I'm alone, useless and unatractive

[IBM]

i cant think... i'm almost finished. where's my nw0 to kiss me and confort me?

 

[KielMcK]

Sorry IBM hope things get better. Atleast its Halloween time... you should set up a CrEePy haunted house in your den or something. I know that's what I'll be doing.

 

[bubka]

Today i'm worse. Read what happened.

In lunch i went to supermarket with collegues that are from another area just to pass some time. It became so many people that i became very depressed. The worst is there is a girl very pretty and charmy (like a princess). I think she's single because one guy told me before about that.

Then i thought: if she glimpses at me at me a few times then i'm handsome and atractive. It was a test. It worked like i was expecting. She's even didnt noticed that i was there :lol: .

Besides of being pathetic, unatractive i'm almost invisible. But last is not least. There was a guy making lot of noise and talking loud like he was the animatronic of the party.

How can i think with that conditions? I bet none of you have a answer to that!

jesus christ, its the same thing, you whine and whine, feel sorry for yourself, don't put yourself out there, and you expect women and the world to revolve around you, you are a SELFISH, LAZY, and SELF LOATHING person, and because it is always the SAME STORY over and over, i think you like it

 

[powersam]

you all know perfectly well what is going to be in an IBM thread before you open it. so if you find it that offensive then just don't open it. you only have yourselves to blame, and bitching and yelling at him is not going to help anything.

he's not doing harm to anyone, you chose to open the thread.

 

[s.a.f]

Your hair's fine, man. We've seen a photo of it. It's actually pretty nice.

Lets see it IBM send me the pic.

As for that lunch today, what makes you think some attractive girl you dont know should be giving you attention? You were in a group of people, did you even try to engage her in conversation or introduce yourself? What would you have done in her situation?

 

[Hans Gruber]

I'm complaining about my hair. What i'm saying is if i had a NW0 he would confort me. He would say: "Dont worry i still love you".

Some days my hair confort me when is a good hair day. Others day dont.

I cant fit in any place. I'm just a temporary dust that disappears when other sit where i am.

fit in? be open and friendly and smile,you'll fit in

 

[Hans Gruber]

i don't condone the way IBM goes about things but he needs some sort of support,don't really wanna see a relative post on here about how he has killed himself,that would be sh*t

 

[Nathaniel]

Depression is a very hard thing to overcome, nothing of what we say will help IBM until he actually decides to get some help. Just don't insult him, even if he deserves it because it doesn't work.

 

[bubka]

how many times do we try to help this guy, he is his own worst enemy, he listens to nobody, and think everything should revolve around him to change

 

[melky1]

gimme a break.

 

[joseph49853]

IBM, you need to take the Braverman Nature Assessment test. I suggested it to you once already. This behavioral diagnostic will help give a general idea as to your brain chemistry, and any deficiencies.

http://www.pathmed.com/p/139.html

Here are a few sample questions

1. I have insomnia. True/False
2. I can't relax. True/False
3. I wake up at least two times per night. True/False.... etc.

Based on your writings here, I believe you might have a serotonin imbalance. However depending on your answers to the test, you actually could have a deficiency of:

Dopamine: acetyl-l-tyrosine, bacopa, mucuna pruriens = can help
Acetylcholine: alpha GPC or lecithin = positively can help
GABA: GABA, bacopa, ashwagandha = can sort of help
Serotonin: 5-htp, l-trytophan (melatonin indirectly) most definitely can help

I hope this gives you the courage to seek professional help. But first you must start by helping yourself.

 

[Guest]

Hair is definitely not his biggest problem...

 

[joseph49853]

Hair is definitely not his biggest problem...

I most definitely agree. Hair is just a crutch for something much more elusive just outside of his grasp. Some people simply don't have the innate ability to get past painful situations, and are stuck perpetually reliving them. IBM is being just as misunderstood in his real life as here in this forum.

I wish him all the best though. I actually think he has a very bright mind, in a fatalistic and poetic kind of way. His words remind me of Poe and Kafka sometimes.

 

[IBM]

The day started bad. When i was getting ready for work i got two big patches of flaking skin. Luckly i got few hairs attached on it.

My my hair got bad so today is another bad hair day. In workplace i met in the bathroom the guy who talk loud and transform the environment in gypsies fair.

I washed my hands after the guy washed. I looked at the sink and there was three hairs! The worse thing is that the guy is balding and dont care! WTF!

With all thi stress i started to have itches all over my body and my scalp. I'm very nervous.

 

[IBM]

For now on before i was my hands i'll look at the sink and assure that there's no hair in it.

 

[Bald Dave]

Hey IBM,

I think we all get depressed from time to time, I had a $#iT time recently, in fact it's been the worst year of my life, I haven't told anyone about how I feel here so this is my first honest post about how I feel about life in general, i'm not good looking and I split with my missus of 13 years a few months back so I don't see my kids much, life was good for me and now it's not, I was close to suicide but but my family have helped me pull through, but the fact is you could have 100's of friends around you but when you are depressed you will still feel out of place and alone, the hairloss is an added problem so don't think you are alone, many here feel the same but just don't say.

Keep ya chin up mate, things will get better, hopefully

I couldn't have said it better myself! IBM, we all have problems but it is up to you to sort them out. We can't do anything for you. All we can do is give you advice and my advice is to look at all the things you've got. Take your family for example they are always there for you. There are some people out there that have noone! No friends or family! Think of all the stuff you want to achieve and go for there! I wish you the best of luck!

 

[IBM]

So this new cute girl didnt found me atractive and possible mate. It is not that i interested in her because i'm not. Is that i failed in this one and i'm so pissed off with that.

I am against hair transplant. The freak thing is that sooner or later i'll have to consider it :? .

 

[Bald Dave]

IBM, don't use your hair as an excuse! There are lots bald guys out there that do just fine! You just need to believe in yourself and get out and meet people! You were saying that you are good friends with your brother so why don't you go out with him and meet some girls together?

 

[IBM]

IBM, don't use your hair as an excuse! There are lots bald guys out there that do just fine! You just need to believe in yourself and get out and meet people! You were saying that you are good friends with your brother so why don't you go out with him and meet some girls together?

what's the propose of meeting if the goal of being atractive is not achieved?

Do you try to meet ugly or unatractive girls? No. Same logic applies.

 

[Bald Dave]

IBM, don't use your hair as an excuse! There are lots bald guys out there that do just fine! You just need to believe in yourself and get out and meet people! You were saying that you are good friends with your brother so why don't you go out with him and meet some girls together?

what's the propose of meeting if the goal of being atractive is not achieved?

Do you try to meet ugly or unatractive girls? No. Same logic applies.

No I don't try and meet ugly or unattractive girls. I try and meet normal girls! Girls that aren't miss world but at the same time are not miss piggy! Just ordinary run of the mill girls. Basically girls that are in my league. I ain't a bad looking guy but at the same time I ain't no model nor am I rich! I am certainly not ugly so I am way better than an ugly girl! What I am trying to say is that you are only gonna get what you think is in your league! If you have an attitude of I am so ugly that no girl will want me then your thinking will become a reality! You need to have a more possitive and realistic outlook on life!