"paying For It" By Chester Brown - Tales From Norwood Cemetery

[Dench57]

Yep, her replies look like RPG dialogue options.

I used to get in arguments with Fred, then I took an arrow to the knee.

 

[blackg]

Indeed, here's how she thinks you debate:

"Good luck finding a woman!"

"Fredthebaldbelgian haha!"

"You have daddy issues!"

"It's your shitty attitude!"

All that's missing now is:

"You must have a small penis"

And of course:

"You're like Hitler!"

But she has balls and I respect that.

 

[samantha3333]

But she has balls and I respect that.

That's why I'm using spironolactone, the anti androgen pill.

 

[Roberto_72]

My dad is 5'3" (serious), fat, with a teenage hairline. I still find him charming. He knows what he looks like. We know what he looks like. As a family, we will never use him as an example of how tragic obese short men can be, because we love him. And he's brilliant. I only just joined a couple of weeks and already seen countless posts of him using his dad as an example of how men with a rug is pathetic. You think my dad is happy being fat and short? You think the fear of him having a heart attack is not real?
I will never bring up my dad as an example of how tragic short men's lives are.

I had daddy issues when I was a bit younger without me noticing. My mum is the typical household wife and dad is the bread winner, with bad temper and is almost always silent in front of his kids. He took care of me dearly in every other aspects of life but as a husband, he failed. When I was young, he fought a lot with mum and was borderline abusive. He's changed now. But the damage was done. I had wrong perception of what a healthy relationship should be. My therapist told me I sought after men who were like my dad, and I do agree with her.

When I said he has daddy issues, I meant it, literally. Not to insult him. You can tell his dad has done a great deal on him, having a negative outlook on life. You can disagree because I don't know him in real life. It's just my 2cents from reading his posts. Daddy issues don't just apply to women I believe.

If you grew up thinking your dad is living a miserable life because of a rug, you really shouldn't pass this thought to your kids. Respect their choices in life just like anyone should do to hair wearers on this forum. My brother is also a bit short (5'6"). Maybe he'll have problems with his height in the future but I will support whatever he does to make up for his height, as long as it's not a dangerous option medically speaking. Maybe he'll be all depressed about his height and cry about it all day long. I will most certainly not make 100 posts online saying my short brother's life is miserable just to prove a point.

Are you from the US? Because if you are, you cannot not know that "daddy issues" does not mean what you say.

It is a derogatory sentence referred to a certain kind of insecure women.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=daddy issues

But then again, whatever floats your boat, just plz do not verbally abuse anyone.

 

[Rudiger]

When I left, my last interaction with you was an exchange where I argued that Fred's decision to cheat on his girlfriend was unethical but rational. You never accused me of bullshittery, and seemed to accept my accounts at face value.

And as for your main point, I've dated 22 women and slept with nine during the year. I don't look the same as I did in my twenties, my face looks different and I also spend a lot more time working on my appearance (styling, skin, clothes, body). I also have improved my social skills a lot.

Oh no I definitely accused you of bullshittery, that was before you left.

Hold on, you did an entire f*****g topic on being "Fred Pilled" which is a term I've regrettably coined, and you have completely turned your love life around on dressing well, styling etc.

This is NOT what Fred Pilling is, you hypocrite.

 

[swingline747]

I sent about a dozen recent pictures to Wolf Pack and shookwun. WP rated me a borderline 8, shookwun a solid 7

shoot me one, Ill be brutally honest if you want.

 

[Rudiger]

https://www.hairlosstalk.com/interact/threads/feeling-down-about-hairloss.99005/page-4#post-1331398

 

[CaptainForehead]

But then again, whatever floats your boat, just plz do not verbally abuse anyone.

Thank you for noticing.

Insults (related to fathers no less), and dishing out dislikes on the mens section of the forum. WTF.

 

[Dench57]

I initially thought this was a hairloss forum, but now I have realized that's it's more like a vanilla version of sluthate.

Most of the Impact section is basically just sluthate

 

[CaptainForehead]

That's an insinuation, not an accusation. And on the next page you say you wouldn't have doubted me if it weren't for Fred and Shookwun's accounts.

Zircon, you have a tendency to get OCD, it might be better if you save your energy and let posts by certain members slide. We won't think less of you.

 

[Rudiger]

That's an insinuation, not an accusation. And on the next page you say you wouldn't have doubted me if it weren't for Fred and Shookwun's accounts.

...And then I doubted you. You were influenced by the slayers.

 

[DoctorHouse]

You're right. I'll drop it.

Good, because you are better than him. I have seen this behavior before and its nothing but a "power struggle". I am very jealous of you and Fred but you don't see me here trying to analyze everything you say and tear it down.

 

[jd_uk]

That basically means 'ignore h.l.'

And I agree, not point in arguing with him.

His main reply will be "It's all BS lololol!"

So it wasn't just me and shookwun after all, now he has a problem with zircon, after an anecdote that involves being successful with women of course.

H.l.

Sorry if we make you feel insecure.

And you've made more money than anyone you've known since you were 15. You ARE full of BS. Nobody in their right mind should take a word that you say seriously.

 

[samantha3333]

Lol at the drama of this sub. Need to quit before I get addicted to it.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

When I left, my last interaction with you was an exchange where I argued that Fred's decision to cheat on his girlfriend was unethical but rational. You never accused me of bullshittery, and seemed to accept my accounts at face value.

And as for your main point, I've dated 22 women and slept with nine during the year. I don't look the same as I did in my twenties, my face looks different and I also spend a lot more time working on my appearance (styling, skin, clothes, body). I also have improved my social skills a lot.

You should post your skin regimen as a public service.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Yeah, we have good-looking users spamming their pictures to annoy other users, women who complain just to get the attention of white knights, ugly guys who post sad frog memes, salesmen who keep bickering with belgian guys. It's a funny place indeed.

I don't know if you're referring to me, but I'm the only one who has posted pictures in this thread and I'm not a good-looking guy, that's just you projecting your insecurity. I've been rated as below average by the few people I asked on this forum, and I get scant matches on tinder which confirms it.

On eHarmony, for a while, I was liking every single women as an experiment, every single one within an age and geography range, and only ~2% liked me back, less than half of those made it to conversation and eventually a date. That is a paid dating site, where supposedly the women should be more serious since they're paying $30/month. They probably are more serious. And women who are average on eHarmony can probably go on one date a week with a guy who is 7+/10.

It is because I look bad already that I'm afraid of going bald. @samantha3333 will tell you "Kelly Slater looks hot bald !!!" but I'm not Kelly Slater. I have other issues already, it's already hard-to-impossible to get women, I don't need another turn off in my armoury of turn offs. Baldness would be ok if it were the only problem, but as an addition to other problems it will f*****g suck. I'm exceptionally sweet, smart, caring, and genuine (have been told as such on numerous occasions) but those things don't matter with women -- intelligence only matters in that it might lead to the money needed to make the cosmetic enhancements that do matter.

I post pictures because I'm open about my struggles and my efforts to do better (multiple threads on this), and I was trying to get Samantha to be more open as well, but she declined.

 

[jd_uk]

Again, how is that so unbelievable?

Other people my age just didn't have my skills (and were laughing at them).

I was making websites from age 14 and troubleshooting computers.

I made the website of a restaurant, and whenever the owner heard that a client was having trouble with his computer, he gave them my number.

A lot of people laughed at me, even in my own family, called me a geek for spending so much times with computers.

And i made websites for people since around age 12 (genuinely). Not THAT much money in it however. I presume that you meant to state that you made more money than other people you knew the same age. Apart from the times when you were unemployed not so long ago too of course. Either way, it's clear to me that you exaggerate compulsively on this site.

 

[samantha3333]

I don't know if you're referring to me, but I'm the only one who has posted pictures in this thread and I'm not a good-looking guy, that's just you projecting your insecurity. I've been rated as below average by the few people I asked on this forum, and I get scant matches on tinder which confirms it.

On eHarmony, for a while, I was liking every single women as an experiment, every single one within an age and geography range, and only ~2% liked me back, less than half of those made it to conversation and eventually a date. That is a paid dating site, where supposedly the women should be more serious since they're paying $30/month. They probably are more serious. And women who are average on eHarmony can probably go on one date a week with a guy who is 7+/10.

It is because I look bad already that I'm afraid of going bald. @samantha3333 will tell you "Kelly Slater looks hot bald !!!" but I'm not Kelly Slater. I have other issues already, it's already hard-to-impossible to get women, I don't need another turn off in my armoury of turn offs. Baldness would be ok if it were the only problem, but as an addition to other problems it will f*****g suck. I'm exceptionally sweet, smart, caring, and genuine (have been told as such on numerous occasions) but those things don't matter with women -- intelligence only matters in that it might lead to the money needed to make the cosmetic enhancements that do matter.

I post pictures because I'm open about my struggles and my efforts to do better (multiple threads on this), and I was trying to get Samantha to be more open as well, but she declined.

I was saying "pics or it wasn't true" as a joke as I believe every each one of you is being too harsh on yourself. Of course I don't know anyone here so I wouldn't know. When I was depressed, I compared myself to real supermodels. f***, that mindset is brutal and destructive. No amount of compliments from guys helped. Can't imagine looking myself in the mirror and think "f***, Samatha you look tasty".

I don't think you're ugly. You look geeky. Maybe change the way you dress and work on your physique? I've dated a guy who I consider has a 10/10 face but he loves wearing flip flops 24/7. And the way he walks is just ..
One of my close friends is an Asian guy with minor recession, very short (prob 5'5"?) but them arms and six pack are just, yum. Such a treat to eyes. He doesn't have problems with girls. Well, I mean he can get laid and can get the blondes if he wants.

Get the f*** off online dating. I always go for the hottest dudes on tinder because I can. And it's easy for women if they are above average and photogenic (imo anyway). In real life, I am not as picky.

I can PM you my pics if you want. I'd rather not come up on Google search. You won't be able to see my hair loss in my day to day and holiday shots tho.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I was saying "pics or it wasn't true" as a joke as I believe every each one of you is being too harsh on yourself. Of course I don't know anyone here so I wouldn't know. When I was depressed, I compared myself to real supermodels. f***, that mindset is brutal and destructive. No amount of compliments from guys helped. Can't imagine looking myself in the mirror and think "f***, Samatha you look tasty".

I don't think you're ugly. You look geeky. Maybe change the way you dress and work on your physique? I've dated a guy who I consider has a 10/10 face but he loves wearing flip flops 24/7. And the way he walks is just ..
One of my close friends is an Asian guy with minor recession, very short (prob 5'5"?) but them arms and six pack are just, yum. Such a treat to eyes. He doesn't have problems with girls. Well, I mean he can get laid and can get the blondes if he wants.

Get the f*** off online dating. I always go for the hottest dudes on tinder because I can. And it's easy for women if they are above average and photogenic (imo anyway). In real life, I am not as picky.

I can PM you my pics if you want. I'd rather not come up on Google search. You won't be able to see my hair loss in my day to day and holiday shots tho.

You're going to get in trouble, you just wrote that muscles are attractive to women. That's a long running debate on this site, with several posters saying they don't matter.

Unfortunately I cannot put on muscles right now. I have a minor paraumbilical hernia, so for the next two months I am going to atrophy, not hypertrophy, and then I get surgery and then probably after that I can't put a strain on myself for four to six weeks. I'm counting on intermittent fasting to shed fat. I actually want the muscles more for body image and health reasons. not to impress women. More muscles => more testosterone => better health.

My clothes were very good in those pictures ... yes I was worrying a tourist shop tshirt when going on a tourist tour, I think that's appropriate. Do you never just wear a tshirt? Are you always wearing a cardigan? I was also wearing a jump suit when diving in the australian reef, same jump suit everyone else was wearing. I'm almost done revamping my wardrobe anyway, I'm going for a moderately slim fit, business casual look, emphasizing strong colours, at least for weekdays.

Women are not actually getting away with super hot guys in online dating. Yes, nearly all women can get a date or a f*** with a 9/10 guy, but that 9/10 guy is seeing 10 different women at once and not committing to any of them because there are 10 other women the following week. Of course meeting people in real life is better but it's actually very difficult and time consuming.

Sure, I'll see your pics. I'll delete mine in a few hours too.

By the way, part of the reason I look geeky is that I am geeky. The shoe fits. If you think geeky is necessarily bad then you're stuck in 1985 and that's somewhat your problem as well.

 

[samantha3333]

You're going to get in trouble, you just wrote that muscles are attractive to women. That's a long running debate on this site, with several posters saying they don't matter.

Unfortunately I cannot put on muscles right now. I have a minor paraumbilical hernia, so for the next two months I am going to atrophy, not hypertrophy, and then I get surgery and then probably after that I can't put a strain on myself for four to six weeks. I'm counting on intermittent fasting to shed fat.

My clothes were very good in those pictures ... yes I was worrying a tourist shop tshirt when going on a tourist tour, I think that's appropriate. Do you never just wear a tshirt? Are you always wearing a cardigan? I was also wearing a jump suit when diving in the australian reef, same jump suit everyone else was wearing. I'm almost done revamping my wardrobe anyway, I'm going for a moderately slim fit, business casual look, emphasizing strong colours, at least for weekdays.

Women are not actually getting away with super hot guys in online dating. Yes, nearly all women can get a date or a f*** with a 9/10 guy, but that 9/10 guy is seeing 10 different women at once and not committing to any of them because there are 10 other women the following week. Of course meeting people in real life is better but it's actually very difficult and time consuming.

Sure, I'll see your pics. I'll delete mine in a few hours too.

I rarely wear T shirts apart from when I play tennis, hike, kayak, being active in general. I don't normally wear cardigans. I don't like them.

Business casual is the best for men. Nothing sexier than a man in a tailored British suit.

What's your idea of super hot guys? Forget about models and hollywood.

That's a shame you can't do some training now. Maybe in the future? Are you quite short? If so, I think muscles are a must. Also, braces. I think you need them. Will make your smile a lot more attractive. Just my opinion.