I had a dream women are being brainwashed into detesting baldness...

[georgesheardexpress9]

A dark, cryptic castle.

In the middle of nowhere.

There he was - a mad scientist of a formidable stature and a Norwood 7 with wispy, overgrown side hair.

Arranged in a row were women of varying ethnicities, heights and shapes.

They all just stood there - vacant expressions apparent. Meanwhile, the scientist donned a cold, calculating and callous grin.

He barked,

"Come on. Break the hearts. Heheheh. Focus on looks. Heh. And reject baldness. Baldness. Baldness. Heheheheh."

 

[macbeth81]

I don't think brainwashing is required. Baldness is ugly.

The only brainwashing I see is how men are being brainwashed to accept fat women. There is also the shaming of men for not marrying hags who have spent the last 10-15 years riding the c*** carousel and now want to settle down with a beta provider before they dry up.

 

[g.i joey]

no brainwashing here, women find baldness as ugly as we find it, actually id say less, because i see some pretty hot women with bald men. a beautiful women on okcupid had these requirements in her profile "beard or bald is a plus". so yes, baldness is ugly, i think we all know that, whether women liked it or not, but there are still those who are attracted to it, unlike men, we all could agree balding is not a plus.

 

[recedingyt]

I agree that western media demonizes bald men which certainly helps shape the way women in those cultures perceive bald men. At the same time I would tend to think that baldness is pretty much universally accepted as an unattractive trait regardless of culture. So while it might not evoke the same sort of outwardly negative reaction in cultures where it isn't openly mocked, it still isn't generally seen as an attractive trait unless it is offset by one of the other factors of attraction.

I think at a fundamental level, the way attraction works is based on some measure of genetics + physical fitness (among other things but those are the two biggest factors IMO), and baldness is a genetic marker that most people, regardless of gender or orientation, seem to reject in potential mates.

 

[hellouser]

If you guys wanna see some serious feelings of 'entitlement' from western women, try reading Plenty Of Fish profiles of women from Toronto... here's a couple:

SofiaO
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=12978105

Quote from profile:

I'm a suck for guys that have their perfect abs in their main picture. So if that's you, and I viewed you, now you know why. Sadly, I prefer guys with nice/handsome faces over a washboard simply because bodys fall apart in time, but a good looking man will always be a good looking man regardless of his age.

In case you didn't bother to look I'm 5'9. I've dated a guy shorter then me. I'm just going to leave it at - it doesn't work for me. Side note: my ideal height is 6'2. Just saying.

First Date A movie. NOT! If you would EVER consider taking someone you're meeting for the first time to a movie PLEASE DO NOT contact me. Also, if your not bright enough to figure out WHY a movie doesn't work on a first date, AGAIN, PLEASE DO NOT contact me.

Or this one:

1nicol3
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=78785554

Quote from profile:

When your mom says she wants the BEST for you, she was talking about me. LOL

I want a man who is tall and handsome. Both book and street smart. A hopeless romantic man with a mind blowing loyalty and honesty. Someone who is complex and keep me interested. I don't need an underconstruction or a fixer upper type a guy. Someone who is mentally and financially stable. I won't settle for less than I deserve, I know my worth and I can offer you all the happiness in the world. I'm a princess, ready to be a queen.

If anyone finds women like this desirable, come to Toronto, Canada. Just make sure you've got hair.

 

[g.i joey]

they mention height but not baldness, so i dont know what you're trying to prove here. if anything it just shows how picky girls could be but yet still fail to mention anything about hair. the way i see it is, no hair is like our version of no tits, idk if i could date a girl with no ***, im a huge *** fan, but i dont really care how big her boobs are.

 

[macbeth81]

The second message in that Deadwood scene is that the bald guy was submissive by asking permission to take a peek.

I don't watch TV anymore since it is mostly pure filth.

Regarding the height requirement, I always thought that was overstated on-line. However, when I was with my brother preparing for his wedding and met his wife and stepdaughter for the first time, they both pointed out my clear height advantage (I am over 6’, brother isn't). That had to be fairly embarrassing. I would have called off the wedding, although I would have never proposed to a single mother to begin with.

 

[swingline747]

I wont bash these girls for saying what they want. Again we as guys want the ideal woman. Someone whos fit and pretty, has a pretty decent mind, enough to hold a conversation at least. Look are important all around, its life.
Those girls are "cute" but in no way super gorgeous or sexy at all.
I mean its like your mad because they dont want YOU.

Also there isnt any brainwashing, bald men have ALWAYS been stigmatized. Throughout history they have always been the villain or the goofus.

There IS by all means a double standard where these b****s (yup) can get away with saying this crap but as a guy if I made a profile that said
"if youre over 125lbs dont contact me"
Id be crucified.

 

[hellouser]

Again, not here in Belgium, it's extremely rare in fact.

I know you're so up to your eyeballs in baldness hate that you can't think it's even possible, but it is.

Denying the isn't any brainwashing isn't helping our cause. It's like we agree that we deserve to be treated like dirt.

"Well it's always been that way and it's universal!" It isn't.

Yes, baldness is not a pretty sight, but it doesn't excuse bald men being painted as villains and losers.

Baldness isn't so hated in Poland. A lot... and I mean a LOT of young guys are shaving their heads completely. Lucky for them, attractive Polish women are abundant.

 

[macbeth81]

SofiaO doesn't look too bad for 29, but I am not into brownies (eye color). The second link doesn't work. I scanned through some of the Toronto profiles on POF. Most aren't pretty enough to justify high standards. Most of the profiles are not that extreme either, although I have heard Toronto women are rough.

 

[swingline747]

Again, not here in Belgium, it's extremely rare in fact.

I know you're so up to your eyeballs in baldness hate that you can't think it's even possible, but it is.

Denying there isn't any brainwashing isn't helping our cause. It's like we agree that we deserve to be treated like dirt.

"Well it's always been that way and it's universal!" It isn't.

Yes, baldness is not a pretty sight, but it doesn't excuse bald men being painted as villains and losers.

Again though on average I dont think bald guys are outright treated like dirt. Theyre just awfully unattractive. Being unattractive hurts you in almost all other areas of life from friend making to employment.
The only ones who are seemingly "treating them like dirt" are women who dont want them, which I get because WHY increase your chances of passing that along, or being with someone you do not find sexually appealing. All that I want to be treated like a princess crap is second wind to "I want a tall handsome guy".
We as guys want attractive women, thats what I usually find so frustrating. I do actually do my best to be attractive but my mess top and super high hairline prohibits me from still getting what I could. Partly I think that is whats keeping me where I am, but I wont go into it.
So why is a girl wanting what she finds attractive so awful?
I do have some pretty mean (lets say strong) views on a lot of things that might sound outright psychotic but there is always a method behind them. Most of it is fairness and unless we are all able to say "yeah Ill date a fatty" we cant talk about pretty girls (THAT WE WANT! lol) not liking bald guys.
Be mad at ourselves, be mad at our parents, but dont be mad at them. Unless youre going to become some pent up serial rapist murderer in a few years.

 

[username425]

In regards to height, I think this is a huge factor among women now a days. As for hair, in my experience as a younger guy (23), I don't think women list it as a requirement because younger guys are expected to have hair.

 

[swingline747]

I think you're wrong when you compare fatness to baldness.

I really don't think being bald is as ugly as being fat.

You seriously think this:

Is as repulsive as this?:

I mean, come on, we all know baldness isn't attractive.

But a guy not wanting a fat girl is not nearly the same as a girl not wanting a bald guy.

It's not like bald men all look like disgusting zombie that could never get a woman wet.

A fat girl on the other hand... I would need a good dose of v**** to go through with it.

Do all the pornstars shooting with Johnny Sins pinch their nose and use a bottle of lube to f-ck him?

You get my point. I think fatness is disgusting, but I don't think baldness is.

I've had enough cute girls while I was bald to know it's not a problem for a lot of women.

If it was OK for them, why can't it be OK for the majority of the girls out there?

Some of them choose to make it a problem, they decide to hate bald men. I have no respect for those women.

p**rn stars are being paid and have a much different perception of using their body than most people. Theres hot guys who plow fat women in p**rn. Do you think they find them attractive, its a pay check. Thats what fluffers are for lol.
Second whether I find baldness or fatness more repulsive is moot since Im not looking for a bald guy either way. I mean Fred would you REALLY pursue a bald girl? Nevermind fat, a NW7 bald girl? And she refused to wear a wig but just shaved it down?
How is that different than how a woman would view a bald man? You have to let go of the situation being about you and look at it as a whole. Women are not being "brainwashed" they are being told "its okay" to find bald guys unappealing. Todays media has just given them permission and the fact it also shows them a multitude of men to choose from out there makes matters worse.
Personally I find fat more disgusting but women will usually overlook some pudge on a guy, we get tainted because of our hair or height instead. Guess its a trade off. Just be glad youre over 6'. You have that going for you. Im well under. As a tall guy regardless of bald it opens more doors for you, even in just sheer numbers to pick from. You get all girls over 5-11+ I could never go for plus anything shorter than that as well.
"YOU" dont hink baldness is disgusting, because its YOU and youre a guy. Youre NOT a hot chick you want.
I personally find baldness disgusting. Its weak looking, all bald men I personally know are pathetic weak losers in life. It instantly affects your attractiveness level and once ONE ding is focused on then everything starts to fall apart. There are very few really attractive bald guys.
I think Billy Zane looks like a fuqing dufus bald personally.

I like how you also picked a movie star wearing a suit over a fat girl in a bra and panties.

why not just find a bald guys nobody pic sporting a horseshoe

 

[EvilLocks]

I mean Fred would you REALLY pursue a bald girl? Nevermind fat, a NW7 bald girl?

Wow, thanks. I guess there is no hope for me then.

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At least I'm not fat though.

 

[Pequod]

Do you guys find bald women attractive, that is probably a better comparison to bald men. Being fat is another issue that is easily fixed. Eat less and work out, you can't do that to grow hair.

 

[EvilLocks]

Do you guys find bald women attractive, that is probably a better comparison to bald men. Being fat is another issue that is easily fixed. Eat less and work out, you can't do that to grow hair.

I think I'm just going to lay down and give up now...

 

[Pequod]

I think I'm just going to lay down and give up now...

Haha, sorry didn't mean to depress anyone.

 

[EvilLocks]

Haha, sorry didn't mean to depress anyone.

No worries, but what you said is true so I guess that's depressing to hear for me as a balding woman.

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when I met my girlfriend, she had her hair almost buzzed due to a fashion shooting.

At least she can grow her hair back... If buzzing my hair would make it grow back normally I would go to the bathroom and buzz it NOW.

 

[swingline747]

I think I'm just going to lay down and give up now...

If you read my FULL comparison I made sure to take YOUR situation into account. Feel privileged its one of the few time I actually thought of someone before opening my fat thoughtless mouth . That was my good deed for the new year older and now its done.

 

[EvilLocks]

If you read my FULL comparison I made sure to take YOUR situation into account. Feel privileged its one of the few time I actually thought of someone before opening my fat thoughtless mouth . That was my good deed for the new year older and now its done.

I don't see where you "took my situation into account" in that comment but maybe I'm reading it wrong?

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From your old avatar, you obviously have other qualities that play in your favor. Don't think that baldness will cancel them all.

Yeah, I do have my body and face going for me, but the hair loss really ruins it for me. So how am I going to expect a guy to be attracted to that? I guess I can glue a hair piece to my head so that my future boyfriend will never see my bald head, but in the end I'll always be worried that he'll leave me for a full headed girl.