People I hate

[Nene]

He thinks he's the sh*t because he has hair at 21. We'll see if he's still boasting in a few years.

 

[kejan]

Hairpieceman, wherever you go in the world - there are always going to be people better looking, taller, have a nicer skin complexion, funnier, fitter etc.
It doesn't mean that you are doomed to a life of misery.

You need to focus on the things you are good at and been blessed with.
A wig and platform shoes will possibly make you look taller and more attractive, but you need to work on your mindset too.

Focus on the things you are great at and concentrate on being the best person you are. Not every girl is shallow and many will take you for what you are.

I know it's a rant, but when life throws us these setbacks - instead of sulking - you need to find the best way to tackle it and go do that. If that's wearing concealers, shaving your head, wearing platforms - good for you. Find what makes you happy and do it.

 

[Nene]

The opposite is true. Someone with such severe hair loss at such a young age will probably not keep hair for very long. You responded well to treatments because you are still young. You will need finasteride soon, and even then, you will probably be bald before 30.

 

[Nene]

Be prepared to end up back in the mental hospital buddy.

 

[cantholdmedown]

He thinks he's the sh*t because he has hair at 21. We'll see if he's still boasting in a few years.

I was so cute at 19 though :

You realise that if I went from the picture below to the one above, there is a very good chance I will still be "boasting" in a few years . And bam! This is what happens when you mess, with, me! :hump:

Damn wtf, thats crazy regrowth

 

[Nene]

lol. I'm not jealous at all. I'm still Norwood 2 and with toppik no one can notice my hair loss. However, I'm almost 30 years old, let's see you when you're pushing 30.

 

[uncomfortable man]

I take Fred's age into account, that and his maturity level.

But I can relate to HPM's sentiments. When enough people stare at you like sub-human trash then it can foster deep seeded feelings of hatred and resentment.

Take it from me....

 

[cantholdmedown]

I take Fred's age into account, that and his maturity level.

But I can relate to HPM's sentiments. When enough people stare at you like sub-human trash then it can foster deep seeded feelings of hatred and resentment.

Take it from me....

LMAO sub-human trash.

:thumbdown2:

:shakehead:

 

[HairPieceMan]

He never said anywhere that he shaved it off.
He just kept it in a short horseshoe like most bald guys did at that time.
He was succesful actor throughout his whole 20's,30', and 40's he did'nt shave it until he was about 50.
But it intersting to note that he was cast as playing characters much older than his actual age.

so what at 19 he had shorshoe hair in a short-ish style?

im not deniying he professioal success, my question was pertaining his love life, he said he felt inhibited by it, but did he just go for older women or just ignore women all together until he got rid of the horshoe?

 

[LooseItAll]

ok so due to two major genetic flaws in my life ( 5 4.5 and being bald at 22) I have come to the conclusion that I hate the folllowing people.

1. Tall guys, like 6 ft tall, they are always laughing and smiling, they know what they have, and i know they are laughing at me (when i am not in my lifts to make me go from very short (5 4.5) to short (5 7)).

2. hair guys, people with hair, or at least kept there hair until 25 or 30, they are assholes, i do not like them, they have had no problems with their life.

3. asians or indians, i really dont like them, because they have an excuse for being short, as in very short like myself, what excuse do i have for being like 5 4? none, that's what!

4. blacks, I hate black people, solely becuase being bald for them isn't a problem, whereas for me its a big massisve problem, they are total twats.

so that means I pretty much hate everyone and im very bitter, this life sucks, i wish i just grew to say 5 7 and kept my hair until 25 like 99% of guys did, then none of this mess would've happened.

anyway that is my vent over, and i hate everyone, except when i see a guy who is balding in 20s, i like that guy, he's cool, but only if hes below average height....if he has those two things, he's in my cool club.

You are being silly

1. They probably don't even care about you and do not notice your presence...

2. Yeah sure because having hair protects you from any problems in life...

3. What kind of excuse is that? They are still short and it sucks and on top of that they are asian and indian so they have to face racial prejudice. But since you are white I guess you will not understand that.

4. That's because a black guy has to shave it off at the very first signs of recession. A black guy can't pull of the NW3 look like whites do. Plus I'm sure if you were black and living in a eurocentric country you would realize that pulling of the bald look(which not every black can do) is a small consolation considering all the disadvantages of being black.

Get off your hateful mentality. It will not serve you well once you fix your physical flaws.

 

[s.a.f]

He never said anywhere that he shaved it off.
He just kept it in a short horseshoe like most bald guys did at that time.
He was succesful actor throughout his whole 20's,30', and 40's he did'nt shave it until he was about 50.
But it intersting to note that he was cast as playing characters much older than his actual age.

so what at 19 he had shorshoe hair in a short-ish style?

im not deniying he professioal success, my question was pertaining his love life, he said he felt inhibited by it, but did he just go for older women or just ignore women all together until he got rid of the horshoe?

Like I said he did'nt get rid of the horseshoe until he was 60. You think he was celibate his whole life? :doh: :shakehead:

He was married at 26.

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[s.a.f]

I hate everyone, except when i see a guy who is balding in 20s, i like that guy, he's cool, but only if hes below average height....if he has those two things, he's in my cool club.

Sounds like a great club to be in :whistle:

 

[LooseItAll]

i think most black guys look the same bald as they do with a hairline buzzed to a 1, so i don't think they look much different, its like a very minor impact compared to the catastrophy that a white man faces when bald (examples brad pitt picture mock ups etc.)

the problem i have with the asian/indian people is the fact that they are not actually short, they are living in the region where they are not native to in which they are regarded as short, so it's their own fault, its like the equivalant if a 5 7 short man in UK goes to netherlands and ends up looking like a 5 2 man, it's his fault really.

so my issue is that 99% of people suck, because they seem to have basic features which i never had like full head of hair at 19 and are at least 5 7 short.

i think someone is making a practical joke out of me.

the number 1 guy i hate is the 6 ft tall black guy with hair, becuase even if he goes bald its like it's meaningless, he is my opposite nemesis, since im the direct opposite to him being very short and white and noticably balding at 19, but yeah the 6 foot tall black guy goes on forever, he will never have any failings, if i see one of them i will glare at him!

This is getting ridiculous. I'll tell you something. I am mixed and guess what? Having a receding hairline at 18 years old was not meaningless for me. And stop writing bullcrap about being black and not caring about hair. Ask David Haye if hairloss wouldn't matter for him. Not every black guy sports the shaved look.

And what about the children of those asian couples? Should they emigrate to their native countries because of height? Because leaving everything behing just to not stand out staturewise would be so easy... Well you can always go to Russia I guess there is the biggest % of male pattern baldness sufferers so you will finally blend.

 

[HairPieceMan]

I hate everyone, except when i see a guy who is balding in 20s, i like that guy, he's cool, but only if hes below average height....if he has those two things, he's in my cool club.

Sounds like a great club to be in :whistle:

welcome to my life then, care to suffer my genetic fate?

...

well anyway patrick stewart looks good in that photo, id be interested to know what he exactly looked like at 19? i mean how bad did he look? hell the guy looked good enough bald to be on tv, most caucasians look sh*t bald, yet he looked good, as in good enough to be in movie WITHOUT being a stereotype such as the butch bald guy ala vin diesel, there is a difference between people that look good and look bad bald.

I just googled David Haye , looks like a cool guy, did he have hairloss? seems to have hair to me?

honestly most black people DO look good OR AT LEAST NORMAL bald, im not saying their super models, im saying they look normal, like nothing is "wrong" with them, but i look liked something was "wrong" with me.

so what im saying is the worst a black bald guy can look is not good, but its still NORMAL, im talking about people that look WIERD bald, as in they look like freaks or whatever (as i did), some caucasians look like freaks without a hairline, and NO black guys will look like freaks bald since their skintone matches that of a hairline, its all about the hairline/frame to the face that makes people look at least normal etc.

honestly you take any 12 year old black kid and make him bald, he looks OK, take any white 12 year old kid and make him bald the alarm bells start ringing, same applys for many 22 or 32 year old white people, it doesn't change as you get older, especially if you only grew to 5 4 or something.

 

[LooseItAll]

I hate everyone, except when i see a guy who is balding in 20s, i like that guy, he's cool, but only if hes below average height....if he has those two things, he's in my cool club.

Sounds like a great club to be in :whistle:

welcome to my life then, care to suffer my genetic fate?

...

well anyway patrick stewart looks good in that photo, id be interested to know what he exactly looked like at 19? i mean how bad did he look? hell the guy looked good enough bald to be on tv, most caucasians look sh*t bald, yet he looked good, as in good enough to be in movie WITHOUT being a stereotype such as the butch bald guy ala vin diesel, there is a difference between people that look good and look bad bald.

I just googled David Haye , looks like a cool guy, did he have hairloss? seems to have hair to me?

honestly most black people DO look good OR AT LEAST NORMAL bald, im not saying their super models, im saying they look normal, like nothing is "wrong" with them, but i look liked something was "wrong" with me.

so what im saying is the worst a black bald guy can look is not good, but its still NORMAL, im talking about people that look WIERD bald, as in they look like freaks or whatever (as i did), some caucasians look like freaks without a hairline, and NO black guys will look like freaks bald since their skintone matches that of a hairline, its all about the hairline/frame to the face that makes people look at least normal etc.

honestly you take any 12 year old black kid and make him bald, he looks OK, take any white 12 year old kid and make him bald the alarm bells start ringing, same applys for many 22 or 32 year old white people, it doesn't change as you get older, especially if you only grew to 5 4 or something.

No most caucasians do not looks sh*t. When I was a child and didn't even know male pattern baldness existed I never considered bald caucassians looking like sh*t because of their baldness. The truth is this is your own projection of insecurities. Yes being bald does not improve your image, but saying that it makes you look like sh*t for most people is ridiculous. Now being bald stacked with other physical flaws makes you unattractive that is correct so that is why I support you in your future plans.

Yes David Haye has hair and I am sure if he had hair loss it would bother him. There are many blacks that style their hair and even if they do not that doesn't mean hairloss is meaningless for them.

Yes something is wrong with you because you are very short and bald at a youung age. But being a black or an asian would not make you less "wrong" if not more. Keep in mind that hair loss is far more frequent in caucasians. So if you are black or asian with male pattern baldness losing hair at a young age there is a pretty good chance that you will be the only black or asian losing hair so young in your area. I can assure you that it would not add to your confidence.

Looking like a freak is all about face shape and head shape not skin color. If you have a boyish face you will probably not look good bald. If your face is manly then it will suit you very well. You go and tell me that NeYo does not look like a freak with his weird face and head shape...

A slick bald white kid would look strage because white kids rarely go for such hairstyle at such a young age. But a receding 22 black guy will be far more strange than a white. Blacks do not shave it out of choice, but a must. A receding look is not acceptable on a bluck guy, while a white guy can pull the look up to NW3. Even horseshoes are less acceptable in the black community.

 

[HairPieceMan]

the truth is my own insecurities?

i hate that word, if something looks bad on a guy (such as bald), then something else looks better (such as hair), it's now an insecurity flag and you should just listen to a confidence tape.

this is simply not true, it has been mentioned many times on this forum how bad brad pitt and tom cruise can look bald with various mockups etc.

by saf and UCMan, it IS true, even the greatest looking guy can be turned to nothing at the hands of male pattern baldness, as soon as that frame is gone then BOOM it's a different guy, completely unrecognisable to his friends or family, a guy with no frame to his face etc.

also in all honestly it doesnt look sh*t, it just looks not good, just OK at best, for general interaction its fine, but for dating it's a nightmare if your an average looking guy with ZERO hair, then it DOES look like sh*t (in that context).

of course there is something wrong with me, there is something wrong with PRE-MATURE male pattern baldness in late teens/early 20s, it's like the earliest form of genetic hairloss, that is why it's called PRE-MATURE, becuase it has happened way before my time, in general, men are not meant to have diffuse thinning at 19 then lose their crowns when they are 22. that only happens to like 1% of the male population, also im fed up of 29 year olds with minor temple recession that most people shrug off as a mature hairline being considered "hair loss suffers" by many statistics online, they do not know TRUE suffering with hairloss, im like the ultimate sufferer of hairloss (worst case).

also men, in general, are not meant to be as tall as girls ( 5 4), they usually grow to 5 9 or end up a bit on the short side (5 7)

a slick bald white kid will look strange, yes im glad we agree on that, but how about when that kid is 22 or 32? has his face changed that much? the answer is no, no it has not, the same rules apply.

also i have seen MANY bald black kids, even skinny ones and I don't blink an eye at that, in general society it is not seen as a problem, and when that black kis is 22 he can be bald as he was at 12, because, again, the same rules apply.

well i never receeded, but i dont care how well whites can pull of a NW3 for however long it lasts them before they head to NW4/I am bald so i might as well shave off.


fact is that although blacks dont get the option to go NW3, they make up for it by having the bald look working for them, it just does, find me one black man with hair then looks like really bad bald, hardly any, but i can take most white men such as brad pitt, tom cruise etc. and take away their hair and its like a train wreck has smashed into his face.

 

[LooseItAll]

the truth is my own insecurities?

i hate that word, if something looks bad on a guy (such as bald), then something else looks better (such as hair), it's now an insecurity flag and you should just listen to a confidence tape.

this is simply not true, it has been mentioned many times on this forum how bad brad pitt and tom cruise can look bald with various mockups etc.

by saf and UCMan, it IS true, even the greatest looking guy can be turned to nothing at the hands of male pattern baldness, as soon as that frame is gone then BOOM it's a different guy, completely unrecognisable to his friends or family, a guy with no frame to his face etc.

also in all honestly it doesnt look sh*t, it just looks not good, just OK at best, for general interaction its fine, but for dating it's a nightmare if your an average looking guy with ZERO hair, then it DOES look like sh*t (in that context).

of course there is something wrong with me, there is something wrong with PRE-MATURE male pattern baldness in late teens/early 20s, it's like the earliest form of genetic hairloss, that is why it's called PRE-MATURE, becuase it has happened way before my time, in general, men are not meant to have diffuse thinning at 19 then lose their crowns when they are 22. that only happens to like 1% of the male population, also im fed up of 29 year olds with minor temple recession that most people shrug off as a mature hairline being considered "hair loss suffers" by many statistics online, they do not know TRUE suffering with hairloss, im like the ultimate sufferer of hairloss (worst case).

also men, in general, are not meant to be as tall as girls ( 5 4), they usually grow to 5 9 or end up a bit on the short side (5 7)

a slick bald white kid will look strange, yes im glad we agree on that, but how about when that kid is 22 or 32? has his face changed that much? the answer is no, no it has not, the same rules apply.

also i have seen MANY bald black kids, even skinny ones and I don't blink an eye at that, in general society it is not seen as a problem, and when that black kis is 22 he can be bald as he was at 12, because, again, the same rules apply.

well i never receeded, but i dont care how well whites can pull of a NW3 for however long it lasts them before they head to NW4/I am bald so i might as well shave off.


fact is that although blacks dont get the option to go NW3, they make up for it by having the bald look working for them, it just does, find me one black man with hair then looks like really bad bald, hardly any, but i can take most white men such as brad pitt, tom cruise etc. and take away their hair and its like a train wreck has smashed into his face.

But noone is questioning the fact that having hair is better than being bald... Yes generally a guy with hair will look better but what I mean by insecurieties is that some poeple make hairloss a much bigger problem than it actually is. It is not like with hairloss you attractivness truns nil.

UC pulls of the bald look very well so... There may be some guys that really look like sh*t, but he is not one of them and that is a fact.

Yes a slick bald child will looks strange bacase at this age white kids usually rock other hairstyles. While a 22-32 white man often wears his hair very short anyway these days, just like blacks.

You seem to not realise that there is a difference in being bald by choice and by must. NeYo was balding at a very young age and he was teased by his relatives about it, because he was probably the only balding black kid at that age in his area. If you are having a har time spotting a NW5 white guy your age then imagin how hard it would be if you were black.
There are many whites that are starting to recede at 20+ mark. There may not NW5 like you but the process has already started.

Brad Pitt would not look good bald because he is hadsome in a "cute" way how women call it. But Tom Cruise:

http://deep717.blogspot.com/2009/03/if- ... -bald.html

You are being delusional if you think he does not pull of the bald look great. He looks way better than Obama and way better than NeYo:

 

[s.a.f]

well anyway patrick stewart looks good in that photo, id be interested to know what he exactly looked like at 19? i mean how bad did he look? hell the guy looked good enough bald to be on tv, most caucasians look sh*t bald, yet he looked good, as in good enough to be in movie WITHOUT being a stereotype such as the butch bald guy ala vin diesel, there is a difference between people that look good and look bad bald.

I just googled David Haye , looks like a cool guy, did he have hairloss? seems to have hair to me?

Dont know why I'm bothering to repy to this ..... Guess I must be really bored .... anyway ......

Patrick Stewarts hairloss did'nt hold him back in acting because back then they did'nt only cast goodlooking types. (they still dont now apart from in lead roles.)
He probably was about 19 in that pic. But most of the time he would play characters much older than his real age.

And really you had to gooogle David Haye? Are'nt you from the UK?

 

[cantholdmedown]

WTF david haye is a terrible example, he would look like a boss bald.

but yeah, neyo looks like sh*t.

 

[HairPieceMan]

yes i am from the UK, but i do not pay attention to pop culture, i am a very odd person.

but yeah he is a boxer?...well boxing i don't think is THAT popular, usually it's football here, yet i do no pay attention to footballer either

when i mentioned UCman and Saf i was refering to their opinions of brad pitt bald who looked bad, you claim the reason is becuase with hair he is a "cute" type person.

well i think a lot of guys are in that catergory.

anyway ok i am willing to admit that not ALL black guys pull it off, id say that a lot more of them pull it off better than white guys, like a significant amount more to make me anoyed.

also this is a hairloss forum, not a racism impact forum, if a black guy in is UK and is uncormfortable then he can just move, just like if i was in a 99.9% black community i have the option to just move to a place where i fit in a lot better, or at least i feel i fit in a lot better, so there is an option for him, there is no place a bad looking bald guy to go to fit in better, unless its a 3rd world country where people don't care about looks as much.

so yeah, BLACKS to have IT , and by IT i am refering to hairloss purely, not any other problems/benefits to being black, they have IT a lot better, in general, far greater than whites.

also the kid argument, you say it is age related, just because they are 12 they don't do that style, well then why do 12 year old black kids do that style then?

this logic makes no sense, clearly it works for black school kids and not for white school kids, this is not an age related hair "style", it works by skin tone/facial features etc.