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I agree, in part. But, a bit of nuance here...
I have never had any sympathy for a woman who thoughtlessly puts down a balding man.
Especially if she does it in company.
Yeah to be fair that is consistently what you said before on the flip side, basically "there's no point in publicly shaming someone".
So fair enough on that.
I still however stand by the idea that it shouldn't be encouraged, either when it comes to the 2 examples we're basically looking at, being fat, or balding.
Fat encouragement - "you go girl, empower that blubber" have heart disease, feel sh*t about yourself with the constant toxins you pump into your body, run a much higher risk of some deadbeat partner who verbally abuses you, look at pictures of Ashley Graham and feel you share an affinity with her even though you're much less attractive or successful.
Bald encouragement - "just shave it brah, look at Vin" well we all know the many results of this attitude.
The point being that this same false encouragement attitude towards bald guys ruins them, and it's so easy to tell people to shave it when it looks terrible on at least 90% of men. The real encouragement is to exhaust every possibility of keeping your hair and saving up for a hair transplant. This should be imperative, so I hate seeing encouragement of anything so stupid, fatness or baldness.
But this isn't a dig at you blackg, you aren't encouraging anything, just saying insults and judgements should be kept to oneself. I get that.