Poll: Lets Make It Clear : Are You Single Or Not

[Rudiger]

Technically anyone is "willingly single" because no matter how dyer your situation, there's always going to be some obese 2/10 aspie chick who would date you.

I guess being "unwillingly single" in this context is trying to date remotely within your respective range (so if you're a 6 then you can consider a 4 at absolute lowest stretching point).

Just on this topic, you know you've really failed as a human when you're dating aesthetically way below your level, unless you're one of the rare few who really cares about personality and just really likes someone and feel comfortable with them, but you're the only person who will understand that this is why you're with them, you have to be humble and understand the rest of the world won't understand this and simply judge that you've failed to date at your level.

But yes if you're an attractive 7 dating a chubby 5, generally speaking you are either socially warped, an awful person, or psychologically damaged goods.

 

[Rudiger]

Lol dude, sometimes it can be nice, at a limited frequency, but watch out for STDs tho
You never know what kind of nasty rotted dick she sucked and fucked an hour ago

Yeah brobrah watch out for them STDs I heard about them once in school they nasty brehbrah

 

[BaldyBalderBald]

Yeah brobrah watch out for them STDs I heard about them once in school they nasty brehbrah

No i was joking bruhbreh, it's a myth, they are pure

 

[SmoothSailing]

But yes if you're an attractive 7 dating a chubby 5, generally speaking you are either socially warped, an awful person, or psychologically damaged goods.

Possibly, in some cases, it might just be a guy with a terrible self image and who believes they are much less attractive than they really are. Usually when they are young. But never lasts for to long.

 

[Exodus2011]

That's a good level-headed attitude to have. Guess we are complete opposite on taste. I like the trashiest, sluttiest, nastiest of w****s.

Lol are you being scarcastic?

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

Lol dude, sometimes it can be nice, at a limited frequency, but watch out for STDs tho
You never know what kind of nasty rotted dick she sucked and fucked an hour ago

This is true. I just can't help myself man, the low effort maximum gainz are what get me. I should find me a nice smart girl though, because once these trashy girls open their mouths after I can't stand to listen to them.

 

[Exodus2011]

Technically anyone is "willingly single" because no matter how dyer your situation, there's always going to be some obese 2/10 aspie chick who would date you.

I guess being "unwillingly single" in this context is trying to date remotely within your respective range (so if you're a 6 then you can consider a 4 at absolute lowest stretching point).

Just on this topic, you know you've really failed as a human when you're dating aesthetically way below your level, unless you're one of the rare few who really cares about personality and just really likes someone and feel comfortable with them, but you're the only person who will understand that this is why you're with them, you have to be humble and understand the rest of the world won't understand this and simply judge that you've failed to date at your level.

But yes if you're an attractive 7 dating a chubby 5, generally speaking you are either socially warped, an awful person, or psychologically damaged goods.

Wait how is someone a bad person for dating someone uglier than them?

 

[Rudiger]

Wait how is someone a bad person for dating someone uglier than them?

I don't necessarily mean a "bad person' if you're referring to morality, kindness etc just that socially they have failed in life. They were given the aesthetic to date at a decent level and had such an aspie personality that it put women off.

I did acknowledge there's some exceptions here and some guys will date a less attractive woman he feels genuine affinity to, but that's rare. Mainly it's guys who couldn't get a decent looking girl who he also feels comfortable with.

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

Lol are you being scarcastic?

Nah brah, somewhere out there a female will have some raw attraction for you, unless you're a standardcel.

 

[Stanx22]

I don't necessarily mean a "bad person' if you're referring to morality, kindness etc just that socially they have failed in life. They were given the aesthetic to date at a decent level and had such an aspie personality that it put women off.

I did acknowledge there's some exceptions here and some guys will date a less attractive woman he feels genuine affinity to, but that's rare. Mainly it's guys who couldn't get a decent looking girl who he also feels comfortable with.

tbh, no one would settle for anything if he could do better.

 

[Exodus2011]

I don't necessarily mean a "bad person' if you're referring to morality, kindness etc just that socially they have failed in life. They were given the aesthetic to date at a decent level and had such an aspie personality that it put women off.

I did acknowledge there's some exceptions here and some guys will date a less attractive woman he feels genuine affinity to, but that's rare. Mainly it's guys who couldn't get a decent looking girl who he also feels comfortable with.

oh ok i get you. but it doesnt necessarily have to just be asperger's .

Nah brah, somewhere out there a female will have some raw attraction for you, unless you're a standardcel.

lmao i still dont know if you're being scarcastic

 

[Baldingat188]

Yes I am currently single but I am sort of looking for relationships and it's not out of the realm off possibility.

 

[Baldingat188]

Are you me? Except the "non primitive white girls". That's close minded aspie sh*t incels say. There are a shitload of attractive girls out there of varying races and builds and there is no reason to be so ridiculously myopic about it. All it does is reduce your options.

I have lots of money, and it does bring me a fair degree of peace and happiness. If I want to travel at the drop of a hat or buy something fancy I can. If nothing else it lets me buy all sorts of crazy chemicals with reckless abandon. And I can live comfortably in my home. So don't discount the value of money. But it does only go so far.

The thing that gave me most peace out of the past few months of my life (besides seeing hair grow back) was when I did that speed dating event I mentioned a two weeks ago and got two matches after.

I haven't actually dated either. One messaged me and I've been ignoring her. Gonna reply and see about setting something up. I'm not even attracted to her but I think it will be good for me.

The feeling of being wanted is absolutely the most important thing. Feeling unwanted/unlovable/unattractive is far more horrible than actually just being alone. Being alone isn't that bad at all. The worse part about being alone for me is I spend way too much time shitposting and obsessing over stupid things on forums like this.

But in all honesty with the Internet there are so many ways to get "simulated social interaction" and my job is social too, so true loneliness is less of a problem. I can always find something to do or someone to talk to. Feeling hopelessly like no one will ever want you ... That's the real killer.

That's exactly what it is though ... money only matters when you don't have it. The grass is always going to be greener.

money is far from the best thing to have in life though . Looks are completely and utterly uncomparable to anything else. Good looks give you instant status and advantage from the get go.

 

[IdealForehead]

That's exactly what it is though ... money only matters when you don't have it. The grass is always going to be greener.

money is far from the best thing to have in life though . Looks are completely and utterly uncomparable to anything else. Good looks give you instant status and advantage from the get go.

Absolutely. I'd f*****g love to be good looking. I don't know if it's as hyped as people say it is. But I'm sure it would be nice.

I write such long posts and post so constantly because IRL I'm a loudmouth extrovert and I love talking to people. Forums help fulfill that compulsion when I'm home alone in the evening. If I was good looking, I'd probably go to a nightclub at least once to three times a week and just chat/flirt/dance with cute girls for hours. If I try that now, I generally don't get past the first sentence. Or instead of posting on here chatting with my fellow baldies, I'd be checking my POF/Tinder account and replying to my dozens of messages. Currently I get a maybe 1/30 reply rate on POF and a <1/100 match rate on Tinder using Boosts.

So none of that's really in the cards. For me it has nothing to do with hairloss. It's just the cost of being short and ugly.

 

[Baldingat188]

Absolutely. I'd f*****g love to be good looking. I don't know if it's as hyped as people say it is. But I'm sure it would be nice.

I write such long posts and post so constantly because I'm a loudmouth extrovert and I love talking to people. Forums help fulfill that compulsion when I'm home alone in the evening. If I was good looking, I'd probably go to a nightclub at least once to three times a week and just chat/flirt/dance with cute girls for hours. If I try that now, I generally don't get past the first sentence. Or instead of posting on here chatting with my fellow baldies, I'd be checking my POF/Tinder account and replying to my dozens of messages. Currently I get a maybe 1/30 reply rate on POF and a <1/100 match rate on Tinder using Boosts.

So none of that's really in the cards. For me it has nothing to do with hairloss. It's just the cost of being short and ugly.

I feel you man, I am short and obviously balding as well. I'm not sure if I am ugly or average but I sure as hell feel ugly whenever I get on dating apps or anything like that. I would just not use them but the alternative is just sitting around bored alone in my house since I don't have a social life .

 

[Exodus2011]

Are you me? Except the "non primitive white girls". That's close minded aspie sh*t incels say. There are a shitload of attractive girls out there of varying races and builds and there is no reason to be so ridiculously myopic about it. All it does is reduce your options.

I have lots of money, and it does bring me a fair degree of peace and happiness. If I want to travel at the drop of a hat or buy something fancy I can. If nothing else it lets me buy all sorts of crazy chemicals with reckless abandon. And I can live comfortably in my home. So don't discount the value of money. But it does only go so far.

The thing that gave me most peace out of the past few months of my life (besides seeing hair grow back) was when I did that speed dating event I mentioned a two weeks ago and got two matches after.

I haven't actually dated either. One messaged me and I've been ignoring her. Gonna reply and see about setting something up. I'm not even attracted to her but I think it will be good for me.

The feeling of being wanted is absolutely the most important thing. Feeling unwanted/unlovable/unattractive is far more horrible than actually just being alone. Being alone isn't that bad at all. The worse part about being alone for me is I spend way too much time shitposting and obsessing over stupid things on forums like this.

But in all honesty with the Internet there are so many ways to get "simulated social interaction" and my job is social too, so true loneliness is less of a problem. I can always find something to do or someone to talk to. Feeling hopelessly like no one will ever want you ... That's the real killer.

I just strongly strongly prefer white girls' looks. I cant help it. Its not aspie anyways white girls are like far and away the most desired race.

A lot of asian girls can be really cute too but man theres a lot of ugly bunraku doll looking ones :/

By non primitive i mean intelligent and not ghetto or trashy or loud or dumb. I never said anything about builds but as a guy literally the size of a girl (5'6 and typical asian frame from asian side) i think its reasonable to want a healthy weight or preferrably petite girl. Its probably more realistic considering i will appear more masculine to a small girl.

But he rest of your post is so legit fuk +20

 

[IdealForehead]

I just strongly strongly prefer white girls' looks. I cant help it. Its not aspie anyways white girls are like far and away the most desired race.

A lot of asian girls can be really cute too but man theres a lot of ugly bunraku doll looking ones :/

By non primitive i mean intelligent and not ghetto or trashy or loud or dumb. I never said anything about builds but as a guy literally the size of a girl (5'6 and typical asian frame from asian side) i think its reasonable to want a healthy weight or preferrably petite girl. Its probably more realistic considering i will appear more masculine to a small girl.

But he rest of your post is so legit fuk +20

A few points of personal disagreement/agreement on taste in women. This is all just opinion. I'm not trying to argue or anything. Just shooting the sh*t on a Tuesday night.

• White girls generally have attractive features and are overall on average the most attractive.
• However, white girls age the fastest. I see most white girls by 20 have permanent forehead and nasolabial wrinkles as well as very blotchy skin without makeup. (Many white girls are also prone to NW1.5 hair patterns with thin corners which is a minor complaint but I stare at peoples hairlines so much a thick/sharp NW0/1 has become something I marvel at in either gender ...)
• More naturally tanned girls like Hispanic and Indians tend to have a much slower aging process and fewer wrinkles while often still having good facial features. They also tend to have more perfectly even and smooth skin tone. Plus thick sharp hairlines.
• I am not personally a big fan aesthetically of most Chinese or black girls due primarily to their broad nasal structure.
• However, East Asian girls are often the smallest and most petit overall which is nice, as well as being very naturally hairless, which is also nice.
• Korean or Japanese girls can be incredibly beautiful, with all the tiny feminine hairless body benefits of East Asian girls with great refined facial features that Chinese girls tend to lack.
• Black girls have incredible bone structure and muscle tone if they take care of themselves and stay slim. I think it has something to do with pelvis structure and their natural muscle insertions, but thin black girls tend to have great asses that most other races of girls simply can't attain with any degree of consistency.

Regarding personality, I've come to realize I don't really care that much about personality. The most important part of a woman's personality is that she be mentally ill enough to find me attractive. If she's got that much, the rest is negotiable.

But seriously, I've known dumb girls who are really nice to spend time with and hang out with because they have good natures. And I have shocked myself with how much bitchy behavior I'm willing to tolerate if a girl is hot, though the tolerance wears out eventually.

As for other aspects of personality, I think East Asian like Filipino and Japanese girls have BY FAR the best personalities. They are on average naturally very feminine, gentle, demure, and submissive. Indian/Chinese girls can have good personalities too if they're raised with traditional values. White girls are a broad mix but in general are much cruder (probably largely cultural due to feminism telling women they need to act like men to be "equals").

Anyway, my point if I have one is that the world and dating is more interesting if you keep a broad perspective, because if you're not a 8+/10 Chad it's not like you're going to be able to pick the girls you date out of a catalog. Like most of us, you're just gonna have to cast a broad net and take what you can get.

 

[Bklyn_23]

Not single here.

 

[Almsoo7]

I chose the first option, probably due to mismatch between my high expectations and passive approach to courting. And with the onset of balding and seeing more and more friends getting married and settling down, it seems more and more like an impossible task to me. I once asked my brother how to chase a girl and his reply was like "wtf, it just comes naturally to every guy", while I was like "f*** man, it didn't come to me though". Hope someone understand how I feel, it's like you see someone who is just so good at attracting girls whereas you can't even attract one.

 

[Rudiger]

brehbrah is now my favorite word

Thanks, I gotta admit I'm trying to make brehbrah happen lately