I Had An Epiphany. Confidence Does Matter, A Lot!

[hairblues]

This will do.

you just picked a calvin klein underwear model LOL

 

[nameless]

Okay THAT is definitely obese...that is actually heading into morbid obesity i am going to guess.

Sometimes though you act like women with normal size bodies are too big for you so it makes me wonder.

I don't want to be crushed. I want to have a crush but I don't want to actually be crushed.

 

[nameless]

This chick looks cool -

 

[pjhair]

Women aren't Disney Princesses but they aren't monsters either. The problem with women is that they're like us. More accurately, they're like male Chads. The same as male Chads know lots of women want them, all women who are decent looking or better know that lots of men want them. They have vaginas and they know we like vaginas. This is why they are aloof, just like Chad men. They know they can get other men.

Yes, women do have many options and that explains many things but we will be remiss to not recognize the physiological and psychological differences between man and women. In my experience, women do generally operate on emotions more than men. Their thought process is very different from us. Those differences play into every sphere of their lives, including dating.

 

[nameless]

you just picked a calvin klein underwear model LOL

I just want a normal shaped woman with nice boobs that are kind of big.

 

[hairblues]

This chick looks cool -

You keep picking models young enough to be your daughter.

 

[nameless]

You keep picking models young enough to be your daughter.

Like I said, I just want a normal sized woman with kind of big boobs.

Is that so much to ask for?

 

[hairblues]

Like I said, I just want a normal sized woman with kind of big boobs.

You need to go take a pilates class you will see plenty of women closer to your age with good bodies and big boobs unless you are in Walmart country.

 

[nameless]

You need to go take a pilates class you will see plenty of women closer to your age with good bodies and big boobs unless you are in Walmart country.

I've lost the majority of my hair. I'm not going to be able to get OK looking women with good breasts.

Thanks for your concern Hairblues. You're a nice gal.

The reality is that if I don't get my hair back I'll be alone. I accept that. And don't worry for me because lots of men before me have been alone for big parts of their lives due to disfigurements. I promise that I can handle it.

 

[hairblues]

I've lost the majority of my hair. I'm not going to be able to get OK looking women with good breasts.

Thanks for your concern Hairblues. You're a nice gal. The reality is that if I don't get my hair back I'll be alone. I accept that. And don't worry for me because lots of men before me have been alone for big parts of their lives due to disfigurement. I promise that I can handle it.

Im not concerned for you--you are a big boy.

Im baffled when i read some of your posts to be very honest because it seems like "no one wants me' what is your average type? "girls half my age posing in catalogues and swimsuits."

It at least comes off kind of delusional.

 

[nameless]

Im not concerned for you--you are a big boy.

Im baffled when i read some of your posts to be very honest because it seems like "no one wants me' what is your average type? "girls half my age posing in catalogues and swimsuits."

It at least comes off kind of delusional.

I never said "no one wants me". I always say there are a few women who want to get together with me but I'm not attracted to them.

I'd just rather be alone than be with someone I'm not attracted to. Would you rather be with someone you're totally unattracted to or be alone?

 

[nameless]

Hairblues, in the eyes of women I moved way down the 1-10 scale because I've lost my hair. So obese women figure I'm matched well for them. But it's not the same thing. A disfigurement was imposed on me. But their disfigurements were not imposed on them. I can't open my heart to them because they are choosing to be obese.

 

[hairblues]

I never said "no one wants me". I always say there are a few women who want to get together with me but I'm not attracted to them.

I'd just rather be alone than be with someone I'm not attracted to. Would you rather be with someone you're totally unattracted to or be alone?

I understand that but your parameters are a HUGE obese woman who is probably close to 300 pounds and models from catalogues who are half your age....somewhere in between this is a lot of space.

 

[nameless]

I understand that but your parameters are a HUGE obese woman who is probably close to 300 pounds and models from catalogues who are half your age....somewhere in between this is a lot of space.

Oh. Now I see your point.

Well I wanted to post pics of women I think look good so I googled "women who look good" and those women's pics came up.

Of course in my real life I'm not holding out for models who are half my age, hair or no hair. But those are the pics that came up in my google search.

Let me do another search to see if I can find some women I would realistically be cool with even if I had my hair. I see women in stores all the time that I think are sexy and they aren't model looking women. I can't tell you how many times I've seen reasonably attractive women in stores who aren't wearing rings and I've thought to myself, "If I only had my hair!"

Because I'm posting pics of these young models you're getting the wrong idea of what women I could be happy with. I'll try another search on the internet for women that I find realistically attractive.

 

[hairblues]

Oh. Now I see your point.

Well I wanted to post pics of women I think look good so I googled "women who look good" and those women's pics came up.

Of course in my real life I'm not holding out for models who are half my age, hair or no hair. But those are the pics that came up in my google search.

Let me do another search to see if I can find some women I would realistically be cool with even if I had my hair. I see women in stores all the time that I think are sexy and they aren't model looking women. I can't tell you how many times I've seen reasonably attractive women in stores who aren't wearing rings and I've thought to myself, "If I only had my hair!"

Because I'm posting pics of these young models you're getting the wrong idea of what women I could be happy with. I'll try another search on the internet for women that I find realistically attractive.

okay i understand

 

[hairblues]

@nameless did you see Follocer is doing a presentation in Florida March.

 

[nameless]

Here's an attractive middle-aged woman that I could be cool with if I got my hair back.

 

[nameless]

Here's another attractive middle-aged woman that I could be cool with if I got my hair back.

 

[nameless]

Hair loss!!

I don't hold it against women if they lose some hair.

I think she's cute and sexy.

 

[blackg]

@Dante92 ,

Which is the better film:

The Force Awakens,
Or Rogue One?

The Star Wars Holiday Special beats them all.