Peoples Shame Of Discussing Baldness

[pjhair]

Before
Hair is important before marriage.
After marriage..if everything goes well.
The most important thing is
Money,money,money.
No one will judge you for your looks..
It will be your status/job position,
Lifestyle and your Financial strength.

That's wrong way to think. Your looks will be important even after marriage. With so many opportunities for women to cheat now a days, a man always needs to be on top of his game.

 

[EvilLocks]

Like you know anything about intelligence, you can't even read properly. I never said it's a bad thing to talk about hairloss on this forum. You just should NEVER open up about baldness to anyone you know. It makes you look weak.

I can read just fine, thank you. I simply misunderstood your message because I read it too quickly. It does not make me less intellegent or retarded. Also, English is not my first language. So I think I'm doing just fine, thank you.

 

[buckthorn]

Before



Hair is important before marriage.
After marriage..if everything goes well.
The most important thing is
Money,money,money.
No one will judge you for your looks..
It will be your status/job position,
Lifestyle and your Financial strength.

Sorry, but I cannot agree with this. What about your ethics, sense of humor, ability to raise children and be a strong father? What about your skills in bed, ability to be romantic and caring, talents, ability to problem solve during arguments, etc... You only need so much money if you are equipped in all these areas.

 

[N003]

it's just different for certain people man. I am 34. Yes, my twenties were full of beautiful women and great times. I am grateful. But, I am 34 and single. I want a wife and family one day, but am self conscience as f*ck around attractive women. Hell, even so around my family. What is with all these generalizations flying around? We are all way smarter than this.

In your age, you don't need hair...what you need is money, a good job and financial security. i don't think that u want a 20 years old girl now or?


Second. Hair on the head is NOT a guarantee for free sex with many girls lol. i have friends with full hair on head but never a girl or sex in their best lifetime.

There are so many factors to take easy a girl for one night.

 

[Agent 47]

That's wrong way to think. Your looks will be important even after marriage. With so many opportunities for women to cheat now a days, a man always needs to be on top of his game.

Every man has a different deck of cards, that must be played to its fullest.
If you can't have hair, improve other things about you.

 

[buckthorn]

You will get your good woman. That's easy, especially in your situation.

You're not bald, probably balding slowly at your age, you can use treatments, have multiple FUE's, possibly enjoy new treatments in a few years.

You're good. Just start dating and don't miss opportunities because you think you look like sh*t.

I thought I looked like crap (did you see the picture before my hair transplant) and I kind of did, and it didn't stop me from having girlfriends.

You've done it before, you can do it again.

thanks for the encouraging words, but I am diffused to sh*t. I have a six inch, red scar across the back of my head and transplants on one side. finasteride made it worst. RU made it worst. dutasteride will most likely make it worst. Losing 30% of your density in one year, with no treatments that work is an unpredictable freight train of sh*t Androgenetic Alopecia. But, I do appreciate your positive attitude. I DO actually look like sh*t. The top of my head looks like a sick old man and I have no explanation but the truth as to why. Or I can lie and tell people I had chemo.

 

[pjhair]

Every man has a different deck of cards, that must be played to its fullest.
If you can't have hair, improve other things about you.

I know. I was simply responding to Saurabhs claim that the value of looks goes down after marriage. He seems to believe that once married, the women is going to stick with him for the rest of his life.

 

[buckthorn]

In your age, you don't need hair...what you need is money, a good job and financial security. i don't think that u want a 20 years old girl now or?


Second. Hair on the head is NOT a guarantee for free sex with many girls lol. i have friends with full hair on head but never a girl or sex in their best lifetime.

There are so many factors to take easy a girl for one night.

I make good money and have my own business. I also have financial security. It means nothing if you can't look in the mirror and be at least content with what you see. When you look in the mirror and feel sick to your stomach, you simply cannot date women. it's impossible.

 

[Saurabhaj]

That's wrong way to think. Your looks will be important even after marriage. There are so many opportunity for women to cheat, a man always needs to be on top of his game.

I mean about 5 years later.like after 35.
I have seen women of handsome but average income men flirting with high status men,
While i have also seen women of high status average looking men flirting with handsome guys like drivers.

But those women who married handsome man with huge money live life like a Dream.
They will never cheat husband.
Or even if they cheat,it would not be dangerous to marriage life.

 

[N003]

I make good money and have my own business. I also have financial security. It means nothing if you can't look in the mirror and be at least content with what you see. When you look in the mirror and feel sick to your stomach, you simply cannot date women. it's impossible.

What's your norwood scale?

Then take the last solution: Hair transplant.

 

[Saurabhaj]

I know. I was simply responding to Saurabhs claim that the value of looks goes down after marriage. He seems to believe that once married, the women is going to stick with him for the rest of his life.

My question to you.

Suppose you are married and you have a wife.
If you have some financial problem,
And your look started fading.

What will be deadliest strike to your married life..if your wife start rant for a thing.would your look will content her.
I have seen women commenting..
Sorry my husband can't buy me an Iphone on facebook pages of technology.

I am telling this because..i have seen many wife fighting their husband telling you don't earn Enough.
I have seen discontent of women at restaurents..I have seen discontent of women at multiplex's.
You know how dear it cost to watch a movie + snacks.
How dear it cost a single Shopping Mall visit.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Sorry, but I cannot agree with this. What about your ethics, sense of humor, ability to raise children and be a strong father? What about your skills in bed, ability to be romantic and caring, talents, ability to problem solve during arguments, etc... You only need so much money if you are equipped in all these areas.

My point about money is not about building wealth/cash surplus.
I am saying one need money to run the family well.
My money belief is same as said.
But still many want extra...
Its same as..
Few women wants handsome man,
Few want rich and well settled man.

 

[Joan]

Before



Hair is important before marriage.
After marriage..if everything goes well.
The most important thing is
Money,money,money.
No one will judge you for your looks..
It will be your status/job position,
Lifestyle and your Financial strength.

The most important thing is love. Without it, you are both just going through the motions.

 

[Joan]

That's wrong way to think. Your looks will be important even after marriage. With so many opportunities for women to cheat now a days, a man always needs to be on top of his game.

So does a woman.

 

[Saurabhaj]

The most important thing is love. Without it, you are both just going through the motions.

True ..love is important..

But one girl told me this..
If a guy accept to marry me..he will surely love me.

 

[Joan]

My point about money is not about building wealth/cash surplus.
I am saying one need money to run the family well.
My money belief is same as said.
But still many want extra...
Its same as..
Fee women wants handsome man,
Few want rich and well settled man.

Money is important, Saurabhaj, true, but love trumps money, in my opinion. Some of us have expressed we'd rather be poor with full heads of hair than rich and bald. Of what value is money if there is no love for each other?

 

[marco75]

The most important thing is love. Without it, you are both just going through the motions.

Truth! Everything else is temporary and unfulfilling.

 

[pjhair]

My question to you.

Suppose you are married and you have a wife.
If you have some financial problem,
And your look started fading.

What will be deadliest strike to your married life..if your wife start rant for a thing.would your look will content her.
I have seen women commenting..
Sorry my husband can't buy me an Iphone on facebook pages of technology.

I am telling this because..i have seen many wife fighting their husband telling you don't earn Enough.
I have seen discontent of women at restaurents..I have seen discontent of women at multiplex's.
You know how dear it cost to watch a movie + snacks.
How dear it cost a single Shopping Mall visit.

Financial stability is important in a healthy marriage. I never denied it. I simply argued against your position that looks are not important after marriage. My position is that you need to be on top of your game which includes looks, personality and financial stability. There are various opportunities for women to cheat now a days. If you are rich but are ugly, your wife can easily find someone rich who looks good. If you look like a model but are broke, your wife can easily find someone who looks like a model and is rich. That is assuming your wife is hot. If you are married to an ugly women, then you can get away with not being on top of your game more often.

 

[marco75]

Financial stability is important in a healthy marriage. I never denied it. I simply argued against your position that looks are not important after marriage. My position is that you need to be on top of your game which includes looks, personality and financial stability. There are various opportunities for women to cheat now a days. If you are rich but are ugly, your wife can easily find someone rich who looks good. If you look like a model but are broke, your wife can easily find someone who looks like a model and is rich. That is assuming your wife is hot. If you are married to an ugly women, then you can get away with not being on top of your game more often.

There is some truth here, but if a woman loves you then you would have to really let things go to make her leave, a good woman will stick with you.

 

[Saurabhaj]

My Cousin elder brother is a really really really handsome guy.
His looks i can easily say 10s.
But he is not financially sound.
He became father of a daugher who got convulsions on day one.
Her health was critical.
I later found out she had exotropia..
Her both eyes were not aligned.
Also she had lower limb weakness.
She has not been able to walk even at age 14 months.

Imagine how much money he have spend on my sweet niece.
He is broked totally in terms of money.
He always tell me..
Don't care for hairs, only thing one need is money and nothing else.

Life is too cruel.
His life definitely need more than love.