Memoirs Of A Landwhale. Blah Blah Blah

[Afro_Vacancy]

@h.i.

It's a locked thread, you can't edit it. Your using the racist word everywhere. Just like the baby you are.

https://www.hairlosstalk.com/intera...e-and-other-dating-sites.102803/#post-1410983

Again, stop taking bandwidth with your stupid comments.

I just read the quote.

Blackg 's comment to me would sound like he's calling me a racist in the absence of context. However, there is a context. That context is that we've interacted for nearly a year, and thus sometimes we goof off. @h.l. was not aware of the context, he missed the joke, it's ok nobody's perfect.

 

[rclark]

I just read the quote.

Blackg 's comment to me would sound like he's calling me a racist in the absence of context. However, there is a context. That context is that we've interacted for nearly a year, and thus sometimes we goof off. @h.l. was not aware of the context, he missed the joke, it's ok nobody's perfect.

You're right. It's nothing.

But @h.i. has to turn everything into an issue.

To be honest, it really pisses me off that he's such a baby.

You can't anything around him, without him having a PMS fit.

 

[hairblues]

Hairblues, I am not accusing you of anything. There is not a single poster on here I don't respect or dislike. Seriously, I even think nameless is great.

Im just clarifying i am not saying 'you' are saying that about 'me'

I don't think many people on this forum to be honest don't believe Dante is suffering...we mostly all believe it.

Its to what degree and about what specifics that some people may disagree on--but thats okay.

even the people who Dante despises MOSt say nice things about him.

 

[SmoothSailing]

I mis typed i edited it...i mean not an incel.

I have empathy for Dante too and if you read my posts i NEVER denied his over all life experience. i do think something is wrong and he is mocked...but i do NOT think people on street are shunning him based on his hair loss..because i saw the photos.

he posted a story that to me was BS based on the photos i saw...and i stated it.

i have no beef with anyone on the forum.

I just notice that people want to hyper-police what people post because it may be offensive to someone because of different life experience and it may trigger something.

f*** that. Im not going to walk on glass on an anonymous forum because someone thinks because i did not experience something i can have no opinion when my eyeballs are telling me something completely different.

You just want to hyper-police people who like to hyper-police you

Unless you're banned you are not being stopped from posting your opinions. Other people are entitled to tell you to stop posting your opinions, I don't consider this policing unless you are actually banned or blocked from posting.

I wouldn't want people being mean to others, and I would ask that they didn't. I don't consider this policing.

But I respect your determination not to allow these comments stop you from posting your opinions, because in this case I do not think you're being unnecessarily mean.

"Im just saying you are not going to stop me or shame me or guilt me into not voicing a very real obvious physical observation based from photos because i had a different life experience."

Good for you, and you are likely not going to shame david into stopping calling you out when he thinks you're opinions are invalid.

 

[EvilLocks]

its cool man he pmd me. he doesnt mind

He PM'd you a permission to repost his pictures in a public thread, especially if they're used to 'prove' he is wrong? Hmmm... If that truly is the case you have done no wrong I guess, but something just doesn't seem right. Anyway, I agree with what David said about the matter.

 

[EvilLocks]

Nevertheless, I don't get the "don't post my pic unless I gave you permission". I get it if it's offensive, but... if you post your pic on a forum, people are going to comment it and quote it sometimes (with no bad intentions, to help, to give advice)...

If someone's pictures is being used against them it's not cool. In my opinion.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Im just clarifying i am not saying 'you' are saying that about 'me'

I don't think many people on this forum to be honest don't believe Dante is suffering...we mostly all believe it.

Its to what degree and about what specifics that some people may disagree on--but thats okay.

even the people who Dante despises MOSt say nice things about him.

People just waste too much time and energy trying to reason with Dante about his situation. He knows his situation better than all of us. He is the only that can fix it too. If you look at most of his posts, he just chimes in when its something in which he relates or experienced. Yes, sometimes its the same thing over and over but if that is how he expresses himself then let him. Dante, just to clarify to everyone, what do you want out of this forum?

 

[rclark]

@h.i.

I'm going to post what I want from now on.

They're lots of babies on all communities. Your probably the biggest one here, by far.

People shouldn't have to censor their writing just because one person doesn't like it.
Nobody made you a moderator. There's probably a reason for that.

If you don't like my posts, put me on your ignore lists.

I'm not going anywhere.

Have a nice day!

 

[hairblues]

You just want to hyper-police people who like to hyper-police you

Unless you're banned you are not being stopped from posting your opinions. Other people are entitled to tell you to stop posting your opinions, I don't consider this policing unless you are actually banned or blocked from posting.

I wouldn't want people being mean to others, and I would ask that they didn't. I don't consider this policing.

But I respect your determination not to allow these comments stop you from posting your opinions, because in this case I do not think you're being unnecessarily mean.

"Im just saying you are not going to stop me or shame me or guilt me into not voicing a very real obvious physical observation based from photos because i had a different life experience."

Good for you, and you are likely not going to shame david into stopping calling you out when he thinks you're opinions are invalid.

People can post whatever they want I have NO beef with this at all.

And i can debate them until the Sun comes up if they want to thats fine

But I'm not mad and i am not angry--i feel passionate that we are more sensitive to people having these inferred or implied 'micro aggressions' because we did not all experience same life so we cant say anything.

I respect you a lot so please find me one quote that most reasonable people would take as offensive or out of character for the situation that i wrote about Dante?

Disbelieving Dantes story based on his photos---i do not think this is mean spirited at all.

It does not discredit his life experiences. I never said anything to discredit his life story.

Its saying i think he exaggerated that specific story.

ME saying this has NOTHING to do with me being attractive or him being an incel.

He gave a story the photograph discredits that specific story.

So I'm not going to censor what i write because he MAY be so damaged that he May take that as abuse.

Thats not my problem

I dont mind debating with David...we can do it all day.

 

[sunchyme1]

He PM'd you a permission to repost his pictures in a public thread, especially if they're used to 'prove' he is wrong? Hmmm... If that truly is the case you have done no wrong I guess, but something just doesn't seem right. Anyway, I agree with what David said about the matter.

dante has blocked me mate lol. i was messing

i agree with david too, but dante is just too trollable. i really cant help myself with him

anyway, now your back i wanted ask you something.....what do of this hair transplant? both when kept as a buzzcut and grown out?

which do you prefer? does this buzz cut look good to you?

 

[hairblues]

People just waste too much time and energy trying to reason with Dante about his situation. He knows his situation better than all of us. He is the only that can fix it too. If you look at most of his posts, he just chimes in when its something in which he relates or experienced. Yes, sometimes its the same thing over and over but if that is how he expresses himself then let him. Dante, just to clarify to everyone, what do you want out of this forum?

Im not interested in changing Dante.

I made a comment of what i believed from what he wrote without censoring myself because it may/may not hurt Dante.

Something i will continue to do about everything.

 

[EvilLocks]

anyway, now your back i wanted ask you something.....what do of this hair transplant? both when kept as a buzzcut and grown out?

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which do you prefer? does this buzz cut look good to you?

Both look better than baseline (obviosuly), but in this case it looks better grown out!

 

[EvilLocks]

I did not used it against him...

Didn't say you did, though? I was talking about the user who posted his picture. That wasn't you?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I dont really care if i come off angry to you or other people.

Im from NY i have an attitude for sure and i dont censor myself.

I speak the way i speak..you dont like it then dont engage--but please stop with the fake praising of you respect me etc because it's not authentic. It is really just your insecurity because you believe i am 'mad' at you.

You come off as someone that feels victimized to me often.

you also come off as someone who can dish it out but you do it in an academic manner-i mean you really talk down to people sometimes especially about politics---and thats fine its your style--but then you want to be a victim as if people are mean to you.

There's nothing inauthentic about my posts -- don't call people liars. When I give you compliments or praise it's specific.

I am however refraining from dishing it out as much as you're giving it.

 

[Rudiger]

dante has blocked me mate lol. i was messing

i agree with david too, but dante is just too trollable. i really cant help myself with him

anyway, now your back i wanted ask you something.....what do of this hair transplant? both when kept as a buzzcut and grown out?

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which do you prefer? does this buzz cut look good to you?

I bet that buzzcut looks really thin from eye level, from above it looks like he somewhat has hair but I doubt it looks like that from most normal angles.

 

[SmoothSailing]

I respect you a lot so please find me one quote that most reasonable people would take as offensive or out of character for the situation that i wrote about Dante?

I personally don't know any, I don't think you were being unreasonably offensive. (I said "in this case", but I have yet to see any cases of you being unnecessarily mean.) I don't think you should censor what you say.

ME saying this has NOTHING to do with me being attractive or him being an incel.

Yeah maybe not. But I don't blame David for questioning it. There are stories in which I could tell my sister, someone I highly respect intellectually and otherwise, that she would likely not believe. Her life experiences, as a hot girl, are just so vastly different to mine that she would probably presume, that it's more likely I made them up then they actually happened. It's likely true in the reverse for some things also.

But yeah I also think he exaggerated that story, so I don't think your judgement is off here.

 

[sunchyme1]

Both look better than baseline (obviosuly), but in this case it looks better grown out!

no way i would have thought youd prefer the buzz cut.

it still looks thin when grown out, which to me makes him look older.

just by glancing at the buzzcuts ones, could you tell which hairs are the transplanted ones? as in, does it seem to blend in well enough overall?

 

[rclark]

I laughed so hard when he mentioned you don't know where the "period" key on your keyboard is located. You are better with that now.

@DoctorHouse

He (@h.i.) really isn't that much better. Honestly, I could write what he says in
two words sometimes. It's an eye strain to read his stupid, long winded posts.

He is full of sh*t. He jumped on someone in a post because he didn't understand they
were just joking with each other.

This is classic @h.i.

Nobody else here does that. At least not anybody I've read.

 

[hairblues]

I personally don't know any, I don't think you were being unreasonably offensive. (I said "in this case", but I have yet to see any cases of you being unnecessarily mean.) I don't think you should censor what you say.



Yeah maybe not. But I don't blame David for questioning it. There are stories in which I could tell my sister, someone I highly respect intellectually and otherwise, that she would likely not believe. Her life experiences, as a hot girl, are just so vastly different to mine that she would probably presume, that it's more likely I made them up then they actually happened. It's likely true in the reverse for some things also.

But yeah I also think he exaggerated that story, so I don't think your judgement is off here.

yeah but he did not actually question it. He actually agrees with it factually.

again i NEVER questioned his over all life experience..I questioned this one specific story. that factually does not make sense compared to his pics.

 

[sunchyme1]

I bet that buzzcut looks really thin from eye level, from above it looks like he somewhat has hair but I doubt it looks like that from most normal angles.

im sure your right.

i just want to see how much a difference some temple work does for someones face, and how much better looking it makes him look to a good looking chick like evil