I will probably kill myself within a couple of years at this point

[DoctorHouse]

Thanks bro, I really appreciate your (and the other users) genuine attempt at helping me. For now ig I need to severely work on my low self-esteem/self-confidence

Just remember I was once where you were when I was even younger than you. I still struggle with low self esteem/self-confidence in certain social situations. But on here I feel acceptance. And in real life I seek the same type of people I find here. You just need to do the same. Surround yourself by people who actually appreciate you for you. I would be so proud to have a son like you and I am sure deep down inside in their own crazy way, your parents would say the same if you were gone.

 

[whatintheworld]

Dude there is no point to give up...as long as you have hope for something, money can solve a lot of your issues...

You can change your geographic location, start a new life somewhere else, study hard and financial pathways will open up for you and your life will be 1000x better.

 

[vondoom]

@vondoom

im waiting for the pick up stories... thats what everybody is here for..

 

[Baldingtooyoung]

you should consider seeing a therapist , to help you deal with your issues

Bro i've been telling him that but he just wants to be sorry.

I've been beaten over and over again by my alcoholic father (who was without a job and drinking allday) as a child and he died when i was 14. My mum was a cleaning lady and already divorced him for some years then.
So we grew up poor asf as one of the only white kids in a black Neighbourhood. My dad never gave me something unless hands. I've been adddicted to weed for +6 years and always felt sorry for myself.

I am 26 now and sold my first company. Build another company (and do some freelancing as well). Have +60K euros in the bank + assets I get montly fees on without doing anything.
I went from the lowest education to achieving a bachelor. And (because you guys care so much about f*****g girls apparantly) fucked straight 10/10s.

Quit feeling f*****g sorry for yourself and man the f*** up calilou. It's YOUR life. It's in YOUR control. If you say "i've been destined too..." Or blame your cirquimstanses, you will achieve NOTHING in your life.

Just get tf out there, have some fun, make some money and live to the fullest. Because we will be old or death way faster then we all realize. It's your choice. Lose the loser attitude.

 

[Caillou]

Bro i've been telling him that but he just wants to be sorry.

I've been beaten over and over again by my alcoholic father (who was without a job and drinking allday) as a child and he died when i was 14. My mum was a cleaning lady and already divorced him for some years then.
So we grew up poor asf as one of the only white kids in a black Neighbourhood. My dad never gave me something unless hands. I've been adddicted to weed for +6 years and always felt sorry for myself.

I am 26 now and sold my first company. Build another company (and do some freelancing as well). Have +60K euros in the bank + assets I get montly fees on without doing anything.
I went from the lowest education to achieving a bachelor. And (because you guys care so much about f*****g girls apparantly) fucked straight 10/10s.

Quit feeling f*****g sorry for yourself and man the f*** up calilou. It's YOUR life. It's in YOUR control. If you say "i've been destined too..." Or blame your cirquimstanses, you will achieve NOTHING in your life.

Just get tf out there, have some fun, make some money and live to the fullest. Because we will be old or death way faster then we all realize. It's your choice. Lose the loser attitude.

I will try

 

[DoctorHouse]

Bro i've been telling him that but he just wants to be sorry.

I've been beaten over and over again by my alcoholic father (who was without a job and drinking allday) as a child and he died when i was 14. My mum was a cleaning lady and already divorced him for some years then.
So we grew up poor asf as one of the only white kids in a black Neighbourhood. My dad never gave me something unless hands. I've been adddicted to weed for +6 years and always felt sorry for myself.

I am 26 now and sold my first company. Build another company (and do some freelancing as well). Have +60K euros in the bank + assets I get montly fees on without doing anything.
I went from the lowest education to achieving a bachelor. And (because you guys care so much about f*****g girls apparantly) fucked straight 10/10s.

Quit feeling f*****g sorry for yourself and man the f*** up calilou. It's YOUR life. It's in YOUR control. If you say "i've been destined too..." Or blame your cirquimstanses, you will achieve NOTHING in your life.

Just get tf out there, have some fun, make some money and live to the fullest. Because we will be old or death way faster then we all realize. It's your choice. Lose the loser attitude.

Very inspirational. I admire guys like you who don't let anyone push you down. And you certainly have learned money may not buy you happiness but it can make your life so much easier and at least it can buy you some fun. Thanks fo sharing.

 

[Oknow]

Bro i've been telling him that but he just wants to be sorry.

I've been beaten over and over again by my alcoholic father (who was without a job and drinking allday) as a child and he died when i was 14. My mum was a cleaning lady and already divorced him for some years then.
So we grew up poor asf as one of the only white kids in a black Neighbourhood. My dad never gave me something unless hands. I've been adddicted to weed for +6 years and always felt sorry for myself.

I am 26 now and sold my first company. Build another company (and do some freelancing as well). Have +60K euros in the bank + assets I get montly fees on without doing anything.
I went from the lowest education to achieving a bachelor. And (because you guys care so much about f*****g girls apparantly) fucked straight 10/10s.

Quit feeling f*****g sorry for yourself and man the f*** up calilou. It's YOUR life. It's in YOUR control. If you say "i've been destined too..." Or blame your cirquimstanses, you will achieve NOTHING in your life.

Just get tf out there, have some fun, make some money and live to the fullest. Because we will be old or death way faster then we all realize. It's your choice. Lose the loser attitude.

This is good wisdom.

OP, life is hard for a lot of people, only because people project themselves as having perfect lives on Instagram and Social media does not mean that they are.

Lots of successful people you see are just good problem solvers, they see a problem, they put measures in place to solve it. At the end of the day, it’s about doing the best with what you have and believe me , everyone has room for improvement - it never ends.

Hairloss sucks! But as you’ve seen from @doubleindemnity , there are ways to treat it.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Bro i've been telling him that but he just wants to be sorry.

I've been beaten over and over again by my alcoholic father (who was without a job and drinking allday) as a child and he died when i was 14. My mum was a cleaning lady and already divorced him for some years then.
So we grew up poor asf as one of the only white kids in a black Neighbourhood. My dad never gave me something unless hands. I've been adddicted to weed for +6 years and always felt sorry for myself.

I am 26 now and sold my first company. Build another company (and do some freelancing as well). Have +60K euros in the bank + assets I get montly fees on without doing anything.
I went from the lowest education to achieving a bachelor. And (because you guys care so much about f*****g girls apparantly) fucked straight 10/10s.

Quit feeling f*****g sorry for yourself and man the f*** up calilou. It's YOUR life. It's in YOUR control. If you say "i've been destined too..." Or blame your cirquimstanses, you will achieve NOTHING in your life.

Just get tf out there, have some fun, make some money and live to the fullest. Because we will be old or death way faster then we all realize. It's your choice. Lose the loser attitude.

I'm VERY sceptical when I hear somebody say that a positive attitude will lead to a positive life. What is your hair loss status?

 

[debyne]

Help and serve others and you will forget about yourself. Have you ever met a good Samaritan who was unhappy? If you see someone with car trouble, pull over and help them. Try it for a week and see for yourself.

Having said that, I agree with @Baldingtooyoung that you should take control of your life and maximize what you can. Make a list of things you want to accomplish (e.g., gym, eat healthy, get your degree) and just focus on that damn list; man up and get it done. You'll be too busy to think about how "your life sucks" amidst all your goal achievement and helping people. If you do this, I PROMISE YOU you'll life will change dramatically. What do you have to lose? All of this is within your control regardless of what hand you think you were dealt.

We all want you to succeed and be happy. We need more good people in this world.

I want you to keep us posted on your progress.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Help and serve others and you will forget about yourself. Have you ever met a good Samaritan who was unhappy? If you see someone with car trouble, pull over and help them. Try it for a week and see for yourself.

Having said that, I agree with @Baldingtooyoung that you should take control of your life and maximize what you can. Make a list of things you want to accomplish (e.g., gym, eat healthy, get your degree) and just focus on that damn list; man up and get it done. You'll be too busy to think about how "your life sucks" amidst all your goal achievement and helping people. If you do this, I PROMISE YOU you'll life will change dramatically. What do you have to lose? All of this is within your control regardless of what hand you think you were dealt.

We all want you to succeed and be happy. We need more good people in this world.

I want you to keep us posted on your progress.

Another great example of "debyne" intervention.

 

[Caillou]

I had been feeling good since yesterday so I decided to hit the gym today. Anyway while working out at the gym my suicidal thoughts hit back at full force and I felt extremely shitty again. I'm sorry for letting you guys down, but I just can't do this, I just can't stand living anymore. I'm deeply thankful and appreciative of the fact that you spent your time and effort on genuinely trying to help me and giving me good advice, I wish you all the best

That being said, I have decided that I'll 100% be gone by age 25 at best. I know what you're thinking. You're thinking that I'm probably some attention seeking b**ch since If I was truly suicidal then there'd be no point in waiting. But the only reason I have to wait isn't because I want to, but because I have extremely important obligations and responsibilities tied to my neck right now and I can't just abandon thrm and die. I wish from the bottom of my heart that I was able to end it all this moment, but I literally can't. Once I'm done with all of this, I'm confident that I will end my life with no hesitation at all

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

OP, life is hard for a lot of people, only because people project themselves as having perfect lives on Instagram and Social media does not mean that they are.

We aint comparing ourselves to instagram influencers. We're comparing ourselves to our friends and close people.

 

[Mr. Slap Head]

I had been feeling good since yesterday so I decided to hit the gym today. Anyway while working out at the gym my suicidal thoughts hit back at full force and I felt extremely shitty again. I'm sorry for letting you guys down, but I just can't do this, I just can't stand living anymore. I'm deeply thankful and appreciative of the fact that you spent your time and effort on genuinely trying to help me and giving me good advice, I wish you all the best

That being said, I have decided that I'll 100% be gone by age 25 at best. I know what you're thinking. You're thinking that I'm probably some attention seeking b**ch since If I was truly suicidal then there'd be no point in waiting. But the only reason I have to wait isn't because I want to, but because I have extremely important obligations and responsibilities tied to my neck right now and I can't just abandon thrm and die. I wish from the bottom of my heart that I was able to end it all this moment, but I literally can't. Once I'm done with all of this, I'm confident that I will end my life with no hesitation at all

What are your workouts like?

 

[Caillou]

What are your workouts like?

I only really struggle with the treadmill because I'm not used to sprinting and my lungs are sh*t because I used to smoke and my stamina is terrible. I somewhat have decent strength for a gym newbie so the rest of the machines don't give me much trouble

 

[whatintheworld]

Let me ask you a simple question, if you had a million dollars would you still feel this way?

I'm not being facetious, but whatever it is you want (freedom), much of this can be achieved with money. With money you can have the freedom to pursue any intellectual activities you want.

You can pay for a transplant to give yourself perfect hair if you so choose.

What is your job, are you still a student?

 

[Caillou]

Let me ask you a simple question, if you had a million dollars would you still feel this way?

I'm not being facetious, but whatever it is you want (freedom), much of this can be achieved with money. With money you can have the freedom to pursue any intellectual activities you want.

You can pay for a transplant to give yourself perfect hair if you so choose.

What is your job, are you still a student?

I won't be able to get a transplant because I'm destined for NW7. Also I will never be able to have a million dollars because I live in a third world shithole. I'm also a student but I'm gonna graduate this year

Trust me bro, if there had been any way whatsoever to get out of this hellhole I'm in, I would have found it myself. There's no advice anyone on earth can offer me that will ever change my situation, because If it had existed I would have found it already

 

[whatintheworld]

I won't be able to get a transplant because I'm destined for NW7. Also I will never be able to have a million dollars because I live in a third world shithole. I'm also a student but I'm gonna graduate this year

Trust me bro, if there had been any way whatsoever to get out of this hellhole I'm in, I would have found it myself. There's no advice anyone on earth can offer me that will ever change my situation, because If it had existed I would have found it already

You can continue to study hard and leave your country...millions of people do this across the world. Or you can find a remote job for an international company and work from where you are.

How do you know you are headed to Norwood 7, has a hair transplant surgeon or dermatologist confirmed this? Even with Norwood 7 a good transplant is possible nowadays with the elite FUE surgeons.

 

[Caillou]

You can continue to study hard and leave your country...millions of people do this across the world. Or you can find a remote job for an international company and work from where you are.

Won't make any difference. At this point I couldn't give less fucks about having a "career" or money in general. I already lost in life either way the moment I was born. Money is nothing but a cope for the genetic garbage who think that it will ever increase their value or get them love, but they will always be worthless no matter what they do

How do you know you are headed to Norwood 7, has a hair transplant surgeon or dermatologist confirmed this? Even with Norwood 7 a good transplant is possible nowadays with the elite FUE surgeons

My genetic trash father is a NW7 and I'm following his pattern. There are no other bald men in my family beside him

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

We aint comparing ourselves to instagram influencers. We're comparing ourselves to our friends and close people.

This, my main worries were that out of my NW1 friends, I am the only one 'lucky' to be balding, balding heavily. Sometimes I wonder if they are happy they are not me lmao

 

[Caillou]

I wonder if they are happy they are not me lmao

They are