I will probably kill myself within a couple of years at this point

[KevinEdEddEddy]

They are

I bet they are lmao, I remember seeing one bald motherfucker (NW6 at the age of 17) and I was grateful I was just a NW2-3 at 18 lmao

 

[Adam23]

I just no longer have the strength or will in me to fight anymore, this world is absolute f*****g hell for people like me. This been going on for too long now and it's just never ending, nothing good ever happens, nothing. It will never end, ever, that's what God himself wants, that's my fate and destiny. I'm tired of being such a miserable hopeless sack of sh*t. Most people are a bunch of f*****g retards who have great potential to turn their lives around but they're just so f*****g retarded to do so. I have absolutely zero potential myself, so despite trying and knowing what to do I never seem to get anywhere and never will

The emptiness and loneliness inside me are crushing my heart and soul. There's literally no hope whatsoever, never been when I think about it. And no matter how many times I convince myself that I can accept my destiny and my hopelessness, the sadness and disappointment eventually creep up on me. Whenever I think about my life and the sh*t I had to go through it breaks my already broken heart. I literally don't feel like a human anymore, I don't want to be a human anymore. Being a human is living an excruciatingly miserable existence unless you're lucky. I just wish I never existed, wish I could disappear from this existence all together. I don't even want to go to heaven or care about that, I have no desires anymore. I just want to rest, I want to be reduced to absolute nothingness

Where are you from? Those people just have more experience. Social experience, work experience, etc.... What you need is to increase your experience and you'll get better at everything. How do I know? I was in same situation and could never see myself getting anywhere. But, now I'm graduating, hitting the gym, and getting engaged this year. Gym helps confidence and you fit better in clothes so keep that up as a lifestyle. As for girls , I'm religious and waiting for marriage so don't have this problem. I can find a like minded person in my community. I think there's an unhealthy emphasis on girls here. They are not that special if you hang around them. Don't just look at them for sex. They're friends that you can learn a lot from. Although I don't take females as friends for religious reasons, too, lol.

US is not a good place for finding real love. The way people are brought up and the pop culture and everything , it teaches opposite of finding love. And girls struggle with that too. Most people I know aren't finding true love or having trouble quickly in marriage. Because people revile each other in this society and having unnatural perspectives on social life.

 

[Caillou]

Those people just have more experience. Social experience, work experience, etc.... What you need is to increase your experience and you'll get better at everything

They just have good genes, that's all there to it. That's the reason I keep failing and they don't. All the sh*t you listed is either a byproduct of good genes or won't make much of a difference unless you have good genes

 

[Adam23]

They just have good genes, that's all there to it. That's the reason I keep failing and they don't. All the sh*t you listed is either a byproduct of good genes or won't make much of a difference unless you have good genes

Change your mindset, everyone works and everyone is more or less the same. Some people just take more time to learn. And then some people have beliefs that influence their lifestyle. Go take what is out there for you. You can sit and watch those people get what they want or do nothing. Or do something about it. If you wait more, you're still gonna need to learn later on. Go to school if you're young , get a job, go to gym, smile around people and be positive. And have faith in God. Then go get married. Trust me you can do it. I've seen you before and you're a handsome guy. You're not thinning alone. We all are a community and trying to treat hair loss. We can't afford to dwell on these things.

 

[Caillou]

Change your mindset, everyone works and everyone is more or less the same

Won't make a difference. Also we're not created equal

Some people just take more time to learn. And then some people have beliefs that influence their lifestyle

Learn what exactly? You're being vague and Idk wtf are you even talking about

Go take what is out there for you

What's out there for me is misery and suffering, and I'm already getting my fair share of them

You can sit and watch those people get what they want or do nothing. Or do something about it

They will always get their way and I won't, no matter what I do

Go to school if you're young , get a job, go to gym

I already have, didn't make me any less miserable. If anything it made it worse because I had to see most people my age outshining me in all areas because I have terrible genes

And have faith in God

I do, I'm a Muslim man

Then go get married

Funniest sh*t ever

Trust me you can do it

No, I can't do it

I've seen you before and you're a handsome guy

How have you seen me exactly? Who are you

 

[Adam23]

I'm Muslim too, why don't you go look to community to get married? Where are you based?

By learn i mean you're gonna learn better social skills and life skills in general. It takes some people more time. Especially, if they were less social growing up. Depending on the reason, that's not always a bad thing. Our Prophet would seclude himself from people sometimes as he didn't want to be in that environment of sin.

 

[Caillou]

why don't you go look to community to get married? Where are you based?

There's no place on earth for people like me. I'm from Egypt

 

[Adam23]

There's no place on earth for people like me. I'm from Egypt

You can't get married in Egypt? Must be financial reasons but can't be anything else. I'll keep you in my prayers bro. شد حيلك , ولا تخاف ، ستسهل اومورك باذن الله

 

[Caillou]

You can't get married in Egypt? Must be financial reasons but can't be anything else

sh*t genes, money is cope

I'll keep you in my prayers bro

Pray for something else since I don't think nothing will change in my life unless a miracle happens, which I doubt

شد حيلك , ولا تخاف ، ستسهل اومورك باذن الله

Nothing gonna ever get better

 

[vondoom]

This, my main worries were that out of my NW1 friends, I am the only one 'lucky' to be balding, balding heavily. Sometimes I wonder if they are happy they are not me lmao

of course they are... im rather suprised that they never said it...
mine do that all the time...