Peoples Shame Of Discussing Baldness

[buckthorn]

side question - If a girl is hot enough, can any of you guys get turned on by really unintelligent girls? how about crazy girls? how about stalker type girls? Girls with absolutely no direction? I simply cannot. They could be smoking hot, but at the first sign of these weaknesses, I literally cannot even get hard.

 

[F2005]

If hair loss is your only problem, then you're doing fabulously.

The issue with hair loss is that as a problem it can amplify the damage from other issues. Usually most people have multiple issues.

"it can amplify the damage from other issues". This really hits the nail on the head. I used to have slight anxiety around women yet it was totally manageable. But with a balding head of hair, it magnifies my anxiety tenfold. And hair loss obviously also creates other problems on its own too. For instance, I remember when I was on a dating website (as a fullhead) and nearly every girl on there rejected me. Yet it didn't bother me much, because I was completely secure with who I was. Yet now, in my insecure and balding state, if a woman rejected me, I'd attribute it to my eroding outer looks, and I'd feel terrible.

 

[blackg]

PJ, I tend to agree with a lot of your points. Although it's sometimes hard to define, love and attraction really are different. I've slept with girls that I've been attracted to yet I've never loved. Yet there are women that I love for reasons other than sex, so I am not attracted to them in that physical sense. And that is a really interesting story about your ex-wife offering to pay off your debt.

Good post. BTW, I happen to know your true love, F2005.

The Vikings!!!

 

[blackg]

side question - If a girl is hot enough, can any of you guys get turned on by really unintelligent girls? how about crazy girls? how about stalker type girls? Girls with absolutely no direction? I simply cannot. They could be smoking hot, but at the first sign of these weaknesses, I literally cannot even get hard.

Crazy chicks?? Hell yeah!
If they have dark hair an pale skin.
Mixed with deep, dark sexy eyes.... all the way, baby!

 

[buckthorn]

Crazy chicks?? Hell yeah!
If they have dark hair an pale skin.
Mixed with deep, dark sexy eyes.... all the way, baby!

I mean crazy like, "Hey blackg, I know we just met yesterday, but can I change my relationship status to 'in a relationship'... how about then?

 

[buckthorn]

Crazy chicks?? Hell yeah!
If they have dark hair an pale skin.
Mixed with deep, dark sexy eyes.... all the way, baby!

so, you like the inherently damaged emo/goth girls? yes, they are pretty hot. lol

 

[I.D WALKER]

Crazy chicks?? Hell yeah!
If they have dark hair an pale skin.
Mixed with deep, dark sexy eyes.... all the way, baby!

Crazy chicks..,haha! I think that covers just about all of them.

 

[CaptainForehead]

side question - If a girl is hot enough, can any of you guys get turned on by really unintelligent girls? how about crazy girls? how about stalker type girls? Girls with absolutely no direction? I simply cannot. They could be smoking hot, but at the first sign of these weaknesses, I literally cannot even get hard.

Demure unintelligent -- yes
Loudmouth unintelligent -- no
Crazy -- yes, I think I would find EvilLocks attractive
Stalker -- no
No direction -- yes

 

[blackg]

I mean crazy like, "Hey blackg, I know we just met yesterday, but can I change my relationship status to 'in a relationship'... how about then?

OK... Seriously. I could do a couple of months in a relationship with an unhinged girl.
I have in the past, mate.
We were both drinking a lot and it only lasted about 7 weeks.

And.. the best thing about it?
She broke it off with me! It was great.
Some other dude stole her heart (poor bastard).

I always buy this guy a drink whenever I see him around.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Long-term couples who don't have enough money to satisfy the living standards they feel entitled to will eventually be consumed by mutual resentment.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Again, you should have your basics covered, so of course being broke will cause problems in a relationship. There's nothing beyond that. Whether you make 50000, 100000 or 150000 a year won't make a woman more attracted to you.

Requirements may be lower in socialist Belgium.

Meanwhile, over in North America:
Other professionals describe how they must endure harsh non-traditional work schedules, much like their retail worker brethren. They work on weekends and late into the day and barely see their children. At the end of the year, they just break even, all the while retaining debt from college and even graduate school that they will never be able to repay.

http://www.nakedcapitalism.com/2016/07/meet-the-middle-precariat.html

 

[xetudor]

Again, you should have your basics covered, so of course being broke will cause problems in a relationship. There's nothing beyond that. Whether you make 50000, 100000 or 150000 a year won't make a woman more attracted to you.

Let them work like slaves to get women. Casual sex doesn't care about your money and wanting a long term relationship with a women because she likes your money is stupid. She'll marry you and because of these dumb laws like alimony (wtf is this sh*t? how come people allow this to exist? the concept doesn't exist in my country) you'll pay for her even when she'll be f*****g others.

 

[I.D WALKER]

If a woman's attraction to a man is wholly physical/chemically dependent, then a man is like an unskilled angler, without a line in the water who is using himself (looks) as bait. Inversely he becomes some fishes' 'catch of the day'.
The fact that he is a wealthy fisherman, might only mean that he's merely a fatter worm for Fish to swallow and enjoy
possibly a bit longer, One could say after reading this allegory that man needs no net worth to catch a fish,
but he can never carry his quarry too far from the running waters and expect to slip off to dry land together and stay alive.

 

[shookwun]

It doesn't. Your looks are all you have to get and keep women.

You need looks + your basics covered (good weight, not broke, fitted clothes, hygiene).

After that, whether she will stay with you will depend on her environment, if she meets one guy she deems genetically superior to you, you relationship is doomed.

Women are programmed to seek the best genes available to them.

Lol this.

And these encounters where you meet women talk, and text on applications and confirm this. The moment I hear a girl tell me how much she misses and wants me, confirms this.


How can you miss a guy you never met? It's all hailo effect to. The sensible feelings, built up sexual tension and wait to see each other. Less attractive you are, thw faster she forgets.


Your personality does almost nothing. Everyone has one a personality, some more interesting then others. Some people can articulate themselves better and come off and appear more interesting. Throw in a witty humour and someone who reads a lot and you have a decent personality that would be considered a catch. Its largely genetic though. .. almost entirely. Enviroment, and the activities you do influence social material but not how you conduct yourself. Those with lots of hobbies are generally more good st discussing a multitude of topics.



None of it matters though. I see boring relationships all the time. Couples walking together and barely talking outside of random gibberish. 'Weathers nice!' While the incel talks snout ground breaking discoveries in the economy system and how global warming is a scam. Enough to dry her pussy. To bad the handsome man puts her personality into over drive regardless. Remember we all work on a dopamine circuit. She will be more receptive and interesting into the boring guy regardless of what he says. He simply makes her feel better. Just being next to each other is enough.


We are all influenced by dopamine. We want to be with partners that make us feel good downstairs.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Let them work like slaves to get women. Casual sex doesn't care about your money and wanting a long term relationship with a women because she likes your money is stupid. She'll marry you and because of these dumb laws like alimony (wtf is this sh*t? how come people allow this to exist? the concept doesn't exist in my country) you'll pay for her even when she'll be f*****g others.

You should want money for yourself, not for your mistress.

 

[xetudor]

You should want money for yourself, not for your mistress.

For yourself and for your family but you shouldn't pursue money like crazy to attract women, you'll attract some but for the wrong reasons.

 

[I.D WALKER]

If good looks are at the root of primary attraction ,surely then for a
relationship to grow and/or prosper requires something else more than a bright smile.
Attractiveness may be a big piece of the pretty puzzle, but for a 'complete relationship'
to work, one can unrealistically pretend that their work is finished all they want,
however the missing piece(s) are going to always show up. Sooner or later
someone will decide what they will do with them, and learn what 'pretty' really get's you.

 

[shookwun]

Lol anyone who's drive to make money for women is a weak cuckling. Money for me is spending power and gives me the ability to better myself, and do whatever I want.


Nothing worse then being bald and poor mixed together. The hair can Dellude a 'privledged' individual into a decent life with a women and sh*t paying job. Living pay cheque to pay cheque. The pussy helps him cope. I know tons of guys like this. Minimum wage, barely can afford there place, live in the downtown flats and live life by the weekend. Work hipster jobs, have pussy on the side and are generally happy. They don't know what money is so in essence they are blue pull.

Bald guy... u will want to noose yourself after a life of being poor ontop of balding. No pussy for coping, and Living life by how many browser tabs you have open at once. c*** in one hand, mouse in the other. Splooge to cope.

 

[shookwun]

Money is the number one way to cope.


Travel the world, exploit your ad vantage and financial benefit over others. Women value security and finances a lot in other countries where otherwise the cost of living is to expensive given how poor people are. Yoy get the pussy they get the money.




An incel primary concern should be getting a good job and doing well in school. Take your lickings, and stepping. Forever a beta, but at least you can be somewhat of a figure in another country where women are some what more traditional in value.

 

[shookwun]

It is good for guys who are bald and need to cope better. I do believe there is a happy medium but anything more won't result I anything significantly better.

The happy medium for me was being able to afford a nice place, having a means of transportation, eating in nice restaurants everyday, traveling whenever I want and stI'll increasing my principle. Anything more didn't make me happy.


Once you reach the ability to acquire what I mentioned you have reached your peak for being happy. Anything more is just an increase in wealth.