I Had An Epiphany. Confidence Does Matter, A Lot!

[hairblues]

When it comes to getting laid, women either look for unalterable traits (face, height, frame) that can be assessed in a heartbeat or for status indicators that will need to be assessed in a matter of days, weeks, sometimes months.

In the end, whether it's looks, money or status, it all has to be real. You can't fake your way into a woman's panties.

this is not always the case.

I have had a couple of men i thought initially unattractive get me wet in panties.
Its not the norm but it happens.

but i agree cant fake confidence.

 

[SmoothSailing]

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There's a lot of hypocrisy in men who want to have sex with 9's who also think that women don't care about looks.

IMO, women care as much as men do.

The 9 might be willing to settle for an 8.

I think that this often turns out to be the best way to think of things. How much do you care about a woman's "game"? Well women aren't far off that.

As I've said before it's really just about not being a social retard. So long as you've reached that point it's not going to make much of a difference.

 

[pjhair]

When it comes to getting laid, women either look for unalterable traits (face, height, frame) that can be assessed in a heartbeat or for status indicators that will need to be assessed in a matter of days, weeks, sometimes months.

In the end, whether it's looks, money or status, it all has to be real. You can't fake your way into a woman's panties.

Money or status may get women but I don't think they are near as powerful as looks when it comes to creating raw attraction. Looks is a weapon that works universally, not just on gold-diggers.

 

[pjhair]

I still believe it's impossible to get women that are out of your league when it comes to looks.

inb4 someone posts a picture of Flavio Briatore with a 20 year old glorified prostitute.

I agree with you. But I wouldn't use the word impossible. Some women may simply have different taste in men. Words like "impossible", "never", "always" are too restrictive and all it takes is a single counter example to refute the argument.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Priscilla Chan.

Melinda Gates.

Enough said.

Money and status don't help with non gold-diggers, you will still end up with your looksmatched.

I still believe it's impossible to get women that are out of your league when it comes to looks.

inb4 someone posts a picture of Flavio Briatore with a 20 year old glorified prostitute.

Not in Indian arranged marriages I learned the other day from @pjhair.

I think you can jump a few levels but it's rare. A 7/10 with money and status could land a 9 and genuinely attract her.

 

[hairblues]

Thinking has nothing to do with it.

Sexual attraction is not a conscious choice.

It's quite common to heat women ramble about this guy they fucked that they thought was not their type at all.

"He's ugly, I don't know what I saw in him!" as if sleeping with a guy was a rational decision.

Not how human mating works.

Do you realize that you saying this is one of the reasons the PUA scam is still alive and well?

All these gullible incels need is one glimmer of hope.

"Look, she said that she slept with an ugly guy because he could speak well! So it's possible! Take my 3000€!"

LOL no he was actually kind of ugly.

Like in my head i went "oh no this guy is trying to hit on me inner eye roll" because he like laser focused on me and was persistent.

he was not tall, he was chubby, he had bad hair, he had beady eyes, big nose, skinny lips.

But his personality was sexy. he kissed me and my toes curled.

It happens.. its not a 'rule' it's an exception to the rule.

ugliest guy i ever kissed and he got me wet for sure.

if he did not live in LA I would totally have dated him.

And i was about 26 at the time.

 

[pjhair]

Not in Indian arranged marriages I learned the other day from @pjhair.

I think you can jump a few levels but it's rare. A 7/10 with money and status could land a 9 and genuinely attract her.

Indian marriage. The women is a 53 years old actress.

 

[hairblues]

I laughed, too, when she wrote that she """thought""". Delusional women who really believe they actually consciously choose. Sexual attraction is all about looks, and genetics, as you rightly wrote many, many times. Pearls to swine.

is that your elegant way of calling me a pig?

 

[SmoothSailing]

Indian marriage. The women is a 53 years old actress.

It's kind of creepy to me to be honest. I just can't imagine her being attracted to him.

@hairblues you must admit that's a very rare thing. Probably not a thing you can train to do, and it's likely he was very lucky meeting you and it's not something that he can do to regularly get women.

 

[Swoop]

Looks, money and status. Just lol @ PUA.

 

[CopeForLife]

this is not always the case.

I have had a couple of men i thought initially unattractive get me wet in panties.
Its not the norm but it happens.

but i agree cant fake confidence.

I agree with guys that's not how it works, really.

Not connected with thinking process.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Thinking has nothing to do with it.

Sexual attraction is not a conscious choice.

It's quite common to heat women ramble about this guy they fucked that they thought was not their type at all.

"He's ugly, I don't know what I saw in him!" as if sleeping with a guy was a rational decision.

Not how human mating works.

Do you realize that you saying this is one of the reasons the PUA scam is still alive and well?

All these gullible incels need is one glimmer of hope.

"Look, she said that she slept with an ugly guy because he could speak well! So it's possible! Take my 3000€!"

Its a rational choice when you see they have kids on tinder.

I see kids and my brains screams, 'Swipe Left!!!!!'

 

[pjhair]

It's kind of creepy to me to be honest. I just can't imagine her being attracted to him.

Among all the men available to her. She chose him. They have been married for 22 years and have four kids.

Another Indian couple. The women is 43. Do you see a pattern?

 

[shookwun]

Y

Among all the men available to her. She chose him. They have been married for 22 years and have four kids.

Another Indian couple. The women is 43. Do you see a pattern?

Your north American Indian-ized women want us white guys


Its good thing because I have a thing for brown, ethnic pakistani and Indians types. The ones who were born here

 

[pjhair]

Y

Your north American Indian-ized women want us white guys

That's true. That applies to Indian men as well. They are naturally attracted to lighter skin.

 

[CopeForLife]

Y

Your north American Indian-ized women want us white guys


Its good thing because I have a thing for brown, ethnic pakistani and Indians types. The ones who were born here

browns are best tbh

asian mentality + not alien looks

not want indian male kid tho

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I have a stereotype in my mind that South Asian, and East Asian women care a lot more about status.

I don't know where I picked it up.

 

[pjhair]

I have a stereotype in my mind that South Asian, and East Asian women care a lot more about status.

I don't know where I picked it up.

Not sure about East Asian, but South Asian women care about status a lot. So do men. I have seen good looking men marrying ugly women for status/money.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Among all the men available to her. She chose him. They have been married for 22 years and have four kids.

Another Indian couple. The women is 43. Do you see a pattern?

She's a 10/10 for a 43 year-old.

 

[hairblues]

Hold it. I never meant it to be "elegant".

By the way, no, it's just a phrase. I should give up using the phrase "cast pearls before swine", every f*****g time I use it you call me out for allegedly calling you a pig, so I'm tired to repeat the same explanation/justification every time.

LOL ahh this is kind of nice of you.