I Had An Epiphany. Confidence Does Matter, A Lot!

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I don't hold it against women if they lose hair.

I think she's cute and sexy.

you are complicated because wasn't it just a few weeks ago you were obsessed if a young sexy girl was wearing a hair pieces/system it would freak you out?
 

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wasn't it just a few weeks ago you were obsessed if a young sexy girl was wearing a hair pieces/system it would freak you out?

No. I don't think I said that.

If I did say that I would have to know the specific circumstances when I said that. Please show me the post.
 
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Hairblues, I think that when I said I would feel something negative if a young woman was wearing a hairpiece I meant before I myself experienced hair loss.
 

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I think men care less about women's hair than the other way around.
 

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Here's another attractive middle-aged woman that I could be cool with if I got my hair back.

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it is not middle aged...
 

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I think men care less about women's hair than the other way around.

I agree.

Hairblues asked me to pick out women I find sexy and I could pursue if I got my hair back. I picked a woman who is missing some hair and honestly, I didn't give it any thought that she's missing some hair. Truth to tell, her pic turned me on. I think she's cute and sexy.
 
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No, you did not.
Then you admitted that, as long as she kept the wig on, sex would be fine.

Please show me the post. I can't remember it completely and I recall it a little different.

Firstly, I did not say I'd "freak out" because a woman was missing hair. I said I would feel differently about the way she looks with hair if I knew her hair is a hairpiece. And I said that in regards to EvilLock's situation.

Secondly, I was not obsessed with the issue. I forgot all about the issue. If I had been obsessed with it I wouldn't have forgotten it.

Thirdly, the middle-aged woman I posted a pic of is missing some hair, not a lot of hair. It's not the same if a woman is missing some hair versus missing a lot of hair.
 
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Psa & Hairblues Are you to trying to say you feel the same way about a bald man as you would if he had his hair. Please!!!!

That aside, now I remember the issue you're talking about. I was talking to EvilLocks. EvilLocks said she would keep it from her man that she wears a hairpiece. She said that if she let him know her hair wasn't real he would feel differently about her ATTRACTIVENESS. I agreed with her then. And I still do now.

I never said her man would feel differently about HER because that would depend on the man. I was talking about her attractiveness.

EvilLocks wants the magic of her attractiveness to work a beautiful spell on her man. She believes that if her man finds out that her attractiveness comes (in part) from a hairpiece it will kill some of the magic...and the spell the magic worked on him will wear off some. And he might never feel the same magical way about her attractiveness again. I think she's right. I think she will get the most amount of magic out of her hairpiece if her man does not know it's a hairpiece. I think her strategy is a good strategy and I told her so. I was giving her the best advice I could.
 
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Harassing a lady at such morning hour should be punished with death penalty.


LOL

Questions: Do you tell people that your wearing a hairpiece? If you don't, then why not?

Answer: Because you want them to feel the full magic of your attractiveness and you think they won't feel all of that magic if you tell them you wear a hairpiece.
 
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I don't tell people I wear a hair piece, because I don't wear a hair peace.

Oh.

At any rate, EvilLocks told us her strategy is to keep her hairpiece a secret from men she dates and I think her strategy is the smartest possible strategy in her situation. I wasn't going to lie to her and advise her to tell men the truth knowing that deep down inside I think her strategy is the best strategy for her. I was trying to give her the best advice I could.

15 - 20 years ago I tried a hairpiece for a few months and I did not tell anyone it was a hairpiece because I believed that if they knew it was a hairpiece then it wouldn't have the affect on them that I wanted it to have on them. That's what I believe. Should I have lied to EvilLocks?
 
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And when I told EvilLocks what I told her, it applied to her in the context of the younger men she would date. That advice was for a woman (EvilLocks) in her very early 20s who would be dating men in their very early 20s. That advice would not necessarily apply to women in their 30s and 40s who would be dating men in their 30s and 40s. It's not the same.
 
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I think men care less about women's hair than the other way around.

Not at all. It's just men are more willing to accept 'cheats' such as wigs or hair pieces. Guys don't care if the girls in insecure about her looks, girls do care if guys are insecure about their looks.

You think? Surely not 100%? You think a world full of solely chads and stacys then would be every bit as sexless (and sexually asymmetric) as the one we live in now? I can see how hierarchies would still form (they'd be alphas and betas etc.) but at least this future society's equivalent of the 3/10s would still be exceptionally attractive, and thus able to have fulfilling and rewarding relationships/sex with each other, even if the even more attractive 'alpha's' don't want them?

I've thought about this before and I really do think it's largely relative.

If every guy balded at 20 there would still be chads, and incels.

If balding was completely cured there will still likely be a similar amount of incels. Maybe NW2 becomes the new NW3. Maybe girls just become more critical of other attributes. It would be a win for bald guys, but short or ugly fullheads would be worse off, as hair is no longer an advantage to them.

It's a competition. If all girls stopped wearing makeup tomorrow they'd still all get the same guys.

I think the only way to reduce the amount of incels is for guys appearances to become more uniform. If we were all the same height, same hair, same facial structure, same frame, then there'd be far fewer incels. But so long as we differ on some of these attributes there will always be a bottom 20% on undesirables and a top 20% of chads.
 
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