fluffy123
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I was out last night with a few work colleagues for drinks and the subject gets on to a man that one of my work colleagues knows who has alopecia, general comments get made about him losing his hair- nothing particularly nasty just general observations about receding hair etc.
It's then that it hit me, it's this sort of thing that hurts far more than anything that could be directly aimed at me. I felt pretty awkward, smiling along etc but with that deep lying feeling that the others are thinking to themselves 'sh*t we shouldn't be talking about this'. I can't say I've been faced with a direct situation yet but I'm confident I could laugh it off if it was ever needed, hey, at the end of the day, it's one of those things and I feel like I'd reflect that back... but something like I experienced last night is mightily difficult. The point where I'm not annoyed enough to start going on any sort of rant, I'm just very indifferent about it all and not sure whether laughing along makes me seem like I'm in sheer denial and how other people think they've made a big mistake chipping into such a conversation....
Hmmmm...
It's then that it hit me, it's this sort of thing that hurts far more than anything that could be directly aimed at me. I felt pretty awkward, smiling along etc but with that deep lying feeling that the others are thinking to themselves 'sh*t we shouldn't be talking about this'. I can't say I've been faced with a direct situation yet but I'm confident I could laugh it off if it was ever needed, hey, at the end of the day, it's one of those things and I feel like I'd reflect that back... but something like I experienced last night is mightily difficult. The point where I'm not annoyed enough to start going on any sort of rant, I'm just very indifferent about it all and not sure whether laughing along makes me seem like I'm in sheer denial and how other people think they've made a big mistake chipping into such a conversation....
Hmmmm...