwing up another person's life?

But hey, at least they got to grind at work to make someone else rich, oh and the "fruits of life." It's not a good consolation for them sacrificing their lives to some communist master.

Further, people can travel at any age, it doesn't HAVE to be when they're most fertile.

girls fail at life when they dont push out some child? do said girls also dont see it that way, or is that the view point of men who want to lock down some woman, because they cant get any?

also i dont know how you come to think the eggs are gone at 30...
i do agree that its better to get a kid more or less early, if someone chooses that route, but here the people now start getting kids at close to 40, even til 42... so by no means your eggs are gone at 30^^

 

[Diffused_confidence]

girls fail at life when they dont push out some child? do said girls also dont see it that way, or is that the view point of men who want to lock down some woman, because they cant get any?

also i dont know how you come to think the eggs are gone at 30...
i do agree that its better to get a kid more or less early, if someone chooses that route, but here the people now start getting kids at close to 40, even til 42... so by no means your eggs are gone at 30^^

Not only is having kids at later ages more risky but also conception is a lot harder.

 

[Moro]

girls fail at life when they dont push out some child? do said girls also dont see it that way, or is that the view point of men who want to lock down some woman, because they cant get any?

also i dont know how you come to think the eggs are gone at 30...
i do agree that its better to get a kid more or less early, if someone chooses that route, but here the people now start getting kids at close to 40, even til 42... so by no means your eggs are gone at 30^^

Yes, also the view point of men. And "locking down" a girl isn't a bad thing, we're talking about having a family here.

Medical science says otherwise.
Becoming deluded then failing to have a child at 42 is tragic.

 

[vondoom]

Not only is having kids at later ages more risky but also conception is a lot harder.

yeah of course... absolutely agree... but its not like incels and other people with that level of thinking always complain that women have to get pregnant at like early 20s... and then later complain about single mums^^

 

[vondoom]

Yes, also the view point of men. And "locking down" a girl isn't a bad thing, we're talking about having a family here.

Medical science says otherwise.
Becoming deluded then failing to have a child at 42 is tragic.

yeah but noone is going to commit suicide when they dont get a child... before they do that, they adopt one...
as i said, i also dont think it is a good idea to get kids that late, also for financial reasons, because you pay until retirement then and chances are that kills your savings...

yeah family is okay if you want to have one... i just dont think that people want to stop living (more or less because you give up a good part of freedom) when they are young... you want to do something once you earn money, then you can still start a family..

 

[Feelsbadman]

yeah of course... absolutely agree... but its not like incels and other people with that level of thinking always complain that women have to get pregnant at like early 20s... and then later complain about single mums^^

I think most want to be settled by 30

 

[Moro]

yeah but noone is going to commit suicide when they dont get a child... before they do that, they adopt one...
as i said, i also dont think it is a good idea to get kids that late, also for financial reasons, because you pay until retirement then and chances are that kills your savings...

yeah family is okay if you want to have one... i just dont think that people want to stop living (more or less because you give up a good part of freedom) when they are young... you want to do something once you earn money, then you can still start a family..

Sure they would, and do.
We're talking about a person's genetic legacy dying off.

Or they get a bunch of cats to try and fill the void. Not many people are satisfied raising someone else's offspring, being the only option they have.

 

[vondoom]

Sure they would, and do.
We're talking about a person's genetic legacy dying off.

Or they get a bunch of cats to try and fill the void. Not many people are satisfied raising someone else's offspring, being the only option they have.

if you dont want your lineage to continue, most likely the one who is crying is the your father/mother and not the one who decides “f*** that sh*t, i never want kids”...

well the more women get kids in their early 20s the more single mums you get... you know, the ones who match with you on tinder^^

 

[Moro]

if you dont want your lineage to continue, most likely the one who is crying is the your father/mother and not the one who decides “f*** that sh*t, i never want kids”...

well the more women get kids in their early 20s the more single mums you get... you know, the ones who match with you on tinder^^

Because the parents know that their child will come to regret not having children later.

I don't see how more girls having kids in their early 20s translates into more single mums. That's a pretty sensible time to have children.

Tinder needs to be shut down and the operators imprisoned. It causes so many people so much grief. And why are single mothers on it in the first place...

 

[Moro]

yeah family is okay if you want to have one... i just dont think that people want to stop living (more or less because you give up a good part of freedom) when they are young... you want to do something once you earn mo

Stop living? You don't stop living when you have a child. How is your freedom disappearing? If someone is worried about not being able to visit some bar as much. I would say the benefits far outstrip that.

 

[Feelsbadman]

the only single women after 26+ are either single mums or crazy

 

[vondoom]

Because the parents know that their child will come to regret not having children later.

I don't see how more girls having kids in their early 20s translates into more single mums. That's a pretty sensible time to have children.

Tinder needs to be shut down and the operators imprisoned. It causes so many people so much grief. And why are single mothers on it in the first place...

no, because the grand parents want grand children and that is the only reason besides not wanting the family to end... strange way of thinking, since they ususally wont witness the lineage ending...

get kids early, relationship doesnt work out, as they tend to do when you are young, break up, kid still there, shes single mum... that wasnt an actual question lol

well they are on tinder because they dont want to be single, just like you and everybody else using it...
i take it you arent very successful?

 

[vondoom]

the only single women after 26+ are either single mums or crazy

shows you dont know many...

 

[vondoom]

Stop living? You don't stop living when you have a child. How is your freedom disappearing? If someone is worried about not being able to visit some bar as much. I would say the benefits far outstrip that.

kids cost a lot of money, so whatever you wanted to do, travel/hobby/whatever is on hold, unless your “honby” is gaming...
you also cant go wherever you want to whenever you want to, cant move that easily and so on... whatever you do, you got to think about the kid, want to move? kid looses its friends, you got to find a new school and so on...
that is not a restriction of movement?

well bar is exactly the thing you can still do lol...
might be a benefit to you because for once you are not alone at home... usually people dont even think about that, unless you are very lonely... because it is just what people do...

 

[Moro]

no, because the grand parents want grand children and that is the only reason besides not wanting the family to end... strange way of thinking, since they ususally wont witness the lineage ending...

get kids early, relationship doesnt work out, as they tend to do when you are young, break up, kid still there, shes single mum... that wasnt an actual question lol

well they are on tinder because they dont want to be single, just like you and everybody else using it...
i take it you arent very successful?

Which further supports my point. People don't want their genetic lineage to die off. The people that are ok with that won't be happy with it when that door closes to them.

That seems to be a problem of girls making poor choices, picking a guy that will run from responsibility, or beating the hell out of them etc. Doesn't seem to be related to starting a family in your 20s.

Being a single mother and expecting to find someone isn't very reasonable or fair.

No, not at all. Tinder isn't designed to be successful, it's designed to give false hope and extract money from lonely people.

 

[vondoom]

Which further supports my point. People don't want their genetic lineage to die off. The people that are ok with that won't be happy with it when that door closes to them.

That seems to be a problem of girls making poor choices, picking a guy that will run from responsibility, or beating the hell out of them etc. Doesn't seem to be related to starting a family in your 20s.

Being a single mother and expecting to find someone isn't very reasonable or fair.

No, not at all. Tinder isn't designed to be successful, it's designed to give false hope and extract money from lonely people.

well i used to use tinder, without any success... learned the lesson and moved on... was a substitute anyway and mire for killing time, since real life works far better without any issues...

thing is that of course women can make bad choices, but the younger you are, the more you grow... and it happens far more that women outgrow the men than the other way round... there are always two sides of the coin... these days it is so easy to split up/divorce that it doesnt even matter anymore... end this relationship and on to the next... not that i do it, but that is what happens...

why is it bot fair for a single mum to expect another relationship? because the child isnt the future partners? dont you think that the future partner doesnt have to be financial responsible for it? i honestly think he doesnt have to be...

 

[Moro]

kids cost a lot of money, so whatever you wanted to do, travel/hobby/whatever is on hold, unless your “honby” is gaming...
you also cant go wherever you want to whenever you want to, cant move that easily and so on... whatever you do, you got to think about the kid, want to move? kid looses its friends, you got to find a new school and so on...
that is not a restriction of movement?

well bar is exactly the thing you can still do lol...
might be a benefit to you because for once you are not alone at home... usually people dont even think about that, unless you are very lonely... because it is just what people do...

More responsibility is significantly better than being seen as useless.

So? You can still travel later in life. No loss there. Also, camping with the kids is significantly better than traveling overseas.

Or you can share your hobby with the kids. I don't see a loss here.

Sure that would suck for the child but they'll get over it. Military families do it all the time.

No... Getting a girl at a bar isn't something I'll ever do. It's more an environment for one night stands. Not what I'm after.

 

[vondoom]

More responsibility is significantly better than being seen as useless.

So? You can still travel later in life. No loss there. Also, camping with the kids is significantly better than traveling overseas.

Or you can share your hobby with the kids. I don't see a loss here.

Sure that would suck for the child but they'll get over it. Military families do it all the time.

No... Getting a girl at a bar isn't something I'll ever do. It's more an environment for one night stands. Not what I'm after.

yeah that is where i dont agree, i like travelling overseas... or lets say i used to, now at 40, im not that excited anymore...

you can share hobbies if you have some... most people dont...

sure military didnt come to mind at all, because where i am from you dont enter the military unless you got issues (and i think that goes for everywhere) and where i am living now, there is also no real military and the foreign military presence is the one you dont want to get in touch with, they are outright hated... though of course there are women who want their gi bf take them to the usa^^


you dont have to go to a bar to meet women, there are musuems, concerts, events, parks... there is a lot for everyone...
instead everyone uses tinder and makes up shitty excuses why, like “need to check if its worth blabla”, when they are just afraid to talk to women and then complain how bad tinder is and chad and tyrone and whatnot...
honestly you people should maybe try the church to get some woman...