Poll: Lets Make It Clear : Are You Single Or Not

[davesmith420]

Buying gf 25k

 

[SmoothSailing]

I have many times very seriously thought about buying a girlfriend on seekingarrangement. It's not that I couldn't get a girlfriend otherwise. It's just I can't get a hot young girlfriend otherwise.

I have debated back and forth the value of having an average girlfriend who actually likes me vs. a hot one who just primarily likes my money.

Thoughts?

Have you got prostitutes in the past? I have, it never fulfilled my true desire, to be desired.

The idea of a girl being into me just for my money does almost nothing for me. I'd rather a below average gf than an absolute beauty that just likes me for my money.

To each their own though, maybe you have different interests.

 

[Exodus2011]

just invent the next facebook brehbrah and become ultra rich dude

and end up with a 4/10 asian? xD

 

[rclark]

This is true. I just can't help myself man, the low effort maximum gainz are what get me. I should find me a nice smart girl though, because once these trashy girls open their mouths after I can't stand to listen to them.

I can. Unfortunately, they're usually banned.

I love trashy slutty b****s. Any out there? PM me ASAP!

 

[Rudiger]

brehbrah

 

[Chromedome1990]

Single. Apparently girls don't like balding, neurotic manlets. Go figure!

 

[Rudiger]

That's my concern. Never a prostitute. But I've been to strip clubs before. And it's been a mixed experience. If the girl seems to really like you then it's fun. But if she's obviously disgusted by you and just wants your money for as little as possible, then it's really not.

I imagine some sugar babies could go both ways as well. ie. Some might actually like me but just consider the financial benefits an added benefit. Others might despise me and it would probably be pretty obvious.

Ahhh man. You probably aren't an unlikable person but come off as a bit deluded.

Strippers can seem to really like anyone, if you mean it's fun if they give that illusion then fair enough, but as long as you're aware it's definitely an act.

As far as practically buying a partner, especially if she's attractive and you aren't, the likelihood of her actually liking you are slim to none. And the type of women who are sociopathic enough to set out their life, or considerable chunk thereof, in such a way, will fool you even if it's 24/7. And even if the mask slips now and then she'll be smart enough to know plenty of reassurance will soon keep you in the web.

Point being, and in relation to what @SmoothSailing said before, it depends on the type of person you are but a lot of men simply couldn't live that way. In a way your partner can completely shape your self-perception and therefore entire perception of reality, when you're constantly calling reality into question it's arguably more maddening than isolation (or at least can result in more extreme acts of frustration).

A relatable example of the type of guy who could live such a life is the middle aged bloated ex-pat on azn poverty pussy game. I've known some, and that's a particular type of somewhat narcissistic human who doesn't question themselves or surroundings ever, it doesn't enter their head. There's even some awareness that their partner and reassurance in life is a sham, but that kind of guy doesn't need much reassurance regularly anyway. Simple fact is that he is getting younger pussy, end of story and life goes on.

Also that type of guy would not find himself writing about feelings on forums such as we do. I doubt most on here could live such a life contently for any decent period of time.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

Be grateful that at least some girls are in your dating pool.

Try being a young, bald midget whom every woman look at with disgust and has 99% chance of dying a kissless virgin.

I think "disgust" is a pretty strong word. Yes, taller women are less likely to be interested in you, but that still leaves plenty of women out there.

What's hardest for me is that I fit a stereotype. It's even tougher because some people LIKE that stereotype (the big bald guy) and so people tend to act like I'm crazy if I talk about hating how I look. To them, I should be "embracing" the big tough guy look. But it's limiting. I hate that the best, and only option, is to cultivate that persona -- not so much with my personality, but my looks.

I don't want to date just anyone and people act like I should be happy that ANYBODY shows interest in me. Then they act like I have no right to feel bad about my appearance because it appeals to some people, and I could care less because it doesn't appeal to me. Gal Gadot could come out and say what she really loves are big bald guys over six feet tall and it's not going to cheer me up, because while I'd love to date someone that looks like that, I don't want to do it being this big bald oaf.

 

[IdealForehead]

Ahhh man. You probably aren't an unlikable person but come off as a bit deluded.

Strippers can seem to really like anyone, if you mean it's fun if they give that illusion then fair enough, but as long as you're aware it's definitely an act.

As far as practically buying a partner, especially if she's attractive and you aren't, the likelihood of her actually liking you are slim to none. And the type of women who are sociopathic enough to set out their life, or considerable chunk thereof, in such a way, will fool you even if it's 24/7. And even if the mask slips now and then she'll be smart enough to know plenty of reassurance will soon keep you in the web.

Point being, and in relation to what @SmoothSailing said before, it depends on the type of person you are but a lot of men simply couldn't live that way. In a way your partner can completely shape your self-perception and therefore entire perception of reality, when you're constantly calling reality into question it's arguably more maddening than isolation (or at least can result in more extreme acts of frustration).

A relatable example of the type of guy who could live such a life is the middle aged bloated ex-pat on azn poverty pussy game. I've known some, and that's a particular type of somewhat narcissistic human who doesn't question themselves or surroundings ever, it doesn't enter their head. There's even some awareness that their partner and reassurance in life is a sham, but that kind of guy doesn't need much reassurance regularly anyway. Simple fact is that he is getting younger pussy, end of story and life goes on.

Also that type of guy would not find himself writing about feelings on forums such as we do. I doubt most on here could live such a life contently for any decent period of time.

Thanks. Very insightful.