Outnumbered show on Fox discuss dating bald guys

xetudor

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If the only reason you're going to the gym is to get women then you're ****ed, no doubt about it. It's that simple.

And a tall handsome skinny NW1 can just stand in the corner of the room being all shy and still get more girls than a shaved NW7 160 cm muscular guy being all confident and stuff. The first is mysterious, the real deal, girls thinking how HE REALLY IS, desperately wanting to know more will aproach him while the other one is a annoying clown trying to overcompensate by being funny.
 

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This! A million times this! Thank you.
Thank you. While I was writing that, I was thinking "why would such a genetically blessed dude stand there shy?", I want to know more myself loool. Even as a guy I would try to strike a conversation with him. A girl's brain will go into overdrive, she likes him, she's entitled to him, SHE WANTS HIM, she will be the one who WILL CHANGE him, she will fix his shyness. She can't fix short height, baldness though.
 

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You judge. This was before my hair transplant when I was a slick NW5.

If this was the kind of girls I was getting as a skinny bald man, tell me why I should work out to be become "alpha male material" again?

Especially now that I have hair on my head. Thinking working out will make hot girls fall at your feet: delusion.

Face and height are what matters. They matter so much they even seemed to have compensated for baldness at 23 years old for me.

Now do you really think "getting big" while being bald at 23, being average height and having an average face would have given you the same results?

Stop being delusional.

Uhm, Fred, why are you posting pictures of your (ex?)girlfriend on a forum, do you think she approves of this?! I would be absolutely pissed if any of my exes posted my pictures to discuss on a forum. She will probably never know as it's unlikely she finds her way onto a hair loss forum, but still...

Also, she's not that pretty. Not to be rude, but she's rather plain.
 

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I agree with EvilLocks on that girl's privacy. After you will make your point clear, you should consider removing the picture. I find it a little creepy myself.
 

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There was a girl who was a professional model in my class. Yet all the other girls were saying: "She's so ugly! Look at her thighs!"

It's true, she had big thighs, but damn she was hot. That's just how women are when it comes to judging their competition I guess :).

You think I'm jealous? Lol, how cute! I'm not jealous of her looks at all, except her full head of course. But I'm jealous of every girl's hair, even the really fat and ugly ones. But except from that I'm not jealous no. And I have nothing against complimenting another woman's looks, if I find her really beautiful!

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Models like Candice Swanepoel, Adriana Lima and Miranda Kerr are sooo gorgeous! Just an example of how I'm perfectly capable of complimenting women's looks. They are true stand-outs.
 

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I think shes pretty hot in that second photo. Though again it may be a good photo. How long were you actually dating? Either way good for you.
I wont ever say a girl is my GF until about 4months+. Even month 4-6 are just awkward to me to say it, more of I have to thing. IF anyone else asks and shes not around Ill just say we're dating. For all I know you guys went on 2 dates and youre some psycho stalking her facebook stealing photos (lol), this is the internet after all.

Theres a girl in my gym all the guys check out. She has a nice face but a STELLAR body. She works out HARD. She dates a guy half her height who is about a NW2, but not really diffuse so it may stop there. I mean guys can land hot girls, it matter a lot on how long, how they are treated during and how serious it really becomes.


On the other side of this, the others are right, you blatantly blocked your face even though we all know what it looks like from prior photos but left hers open? You could have at least censor barred her eyes or something.

And you are right women will ALWAYS put down another womens looks. Unless its some super famous girl that is WAY out of their own level they will rarely ever admit the girl is pretty. A 5 will blatantly say a 9 is average at best but then in the same breath say a FOUR is exotic and sexy for no other reason than to elevate their own visual status. But we as men do it to.
 

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For anyone thinking a low body fat percetange is all it takes you should read what some short guys have to say on reddit. Take this for example: https://www.reddit.com/r/short/comments/3ghzzf/at_least_i_had_game_sigh/


I like this comment "I can't believe I wasted MY valuable time on a manlet!". Lolz, so true.
Or this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/short/comments/3gt34g/itt_girl_defends_blunt_discrimination_against/ where they discuss this comment https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3gqnpo/as_a_woman_how_should_i_state_my_height/cu0nhd0


This women says:
I don't online date, but a lot of my friends do and the majority of short guys from what I've seen are ****ING DECEITFUL. More often than not, I ask about their dates and I've heard "he made himself look a lot taller in his pictures." I guess they're hoping that their personality will shine through. Sound familiar?


How dare they take pictures of themselves without a ruler next to them? We should all know how short hey are so we can avoid them. What has the world come to if short people can just post pictures of themselves like that?
 

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And you are right women will ALWAYS put down another womens looks. Unless its some super famous girl that is WAY out of their own level they will rarely ever admit the girl is pretty.

I know plenty of girls in real life that I admit are really pretty. One is my ex bestfriend, she's a 9. Well I used to be way up there too. Anyway, I just said those models as examples because it's easier to mention famous people that everyone can check out.
 

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I was with her for 2 months. She left me for a another tall skinny guy... but with NW1.

She was often making fun of my baldness, calling me a baldie on the bus or laughing about how my scalp was shiny.

So yes, you can still land girls as a bald man, but you will usually be treated like crap.

You are at a (huge) disadvantage, and she knows. All the girls know it. And unfortunately, she will resent you for not having hair.

I would not say she was your girlfriend then and may have very well been seeing other guys.

I would have INSTANTLY found something she was self conscious about to keep on the back burner lol
 

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That's the tragedy when you're a young bald man. Women will still go for you, but as soon as a NW1 she likes hits on her, well...

Not if she really loves you. Seriously, she doesn't sound like a catch when all she did was make fun of you and put you down for your baldness. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect!

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I hope your current GF is treating you better
 

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Not if she really loves you. Seriously, she doesn't sound like a catch when all she did was make fun of you and put you down for your baldness. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect!

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I hope your current GF is treating you better

perhaps she was putting him down to make him leave her be. Like when people sabotage their own ralationships or become abusive to get the other person to end it.
 

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EvilLocks, if you're a girl can you please tell me what is more important in a guy, height or the fact that he has massive hair loss? A tall bald 190 cm vs a 175 guy with perfect hair, same face.
 

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EvilLocks, if you're a girl can you please tell me what is more important in a guy, height or the fact that he has massive hair loss? A tall bald 190 cm vs a 175 guy with perfect hair, same face.

That's personal preference. For me, who is quite short (5'5 and a half) I'd take the 175 cm NW1 guy. As long as he's taller than me height doesn't really matter that much to me. But I know there are many girls who like their guys to be quite tall so I can't answer for everyone just myself. That said, I could still fall for a guy with massive hair loss, if he had other great qualities about him. Being a bald guy isn't a death sentence when it comes to girls, but it certainly is an advantage to have a full head of hair!
 

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Hair is more important then height obviously. As long as you're above 5'6.

Nobody is making a comparison of physique versus hair. Its like the old saying goes why be a urd when you can be a polished turd. That's more less what bodybuilding does. What I am saying for those who are illiterate is that it will increase your attraction by a lot. But like anything you need a semi-attractive face and a decent amount of hair.


I'd go as far to say that as individual features, hair is the most important. Without a frame you ate literally screwed. Even in can see the difference it makes if I lower my fingers to my idea hairline. Those mm of recession make a world of a difference
 
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