I Had An Epiphany. Confidence Does Matter, A Lot!

[Afro_Vacancy]

Who, IRL, chose Brad Pitt before and Justin Theroux later, not David Schwimmer.

I used to find Jennifer Aniston super hot, then I got tired of her after Brangelina, the media has been saturated with Aniston for years.

 

[davesmith420]

I've posted some photos of myself on rankmyphotos.com to get an estimate.

Unfortunately their scores look meaningless, I'm rating some women now in the hope that I'll get more votes if I give more votes, and I see that almost all women are in the 4-8 range. That's not a great system.

What matters is your percentile, not your number.

I just made one of these accounts for kicks RIP my self esteem

 

[hairblues]

I used to find Jennifer Aniston super hot, then I got tired of her after Brangelina, the media has been saturated with Aniston for years.

I think she probably got tired of herself after Bradgalina.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I just made one of these accounts for kicks RIP my self esteem

I bet you're going to score 1.0-1.5 points higher than me.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

So you believe sexual attraction is pretty much 100% dictated by relativity + culture? I'm really not convinced about this. If every 'Chad' on the planet were to keel over and drop dead tomorrow, and then every 4-6 out of 10 followed suit leaving only the incels remaining, I do not believe a women could be even three quarters as sexually attracted to the new 2-3/10 chad than the original 8/10 one. Attractiveness is heavily influenced by biology, that's what all the literature tells us anyway. I'm not sure relativity can override this, not completely at least.

If all the Chads died, the women who had been with them would still remember. "Where have all the John Waynes gone" would be the most popular song on the radio.

What I meant was what if they had never been born.

Looks are relative. I find that obvious. That's why culture matters.

What do you give this woman out of 10?

In 16th century Italy, she was a 10.

 

[hairblues]

So you believe sexual attraction is pretty much 100% dictated by relativity + culture? I'm really not convinced about this. If every 'Chad' on the planet were to keel over and drop dead tomorrow, and then every 4-6 out of 10 followed suit leaving only the incels remaining, I do not believe a women could be even three quarters as sexually attracted to the new 2-3/10 chad than the original 8/10 one. Attractiveness is heavily influenced by biology, that's what all the literature tells us anyway. I'm not sure relativity can override this, not completely at least.

Nah, think about it

Tribes in remote areas..South American tribes I cant think what they are called (cannibals? LOL jk)
They are NOT attractive people but they are so remote and not exposed to 'us'.
They have no reference except there own people who to me and you are all so similar in looks.
But to them they probably have a way of differentiating what is distinctively more attractive in some females/males than others.
I mean men its easy because situations like that its going to be strength. Women probably signs of fertility.

we need an anthropologist on this site.

 

[hairblues]

If all the Chads died, the women who had been with them would still remember. "Where have all the John Waynes gone" would be the most popular song on the radio.

What I meant was what if they had never been born.

Looks are relative. I find that obvious. That's why culture matters.

What do you give this woman out of 10?

In 16th century Italy, she was a 10.

I don think she was considered a 10 i dont even think this painting was very famous until it was stolen.

 

[pjhair]

So you believe sexual attraction is pretty much 100% dictated by relativity + culture? I'm really not convinced about this. If every 'Chad' on the planet were to keel over and drop dead tomorrow, and then every 4-6 out of 10 followed suit leaving only the incels remaining, I do not believe a women could be even three quarters as sexually attracted to the new 2-3/10 chad than the original 8/10 one. Attractiveness is heavily influenced by biology, that's what all the literature tells us anyway. I'm not sure relativity can override this, not completely at least.

I think it's both, biology and culture(in the sense the women we have seen in our life) . I think Alexandra Daddario is the hottest women in world. Biology determined the features that I find attractive and she has them (such as her light skin, eyes, etc). However, I can easily imagine a women who, if she was real, I will find hotter than Daddario. Now in a world where every women looks like my imaginary women, Daddario will be below average.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Is there actually properly substantial evidence which proves that? But whatever, the odds are you're right. Given that, what would you suggest we try and shape our cultural standards of beauty into being? I'm interested to know what you'd advocate. From what you say, it sounds as though you're resigned to quite significant romantic inequalities being inevitable.

Instant media culture might exacerbate romantic inequalities by giving people a skewed perception of what's normal and what's expected. A world where this is somehow not as common would bring us back to normal. I'm pretty sure that we're seeing very recent rises in the rates of erectile dysfunction, and I presume incelism as well, due to facebook/twitter/instagram.

However there will always be inequalities unless we're all identical twins.

In a remote tribe, the tribesmen are attracted to their own people. Presumably due to the same factors we're attracted (secondary sexual characteristics, youth, status) but on their own scale. So if the tallest man there is 5'6, he's attractive for being tall. If the bustiest woman is a b-cup, she's attractive for being feminine.

 

[nameless]

You would be surprised. A friend of mine texted a women two times and she didn't respond. I told him to never text her again, he laughingly said to me, and I quote : "Man I have unlimited talk and text on my phone. It doesn't cost me anything to text her. So why shouldn't I?"

Behind his back she tells people that he's e-stalking her.

 

[pjhair]

What an idiot.

He was just inexperienced. He is really smart in other things such as his profession.

 

[nameless]

he is still holding out for those Miami University girls circa 1985...hes building a Delorean so he can go to 2025 get the cure--then go back to 1985 to re live the glory club days.

I'm not attracted to obese women. He's saying I should have sex with obese women.

 

[hairblues]

I'm not attracted to obese women. He's saying I should have sex with obese women.

I'm curious to see a photo of what you consider to be obese because there have been photos of women who are like size 6 photos and you tell us they are too fat or too big.

 

[nameless]

Truth lv 9000. Life isn't a fairy-tale and women aren't Disney princesses. Many (regrettably) are manipulative, feral creatures who don't know whether they're coming or going, and when they do then they're sure as hell making sure that you don't. They lie compulsively, cheat compulsively. Pj's advice here isn't pretty, but its practical. Men need to shrug off the motion-picture brainwashing and start facing up to reality. Coping gets you nowhere.

Women aren't Disney Princesses but they aren't monsters either. The problem with women is that they're like us. More accurately, they're like male Chads. The same as male Chads know lots of women want them, all women who are decent looking or better know that lots of men want them. They have vaginas and they know we like vaginas. This is why they are aloof, just like Chad men. They know they can get other men.

 

[hairblues]

this is modern day face type that renaissance idealized (i think from paintings)

(but many had fat bodies at least in paintings..i dont know why if this was just a sign of wealth and fertility or if this was really HOT to men at that time)

paintings

 

[nameless]

I'm curious to see a photo of what you consider to be obese because there have been photos of women who are like size 6 photos and you tell us they are too fat or too big.

Here's a pic of a fat woman and a lean woman.

 

[hairblues]

Here's a pic of a fat woman and a lean woman.

Okay THAT is definitely obese...that is actually heading into morbid obesity i am going to guess.

Sometimes though you act like women with normal size bodies are too big for you so it makes me wonder.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Here's a pic of a fat woman and a lean woman.

I wonder if that pic is real, it's too convenient.

 

[nameless]

Okay THAT is definitely obese...that is actually heading into morbid obesity i am going to guess.

Sometimes though you act like women with normal size bodies are too big for you so it makes me wonder.

Give me an example. Post a pic of what you call a normal sized woman in regular clothes and I will tell you if she seems fat.

 

[nameless]

This will do.