I went to the gym today - no more pubs

[Oknow]

Seems like a post straight out of some incel forum (hairlosstalk is basically an incel forum at this point) but there is definitely some truth in this. Especially the part about being ethnic is underestimated. Every guy I see who has a decent looking/cute gf irl is white (often blonde), decent facial aeathetics, good hair density and tall (at least taller than her), while I see tons and tons of lonely ethnic guys, some manage to get a gf of the same nationality.

as an ethnic probably could have a white GF by now and have been in relationships with white Women in the past, it’s not that difficult , heck got 2 new matches today

lots of ethnics usually date their own type because they want to be with someone of a similar cultural background for a long term relationship.

for example, if the guy is a Muslim and faith is important, he probably wants to raise his kids as one and keep his parents happy, not going to find many white Women that are practicing Muslims

 

[Oknow]

yeah and as i said, even white doesnt have it easy... you get the ones that want to live in the west, or have been living in the west and of course also the fatties and i swear most white dudes gf is about 8 years older (average), or thai/philipina...

dating is just hard to be honest

it’s a tedious process, I’ve had lots of opportunities to settle down but it all comes down to what you value

being very physically attracted to my partner plus maturity, intelligence is important to me

the problem I’ve found is where you often meet someone that doesn’t have all the attributes you are looking for, either they are not attractive but have a great personality or attractive but lack on the personality side

it’s hard

 

[vondoom]

dating is just hard to be honest

it’s a tedious process, I’ve had lots of opportunities to settle down but it all comes down to what you value

being very physically attracted to my partner plus maturity, intelligence is important to me

the problem I’ve found is where you often meet someone that doesn’t have all the attributes you are looking for, either they are not attractive but have a great personality or attractive but lack on the personality side

it’s hard

i got to say i am usually bored pretty fast... can look as good as they want to, when im bored after a few meetings, or it turns out they like to spend a lot of time on the couch and only want to go to restaurant, im out^^

 

[DoctorHouse]

dating is just hard to be honest

it’s a tedious process, I’ve had lots of opportunities to settle down but it all comes down to what you value

being very physically attracted to my partner plus maturity, intelligence is important to me

the problem I’ve found is where you often meet someone that doesn’t have all the attributes you are looking for, either they are not attractive but have a great personality or attractive but lack on the personality side

it’s hard

Ever notice when you find both, they are already "taken"?

 

[Oknow]

Ever notice when you find both, they are already "taken"?

Pretty much

 

[Diffused_confidence]

You got this from that Black pill channel on youtube, it got recommended to me the other day aswell. Well I do agree for the most part on the Subfive scope, there are always exceptions to the rule. Some dudes just have no awareness or care about these undesirable traits, or they are really just good at hiding it. Because they find girls, have decent relationships an families.

Yup wheat waffles. Though his acronym is a little different as he has fat and vulnerable (old) in his, which is true but frame is ruined by fat and you can be thin with poor frame. Old is bad but being a virgin is probably a lot worse past a certain age. Women can smell inexperience a mile away and it is a MAJOR turn off.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Yup wheat waffles. Though his acronym is a little different as he has fat and vulnerable (old) in his, which is true but frame is ruined by fat and you can be thin with poor frame. Old is bad but being a virgin is probably a lot worse past a certain age. Women can smell inexperience a mile away and it is a MAJOR turn off.

is wheatwaffles videos legit?

 

[Diffused_confidence]

is wheatwaffles videos legit?

He has the blackpill down to a science. He even interviewed a woman who basically admitted everything because when you present evidence the women can't virtue signal their way out.

 

[Feelsbadman]

He has the blackpill down to a science. He even interviewed a woman who basically admitted everything because when you present evidence the women can't virtue signal their way out.

i agree and it was what my real life experience was as well (when i manipulated my looks so i looked like a chad)

 

[Norwoodcel]

I think location is definitely a factor if you are an ethnic minority

I live in London, people here are generally a lot more open minded than in other parts of the world

I’m sure I would have a lot less success where you are, given Asians are strongly prejudice and it’s frowned upon to date outside their race (unless white)

London is brutal as hell.

Its full of male immigrants so the gender ratio is screwed up.

I remember walking around when i was down there checking out the outside bars and need i gardens.. All complete sausage fests.

 

[vondoom]

London is brutal as hell.

Its full of male immigrants so the gender ratio is screwed up.

I remember walking around when i was down there checking out the outside bars and need i gardens.. All complete sausage fests.

yeah sausage fest everywhere... here its halfway okay, but women dont really give most dudes any chance to talk...
when i was still in europe over ten years ago, that was already sausage fest everywhere^^

 

[b4sedt0ny]

what race are you

no doubt it’s harder, but not impossible

There are lots of women who are open to dating outside of their race, usually you find with the ones that do that they have a dark skin fettish and have a history of dating black or brown men (if white)

There is a reason why interracial p**rn is popular

Mixed black white cel the problem is I am also poorcel, norwoodcel, locationcel and non neurotypical cel meaning I can't thugmax to attract low class white women. The ones with fetishism usually only go for low inhib black / mixed men. High class or average white women don't date black / mixed men. Mixed race or black women only date white men.

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

Today is the first day i went to the gym.. i am going to make it a 30 day thing.

I did 10 minutes on the running machine,
30 mins on the cycling

I wanted to go on the rowing machine but it looked a bit complicated.. i thought maybe i'd sit on it and it wouldn't work making me look like a tit. Ive been watching youtube videos about this specific model so next time I'll be ok

I stayed well away from the weight lifting section (for now). I saw the gymcels doing their thing which gave me a chuckle.. None of them were tall chads.. al short and/or bald

hopefully my bodyfat % goes down so my double chin goes and i can jawlinemaxx

cringe. You are a balding incel who does granny aerobics and is too insecure to use the rowing machines and tells himself he is better than people doing weightlifting.
You are exactly like me when I was 19 and started working out while have no idea what the f*** I was doing which gives me extra cringe flashbacks on top of the first layer of cringe.

 

[Norwoodcel]

cringe. You are a balding incel who does granny aerobics and is too insecure to use the rowing machines and tells himself he is better than people doing weightlifting.
You are exactly like me when I was 19 and started working out while have no idea what the f*** I was doing which gives me extra cringe flashbacks on top of the first layer of cringe.

I am not better than anyone, but i am blackpilled and see things for how it is.

If i saw a Chad weightlifting with a good frame, id think - Fair play.. he's gymaxxing to his full potential.

But no.. i saw bald and/or manlets coping hard transforming themselves into circus characters and figures of amusement.

 

[Oknow]

I am not better than anyone, but i am blackpilled and see things for how it is.

If i saw a Chad weightlifting with a good frame, id think - Fair play.. he's gymaxxing to his full potential.

But no.. i saw bald and/or manlets coping hard transforming themselves into circus characters and figures of amusement.

lol

what a fool

lifting weights is not all about looksmaxxxing, it’s also about building strength and generally being stronger

 

[Norwoodcel]

lol

what a fool

lifting weights is not all about looksmaxxxing, it’s also about building strength and generally being stronger

Whats the point? If you need to be strong because of your job, you will naturally gain strength by doing your work..

 

[doubleindemnity]

lol

what a fool

lifting weights is not all about looksmaxxxing, it’s also about building strength and generally being stronger

Yes but when does it become just strength for the sake of it rather than applicable strength? If you can bench press 100kg, do you really need to bulk up, gain weight to bench press 120kg? If you can squat 120kg, do you really need to work up and put extra stress on your back to squat up to 160kg? And these aren't even such heavy weights according to some people.

I think that I agree with @Norwoodcel to an extent. Bodybuilding and strength training should only be for one's own enjoyment. Nobody is going to consider you more attractive or respectable for it if you're bald and, if you're not, you have your hair to fall back on anyway. The strength has limited applicability unless you are training a sport or athletic skill alongside it e.g. long jump. Yes it does improve health and increase your theoretical life span but... do you really want that? Health is extremely important but the best exercise for health seems to be high intensity cardio, and not many people perform that.

 

[Norwoodcel]

In my early 20's i did the whole bodybuilding thing.. I had decent results.. Only made it up to Brad Pitt in fightclub level

It was a ballache looking back.. all that food i had to stuff myself full of, creatine, whey powder supplements etc.. it becomes an obsession.
I'm an ectomorph framecel. People like me are running the race uphill as opposed to natural chad framed people.

My goals now are just to get lean and defined, get rid of my belly and lose the double chin. There are other benefits as well like getting rid of depression and making the skin look nice

 

[Oknow]

Yes but when does it become just strength for the sake of it rather than applicable strength? If you can bench press 100kg, do you really need to bulk up, gain weight to bench press 120kg? If you can squat 120kg, do you really need to work up and put extra stress on your back to squat up to 160kg? And these aren't even such heavy weights according to some people.

I think that I agree with @Norwoodcel to an extent. Bodybuilding and strength training should only be for one's own enjoyment. Nobody is going to consider you more attractive or respectable for it if you're bald and, if you're not, you have your hair to fall back on anyway. The strength has limited applicability unless you are training a sport or athletic skill alongside it e.g. long jump. Yes it does improve health and increase your theoretical life span but... do you really want that? Health is extremely important but the best exercise for health seems to be high intensity cardio, and not many people perform that.

I don’t know about you but the reasons why I go to the gym :

- the pump, the pump feels amazing

- relieve stress. Whenever I’m stressed out, going to the gym and lifting wonders does wonders to destress me

- look better, there is no better feeling than wearing a t shirt or shirt that actually fills out and fits you properly once you get into better shape

- general health reasons

no I don’t think you need to be squatting 160kg , just need to be fit - my fitness goal is being athletic

 

[doubleindemnity]

I don’t know about you but the reasons why I go to the gym :

- the pump, the pump feels amazing

- relieve stress. Whenever I’m stressed out, going to the gym and lifting wonders does wonders to destress me

- look better, there is no better feeling than wearing a t shirt or shirt that actually fills out and fits you properly once you get into better shape

- general health reasons

no I don’t think you need to be squatting 160kg , just need to be fit - my fitness goal is being athletic

Just for the sake of argument... if you want to be athletic why not practice athletics? Long jump, sprint, high jump, javelin... some of these you can do with not much equipment. For me it only adds to my stress and I look forward to my days off when I can sit back and enjoy TV or books. I disagree that it makes one look better; one always falls or rises to the attractiveness level of their hair in my opinion. If @Norwoodcel doesn't like it, there are plenty of alternatives that he might prefer. I just don't like the idea of gymgoers thinking that they are better than non gymgoers.