"i Wanted To Shave My Head, But My Girlfriend Wouldn't Let Me"

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What was the Bucky finasteride side again?

Telogen Effluvium, drastic scalp inflammation, the type that would literally make you want to swallow your gun, rapid fluctuations in libido, watery semen, enough face and forehead grease to cook a f*****g frittata, sleeplessness, followed by fatigue... and of course the worst part, I lost 50% density all over in one year. (or as they say on these forums - no side effects at all, because my dick didn't go limp).
 

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Thread should be renamed : "I wanted to shave my pussy but my girlfriend wouldn't let me."

hahaha... truth. One thing I've learned throughout the last three years is I will not let some b**ch dictate my life, in any way. It's sad, because I literally see it happen to my friends everyday.
 

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I havent shared up close pics under light with anyone because I am ashamed of this. I would say hop on finasteride to atleast maintain for a couple of years even with terrible sides (Im sure it aint that bad if you accept them I have them as well).

Can you imagine a sideless maintainance treatment (brotzu, sammumed coming out) but you dont have any hair left??

I have other issues as well but going bald would wreck me completely.

I am the same way. I already have mentally crippling body issues. Going bald with a bad transplant and a six inch scar is just f*****g wrecking me.
 

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hahaha... truth. One thing I've learned throughout the last three years is I will not let some b**ch dictate my life, in any way. It's sad, because I literally see it happen to my friends everyday.

Further truth.

At 30 I'm realising the only way I'll properly have control over a woman is if I date 2 or even 3 points lower than what I'm used to.

Even if she's initially desperate for you, even if she falls in love, once she's hooked you and you are comfortable in a relationship, she'll get the power in the end. You'll always be aware that even if you have a lot of other options, she, as a hot girl, could literally go in a bar or club on her own and pull a legit hot guy literally within a minute, just by looking at him.

It's a f*****g joke.

I dunno maybe I'm just venting. More beer for me.
 

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Further truth.

At 30 I'm realising the only way I'll properly have control over a woman is if I date 2 or even 3 points lower than what I'm used to.

Even if she's initially desperate for you, even if she falls in love, once she's hooked you and you are comfortable in a relationship, she'll get the power in the end. You'll always be aware that even if you have a lot of other options, she, as a hot girl, could literally go in a bar or club on her own and pull a legit hot guy literally within a minute, just by looking at him.

It's a f*****g joke.

I dunno maybe I'm just venting. More beer for me.

I don't think at this point I could ever date an attractive woman. Even though I know I have a ton of good qualities, I just also know that she will see that 6'0" ripped NW1 at a bar during girls night and throw everything away in two f*****g minutes. This is just the way I perceive 99% of good looking women. Spoiled, entitled, and always wanting something more. It's a shame I feel this way. oh well. I've learned to do ok without women. Haven't had sex (or any physical attention) in seven months now. Vent away man. That's the point here. :)
 

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I don't think at this point I could ever date an attractive woman. Even though I know I have a ton of good qualities, I just also know that she will see that 6'0" ripped NW1 at a bar during girls night and throw everything away in two f*****g minutes. This is just the way I perceive 99% of good looking women. Spoiled, entitled, and always wanting something more. It's a shame I feel this way. oh well. I've learned to do ok without women. Haven't had sex (or any physical attention) in seven months now. Vent away man. That's the point here. :)

I will! Thank you.

I don't normally deal with my problems by drinking and posting on HairLossTalk.com, but a girl I was seeing for about 2 months, just openly pulled another guy last night right in front of me. I think they talked for like 20 minutes. sh*t hurts.

She's apologised for the way it happened, her round-a-bout excuse? I fucked one of her best friends like 6 months ago, before I even knew she liked me, and this means I "dis-respected her". This actually makes sense in her head.

I was actually the one who decided to cool things off last week, because it's affecting another girl separate from the whole thing above, but I did tell her I really liked her and maybe this can work out soon, and yeah, bar situation, she see's some floppy haired indie type guy (her type, fair enough) and that's that. I don't think I'll recover from this in seeing her the same way.

More beer.
 

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I just walk away once something like that happens.
Leaves a lot of angry girls behind though, because they don't even understand the problem.
Anyway didn't date since last summer.
 

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Further truth.

At 30 I'm realising the only way I'll properly have control over a woman is if I date 2 or even 3 points lower than what I'm used to.

Even if she's initially desperate for you, even if she falls in love, once she's hooked you and you are comfortable in a relationship, she'll get the power in the end. You'll always be aware that even if you have a lot of other options, she, as a hot girl, could literally go in a bar or club on her own and pull a legit hot guy literally within a minute, just by looking at him.

It's a f*****g joke.

I dunno maybe I'm just venting. More beer for me.
I've always dated 5s and 6s so if I went 3 points later I would be sleeping with this:

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And i'd much sooner choose celibacy.

I'm hoping that I will always be able to date average women even with no hair.
 

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I think it's a culture shock for the girls. My girl is Rican so for the longest time was telling me to shave it. I did and she liked it for a while then like women got bored and I grew it back. She saw a bad pic of me shaved once a bit ago and told me "you know I like your head shaved but then a pic like this shows up and ahh".

She wasn't being mean or nasty just making a comment.

If I was the guy I'd just do it. Don't let your girl dictate whether you should or shouldn't.

I remember when my hair was good it's was almost unheard to have a genuinely bad pic. Once recession starts though it's unheard to get a good one.
 

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Not if she's really into you. It's important not to dismiss all good looking girls as superficial and unloyal.

You are right but these women are unicorn rare.

I've thought the "she's really into me" line many times, and even if she is genuinely really into me, something inside a lot of women tells them they need extra power and leverage in a relationship.

Possibly I need to date older and more mature women.
 

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You are right but these women are unicorn rare.

I've thought the "she's really into me" line many times, and even if she is genuinely really into me, something inside a lot of women tells them they need extra power and leverage in a relationship.

Possibly I need to date older and more mature women.
Do you want kids?

I think at 30 this is your biggest call because if you want them then older women are probably out of the question.
 

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Do you want kids?

I think at 30 this is your biggest call because if you want them then older women are probably out of the question.

I didn't mean older than me, just older than the girls I've dated (normally 22-25).

And yeah I want kids some day.
 

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If someone told me not to shave my head, I would ask for a second opinion, from someone
who they didn't know.

And if multiple people say it looks bad on you, it's probably a not a good decision. On the other hand,
if most of the people say yes, it could be because they are tired of being asked. Or it could be that
you should do it.

And if was my own boss, I wouldn't give a f***. But I'm not.

The truth is this: Everybody HAS TO BE HAPPY WITH THEIR OWN APPEARANCE. Easier said than
done, I know this from life.
 

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I am the same way. I already have mentally crippling body issues. Going bald with a bad transplant and a six inch scar is just f*****g wrecking me.

sorry society and your genes have cooked up this nightmare for you things do get better. is there anything that still makes you feel happy?
 

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sorry society and your genes have cooked up this nightmare for you things do get better. is there anything that still makes you feel happy?

EVERY THING makes me feel happy, that's the fucked up part. I have an "amazing life", but this f*****g disfigurement does not allow me to enjoy it, at all. I can't even walk outside without a hat. In short, I love life, but I f*****g hate myself.

-BTW, Your profile pic is f*****g AMAZING! :D
 

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I will! Thank you.

I don't normally deal with my problems by drinking and posting on HairLossTalk.com, but a girl I was seeing for about 2 months, just openly pulled another guy last night right in front of me. I think they talked for like 20 minutes. sh*t hurts.

She's apologised for the way it happened, her round-a-bout excuse? I fucked one of her best friends like 6 months ago, before I even knew she liked me, and this means I "dis-respected her". This actually makes sense in her head.

I was actually the one who decided to cool things off last week, because it's affecting another girl separate from the whole thing above, but I did tell her I really liked her and maybe this can work out soon, and yeah, bar situation, she see's some floppy haired indie type guy (her type, fair enough) and that's that. I don't think I'll recover from this in seeing her the same way.

More beer.

Wait, you were with a girl you've been dating for 2 months at a bar (and she knows you've been dating, right? It's not one of those "you think it's a date but she thinks you're a friend" situations, right?), and she chats up some random dude for 20+ minutes - with you not being part of the conversation, presumably - and also "pulls" him (I'm assuming this means that you have other evidence that she either asked him for a number, hooked up with him or whatever), and you still talk with this girl?
 

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EVERY THING makes me feel happy, that's the fucked up part. I have an "amazing life", but this f*****g disfigurement does not allow me to enjoy it, at all. I can't even walk outside without a hat. In short, I love life, but I f*****g hate myself.

-BTW, Your profile pic is f*****g AMAZING! :D

Glad to hear you have a great life. If you want to shave your head, f*****g do it!

Don't worry about what others think. Gotta do what's good for yourself.
 

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Glad to hear you have a great life. If you want to shave your head, f*****g do it!

Don't worry about what others think. Gotta do what's good for yourself.

dang man, everyone will give you sh*t for this... but it's the Goddamn honest truth. I would f*****g LOVE to shave this f*****g bullshit off.
 
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