Wait, you were with a girl you've been dating for 2 months at a bar (and she knows you've been dating, right? It's not one of those "you think it's a date but she thinks you're a friend" situations, right?), and she chats up some random dude for 20+ minutes - with you not being part of the conversation, presumably - and also "pulls" him (I'm assuming this means that you have other evidence that she either asked him for a number, hooked up with him or whatever), and you still talk with this girl?
Oh man, did you find a Cuck Filter to put over the story I painted? But fair enough I can see why you'd read it that way.
However I wasn't
with the girl, I didn't arrange to meet her or arrive with her, a lot of people I know were out and I saw her. I said hello and she initiated further conversation which surprised me, in the middle of it she just took off. She wasn't quite herself during our fairly brief chat. Then a little bit later she's talking to a guy, not far from me, it seems like she went over to him, didn't kiss him or anything but just left and he seemed to follow. Now she's claiming they went outside and nothing happened, went their separate ways which apparently confused the f*** out of him (no doubt). She decided not to tell me this when I was upset the other day and instead she just let me stew, because she thought I was trying it on with another girl earlier (just a friend I was talking to that she didn't know) and I didn't even know she saw this.
So she was upset because I wanted a break from each other last week, for different reasons, she didn't quite admit how upset she was about this, at the time seemed understanding, but she also thought I was going around trying to bang other women, and was happy to make me feel jealous. Game playing nonsense. Possibly she did just bang a stranger, but even before we got together and her "spell" was cast upon me, I really wouldn't put her down as someone who would randomly sleep with someone (she liked me for a long time and it still took a decent amount of time and effort to get us together).
And no there were no friend zone fake "dates" in fact there hasn't been one public date, just casual sex which only a handful of people know was going on.
But christ, if that situation you just described had happened, never mind the context of me being a guy who considers terminology of "seeing a girl" as meeting a female friend out for "dates", watching her take off with some dude, this is all too depressing. If that becomes my life after baldness then I'm going to see out my days in the wilderness, alone with p**rn and kindling.
Now off the topic of my Dawson's Creek-esque love life- the above brings to mind a fairly related anecdote to being a beta-cuck, not related to baldness:
That same night as I talked to aforementioned female friend I haven't really spoken to in a few years, who's at least 8/10 gorgeous (has long term boyfriend), and in the middle of talking to her sitting at the bar, this guy intervened to tell me how lucky I must feel to have the most beautiful girl in the club.
So this instantly seemed pathetic, then I thought "ahhh this is some sneaky risk tactic, he's thinking- 'if they aren't going out, my intervening compliment will score me this chick'.
It's a convoluted tactic but I liked the ambition, and me and her obviously weren't being affectionate or touching, so maybe he did feel the "friend" vibe and wanted to capitalise on the situation.
But no, I was wrong, and humanity took another hit.
He said this spiel "you really are a lucky man" a few more times, neither me or her cared and continued trying to chat, and then I decided f*** it, I'll just make it clear that we aren't dating as this is getting weird. The guy then apologises, he actually did think we were going out, and just wanted me to be aware I'm a lucky man, he then turned back to trying to get a drink.
I mean f***, it's not even like he was particularly ugly (OK maybe a little below average) but how pathetic are dudes getting, taking a moment out of his night to congratulate a guy on what he thought was his hot girlfriend, right in front of her, and then he can go back to being a humble little wanker. So desperate to play any kind of weak part in a pretty girl's life, while some other dude gets to f*** her.
I don't think I'm able to really get across into words why this disgusts me so much, maybe that even from an incel's point of view I could never understand why any man would want to do this. I can only imagine that if this is normal to someone, they literally must have some kind of cuck issue, getting off on the idea of being the pathetic complimenting stranger and going home alone, while the attractive people f***.
I jest.
