Outnumbered show on Fox discuss dating bald guys

[shookwun]

Most women will only give cues and hints on their attraction in public places. I tend to have a bit of approach anxiety and never capetalize on opportunities. Its only places like bars and clubs where a Womens inhibition goes out the door where they will approach or be more direct about their attention.

Clubs are the best reality chick on your attractiveness when you approach women under the influence. Real good way to Guage yor sexual value on the market. Day time approach isn't the best seeing as women are more likely to wave you off in a polite manner but when the alchohol touches the tough at night these behaviors of moral go out the door.

I do agree about getting the signal to approach and banging your head for not doing anything. Worst is when you get the hints for weeks at the gym from other females and next thing you know their dating other guys from the same gym. Literally in the past six months I've seen 7 gym couples that attend the same facility I go to. Oddly enough some of these women where the same ones giving me the green light signal for 'confidence'. Funny thing is its none of the metro ***gots that people commonly say are the ones female adore. Its the masculine rugged guys i see picking these chicks up.

Keep trying to convince yourself women actually give two ****s about these metro homosezuals. They are trends and cool things to be seen around but in no way does some skinny hipster ilicit sexual appeal. Just my observations of hot females from the gym not your typical insecure plain jane

 

[GoldenMane]

"would you date a bald guy?

"Yeah!"

"good for you!"

****ing hell... Says it all really....

 

[hellouser]

"would you date a bald guy?

"Yeah!"

"good for you!"

****ing hell... Says it all really....

LOL, yah I didn't pick up on that, as if to say 'awe, someones giving the ugly guy a chance! how nice!'

 

[Norwood One]

Confidence: The knowledge that you will be able to replicate the results of a previous experience.

Hard to do that if you're bald and have no previous experience on picking up hot chicks to begin with. It's a domino effect both for the bald man and the fullhead. The fullhead knows he's done it before and can do it again, so he approaches with confidence and gets better every time. The bald man, with numerous rejections, will be anxious to try it again and get worse.

 

[I.D WALKER]

If we are nice we just might be lucky enough to get a mercy****. Well guys maybe things are finally looking up for us pathetic baldies.

Human ignorance/arrogance knows no bounds.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Confidence? Fuck you... that's just a woman giving a feel good answer to make the bald guy feel like he's got a shot. It's delusional. People that say this just don't want come off as shallow.

You're giving them too much credit.

What image does the word confidence conjure up in a woman (or even a man)? An alpha face, deep voice, basically the top genetics. Because these are the most masculine and attractive qualities -- good aesthetics, intelligence, confidence. You make this image bald, and you still have an attractive person.

What image does NOT come to their mind? A soft baby round face, bad aesthetics, bad teeth, feminine voice. Note that this dude could be just as confident as the other one.

People mistake correlation for causation. "The men I find most attractive are confident" becomes "I find confident men attractive".

 

[IA2015]

I'm a skinny guy with a feminine face, and I've always got my fair share when it comes to women, yes, even as a bald guy.

I've set foot in a gym only once, and I've seen the kind of woman you're talking about. Gym rats who are looking to date steroids freaks.

The truth is that normal women don't give to sh*it about muscles. They want the One Direction/Justin Bieber type, and they get it!

Yes they do. You are placing so much emphasis on hair. We know its important but your implying woman want feminine guys with great hair. True for some, however woman do crave a man with a great body.

Might be diffeent cultures between Belgium and the U.K. However having a good body helps alot here. Seriously, I've seen duded with bang average faces, NW3 and good bodies get plenty of chicks because they have great bodies.

 

[xetudor]

That "homeless" guy is not attractive at all and that video is fake as ****. I would never touch a woman that has sex with sleazy guys like that. There are hot girls everywhere, why should you spend your time on women that **** around?

 

[IA2015]

That "homeless" guy is not attractive at all and that video is fake as ****. I would never touch a woman that has sex with sleazy guys like that. There are hot girls everywhere, why should you spend your time on women that **** around?

Was thinking that myself - he's not attractive.

 

[Saurabhaj]

My major problem is i can make any girl accept my love proposal at the start(all girls i was close friend were top notch) just because of confidence of mine but i cannot hold that forever,i find hard to be with them in public places as we look Unmatchable,not complementary to each other,were i look older and they look hotter,leading this to breakup,happened to me twice,,,

Today society wants to see beautiful couple,not just a handsome boy or Cute girl,this is further promoting people to choose most attractive opposite sex person as a life partner.

 

[IA2015]

If it makes you feel better to think that. I've never had much problems getting girls (only because of my social anxiety, but it has nothing to do with looks), and I'm skinny, but tall and with a good face.

I just don't have to work out, girls don't mind if I have no muscles. Girls "crave" a great body? Well I don't see it then, most girls I see around me have boyfriends with fat bellies.

Women want everything but that doesn't mean they get it. But yeah, I know it feels good to think you can improve your odds with women by simply working out.

Unfortunately, women are looking for unalterable genetic traits, such as bone density, height, and an attractive face. You thought you could fool evolution with a gym membership?

I didn't say every woman was the same, maybe I shouldn't be so blunt. Not all woman crave a man with muscles, just like not all woman crave a man with blonde hair or the perfect jaw, a nice house or car etc etc.

Some woman do look for these traits though it's a fact. Muscular appearance is a sign of virility, masculinity, dominance - he can handle himself, he is a protector. It shows good health. And yes, it does make people look attractive - it does. This is a proven fact. It tunes into their basic human instincts - the caveman instincts, which you yourself have talked about many a time.

''"Male peacocks show their good condition with their showy tail," says David Frederick of UCLA's Center for Behavior, Evolution and Culture, a Ph.D. candidate who was lead author of the study. "Muscularity in humans is similar because it requires calories, testosterone, and a strong immune system. It's telling women, 'Hey, look at me -- I must be in good condition.'"

Just because skinny guys attract woman does not make it fact. Just because you have attracted woman before does not make it fact and the be all end all - apply sweepingly across the board. Of course skinny, non-muscular guys pull woman - sheer numbers will tell you that is a statistical certainty.

However, many woman do like and prefer muscular men.

 

[resu]

I believe some women prefer the hunk type or the soft type depending on the ovulation period.

 

[shookwun]

Best way to put it is men like big brests, ***, hips and tight waist. Well guess what women also love men with a muscular chest, arms and a buff butt. Of corse you need the pre requisite of a nice face but to say a physique doesn't matter is absurd.

Tell me it doesn't matter when you're walking at 9%bf with a dense physique and a shredded Jaw line.

Being under 10% body fat is the twilight zone for maximum attraction. The face looks much more viral, tight and rugged. Bodybuilding for attraction goes beyond just muscle it's the presence and aura that follows. It helps develop character, and a more secure feeling of one self. Being able to look in the mirror and seeing a tight lean face is priceless.


But I guess that double chin, jowl fat deposits and expression lines on a potato face is more attractive. Ha

 

[winnyblues]

Shookwun is right fred wrong
Yep being a skinny **** is alpha male material ay

N fred always says he has no problems getting girls, probs average to ugly girls.

 

[Isaac Newton]

Shookwun is right fred wrong
Yep being a skinny **** is alpha male material ay

N fred always says he has no problems getting girls, probs average to ugly girls.

lolz fred posted one of his old girlfriends, she was like an 8/10 blonde haha.

 

[winnyblues]

8 out of 10 to you which eould be more like 5 or 6 out of 10 for normal people
Exo hard to take your rating serioisly when youve never been with anyone

 

[shookwun]

As I mentioned earlier it goes far beyond just being muscular.


The twilight zone is something few experience. Most are not dicipline enough to acquire this level of conditioning. But beyond the sacrafice the rewards are well worth it.

Who cares. He's the same guy who self admits that he struggles through online datimg and swipes right on thousands of women and lands the odd bird.

 

[xetudor]

Now go back in your gym to overcompensate for being a manlet.

Lolz. Also lolz @ 9% body fat. That **** is athelete level stuff, like someone who trains for a living all day. I'll have my ice cream please and be average body fat percetange (NOT fat by any standards, I might even have a lower body fat than average).

Some of you dudes value random women way too much, 9% body fat is just trying to hard. If you want to be atheletic, then you should that for you because you like, not because women might like it. Of course you'll be frustrated when things won't turn out the way you want it. "But I have a low body fat, where are the women I was promised?" and you can't even eat ice cream. What life is that?

 

[Isaac Newton]

8 out of 10 to you which eould be more like 5 or 6 out of 10 for normal people
Exo hard to take your rating serioisly when youve never been with anyone

that makes zero sense lol

if you get with a girl your rating system all of a sudden changes?

da fuq. you rate a girl, you rate a girl. you think a girl is 8/10, then even after having sex you are gonna think the same lol.

 

[Wolf Pack]

There's a limited niche for the body builder but same time limited girls for the hipster. The latter could also be a passing phase. Even the hipsters who do well, even though they dress kind of gay their face is usually sharply defined. All girls have their types but generally a good looking guy has a masculine face, frame/body and near 6ft. Even if they don't go for that guy they will find him good looking but not their type, "doesn't do it for me". Way it goes.

You don't have to be steroid big either but having a natural good frame with a bit of muscle is attractive. Face is most key, without it, nothing much makes a difference.

Finally, someone mentioned a good looking normal guy will get subtle attention in real life scenarios unprovoked. That's exactly it. If you don't, you're average or below.

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that makes zero sense lol

if you get with a girl your rating system all of a sudden changes?

da fuq. you rate a girl, you rate a girl. you think a girl is 8/10, then even after having sex you are gonna think the same lol.

Don't forget people may make up stories on here as well as give themselves or anyone else inaccurate ratings through insecurity, delusion. Long term relationships involve more than looks and that's why you see different types of couples too. It doesn't mean much either way imo.