Reactivated My Dating Profiles, Trying To Be Enthusiastic Without Being Obsessed

[meetjoeblack]

You say that but the penis is a bit too powerhouse. I've had to jerk off four times in the 14 hours following the date, including upon waking up hard at 2:30am. I will need to reduce the dosage of the treatments that I'm on. A new prescription should come in soon.

FYI she is 5'9".


I'm willing to consider this but it's painful. Women say "let's be friends" all the time as a default, but they don't usually mean it. I've tried being friends before as an experiment and women just say "I'm busy, I'm busy", they don't really mean it, and thus it leads to the pain of a second rejection.

I eject and next upon any low sextile drive or low libido. A legit LJBFs is ideal. Women have friends but, more times then not, she wants a fallback beta to share her boot call stories with. I have no time for it.

Good sex drive bro. I was curious about drug use of Rogaine or big three and libido. I hope it's going good. Please share your story. I will do the same.

Out of curiosity, what's the plan? Gf? Wifey? Sex? Good luck bro.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I eject and next upon any low sextile drive or low libido. A legit LJBFs is ideal. Women have friends but, more times then not, she wants a fallback beta to share her boot call stories with. I have no time for it.

Good sex drive bro. I was curious about drug use of Rogaine or big three and libido. I hope it's going good. Please share your story. I will do the same.

Out of curiosity, what's the plan? Gf? Wifey? Sex? Good luck bro.

All are part of the plan.

As far as I know, minoxidil and RU have no effect on my hair drive.

 

[CaptainForehead]

hair drive.

Heh heh, another phrase you should own.

 

[meetjoeblack]

All are part of the plan.

As far as I know, minoxidil and RU have no effect on my hair drive.

How bad is the initial shedding? I am pretty set on Rogaine but scared to lose hair. I am noticing hair loss but, not as bad as I could be. I wish I used Rogaine sooner. Like, after Accutane which started this. I plan to do like black dudes, line up, and nice fade if it is not manageable. I won't do a costanza. In a itchy faze due to hair loss

Get this. Date a few times. The first time, I was butchered at the barber shop. Almost bailed on date. We hit it off. No makeout. She did lean in but transitioned to hug when she thought I wouldn't. Made out next time. Then, it just sort of backside. Number was deleted. Met new girl. Early side of twenty. Another in mid twenties. I am also pursuing a series of new girls. I also cold approaching. I prefer it.

It feels shitty. Once I felt that I was experiencing hair loss, it went to sh*t with this girl. Likely, my vibe. She's a party girl. Into molly, has did cocaine, and is a big drinker. Has a gym membership but, she doesn't use it. Deal breaker. I will Netflix and chill but, I won't pursue. Hang a few times, hookup, and or pursue more.

Weird, once I acknowledge hair loss, sh*t goes crappie. sh*t haircut at barbers, show up for date aloof and it takes. Mind f*****g. Going icy. Aloof. Indifference. Nothing to lose.

Keep going man.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

How bad is the initial shedding? I am pretty set on Rogaine but scared to lose hair. I am noticing hair loss but, not as bad as I could be. I wish I used Rogaine sooner. Like, after Accutane which started this. I plan to do like black dudes, line up, and nice fade if it is not manageable. I won't do a costanza. In a itchy faze due to hair loss

Get this. Date a few times. The first time, I was butchered at the barber shop. Almost bailed on date. We hit it off. No makeout. She did lean in but transitioned to hug when she thought I wouldn't. Made out next time. Then, it just sort of backside. Number was deleted. Met new girl. Early side of twenty. Another in mid twenties. I am also pursuing a series of new girls. I also cold approaching. I prefer it.

It feels shitty. Once I felt that I was experiencing hair loss, it went to sh*t with this girl. Likely, my vibe. She's a party girl. Into molly, has did cocaine, and is a big drinker. Has a gym membership but, she doesn't use it. Deal breaker. I will Netflix and chill but, I won't pursue. Hang a few times, hookup, and or pursue more.

Weird, once I acknowledge hair loss, sh*t goes crappie. sh*t haircut at barbers, show up for date aloof and it takes. Mind f*****g. Going icy. Aloof. Indifference. Nothing to lose.

Keep going man.

I think that the fear of shedding is the most irrational reason to avoid going on treatments. Shedding is a good thing, it means that weak hairs are being replaced by strong hairs. It's equivalent to an 8 year-old losing his milk teeth as his adult teeth grow out.

How did you cold approach?

 

[meetjoeblack]

I think that the fear of shedding is the most irrational reason to avoid going on treatments. Shedding is a good thing, it means that weak hairs are being replaced by strong hairs. It's equivalent to an 8 year-old losing his milk teeth as his adult teeth grow out.

Well, if I grow it out beyond a level two, it's hard to tell. The receded hair is obvious. I don't think it can be fixed. My fear is that it is overly noticeable. Family at reunion can tell I am sure but, I am self conscious. Hence why I think that date went to sh*t. Also, I notice itching likely due to shedding. How bad is the shed? At what point would you be shaving. I think between now and forty, I can get away with a undercut. Once it gets bad, it's gone. Buzz. Fml. If I took rounds, I would feel more responsible. ugh!

How did you cold approach?

I have been going at cold approach for years. Bender through rsdtyler. I know it's marketing and nonsense. One should be skeptical of anybody selling you sh*t. I just talk to lots of women. Take numbers. Follow up. If she ghosts or doesn't show interest, I go approach more. Think, tinder swipe right but at life. Wash/rinse /repeat!

If we are all incels, we have nothing to lose. I am grateful for every victory no matter how small.

 

[IdealForehead]

BE FRIENDS!!!! I can't stress this enough! Seriius, NOTHING, gets you women like having close hot female friends. I've said this so much in the past. Make it PAINFULLY obvious you are only interested in friendship from her so she doesn't get scared away. I used to have hot girl-friends and it would excite other girls so much when out together they just levitated to me. Their inert competitive jealousy just makes it so!

I still always have to disagree with this. How did having female friends ever get you laid? I have had various regular female friends since undergrad and they have never been helpful in getting me dates unless I wanted to date a girl who was directly part of my core 4-5 friend circle (which I didn't because i never liked any enough to risk the circle dynamic).

Plus as adults most people have busy lives and very little time for true friendship. So I doubt that woman was remotely sincere about "being friends". I'm with Afro on that one.

And if Afro did become friends with her, in my experience the most it might get him is her bringing along a fat/gross friend one day for a shared activity.

 

[IdealForehead]

You say that but the penis is a bit too powerhouse. I've had to jerk off four times in the 14 hours following the date, including upon waking up hard at 2:30am. I will need to reduce the dosage of the treatments that I'm on. A new prescription should come in soon.

FYI she is 5'9".

I'm willing to consider this but it's painful. Women say "let's be friends" all the time as a default, but they don't usually mean it. I've tried being friends before as an experiment and women just say "I'm busy, I'm busy", they don't really mean it, and thus it leads to the pain of a second rejection.

Jesus what the f***. Wow. Talk about a reversal. Remind me again what you're taking and what dose? What do you plan to reduce to?

The only time I had a sex drive like that was when I was injecting 200 mg test-e once or twice a week for a few months. But that was awful for my skin and hair so not sustainable.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Jesus what the f***. Wow. Talk about a reversal. Remind me again what you're taking and what dose? What do you plan to reduce to?

The only time I had a sex drive like that was when I was injecting 200 mg test-e once or twice a week for a few months. But that was awful for my skin and hair so not sustainable.

What were you doing testesterone for?

Afro could start a p**rn site, starring himself, banging new nubile girls every week. For the sake of business.
f*** astrophysics.

 

[blackg]

You say that but the penis is a bit too powerhouse. I've had to jerk off four times in the 14 hours following the date.

Jaysus! The image of you jerking off four times is not something I need while eating a late lunch.

 

[IdealForehead]

What were you doing testesterone for?

Afro could start a p*rn site, starring himself, banging new nubile girls every week. For the sake of business.
f*** astrophysics.

Did test injections just for the hell of it. If you can't tell, I like experimenting on myself. Probably stems from a deep-seated dissatisfaction with my physical existence, as I was never attractive or athletic, so I persistently want to "change".

Wanted to see if the test would let me easily add more muscle bulk or cut my body fat. It was actually pretty disappointing from that angle and helped me understand that guys like The Rock aren't just huge because of all the chemicals in their systems, it's more so due to a genetic predisposition that the chemicals help to enhance. My cousin who has a six pack eats crap all day and always has. He's had a six pack since he was 8 years old.

Muscle variation is no different than hair variation. Some guys are born with the right genes and others aren't.

I honestly don't know if I would watch Afro p**rn if it existed. haha. Probably I would just for the wtf factor. Then I'd feel very uncomfortable... lol

 

[CaptainForehead]

I honestly don't know if I would watch Afro p*rn if it existed. haha. Probably I would just for the wtf factor. Then I'd feel very uncomfortable... lol

I might not watch it (regularly) for the same reason, but I would surely pay for a subscription, to show my support.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Jesus what the f***. Wow. Talk about a reversal. Remind me again what you're taking and what dose? What do you plan to reduce to?

The only time I had a sex drive like that was when I was injecting 200 mg test-e once or twice a week for a few months. But that was awful for my skin and hair so not sustainable.

7 mg/day of cialis, which I'll reduce to 3mg/day soon. It also helps with urination.
0.50 mg of cabergoline, twice a a week. That's a prolactin inhibitor that's also a dopamine agonist. My prolactin levels were at the upper end of the normal range. Might reduce the dose of that as well, but one thing at a time.
That's two of what's considered the 3 major ingredients for erections, the other is testosterone. BTW I did an ultrasound, I don't have a venous leak.

Did test injections just for the hell of it. If you can't tell, I like experimenting on myself. Probably stems from a deep-seated dissatisfaction with my physical existence, as I was never attractive or athletic, so I persistently want to "change".

Wanted to see if the test would let me easily add more muscle bulk or cut my body fat. It was actually pretty disappointing from that angle and helped me understand that guys like The Rock aren't just huge because of all the chemicals in their systems, it's more so due to a genetic predisposition that the chemicals help to enhance. My cousin who has a six pack eats crap all day and always has. He's had a six pack since he was 8 years old.

Muscle variation is no different than hair variation. Some guys are born with the right genes and others aren't.

I honestly don't know if I would watch Afro p*rn if it existed. haha. Probably I would just for the wtf factor. Then I'd feel very uncomfortable... lol

Did you also consume 150+ grams of protein a day and train properly, lifting to failure at 10 reps or less, include squats, etc?
Isn't 200 mg a low dose as well?

 

[Exodus2011]

I had the date tonight with the woman that I was least excited about, as she was the most beautiful. I figured that I stood no chance, and thus I just focused on enjoying my time. Spoiler: It ended up as I expected.

I met her at 8 and we had dinner at a nearby restaurant for a little over an hour. She's an engineer and at a advanced weapons manufacturer, we talked a little bit about work, hobbies, life, family, prior online dating stories, dogs, values, family, etc. She laughed at a lot of my jokes and I teased her a little bit, which she laughed at too. Talking was split evenly. She has a lot of nice qualities, she was open about which meals she liked and didn't like, when it was time to order dessert she said "always!" rather than "I'm watching my weight" or something, we ended up splitting dessert. She's close to her family, she likes her job, likes board games, the avengers, etc.

There was basically no chance though. She is a solid 8, great face and great body, nice shapely legs, luscious lips, and magnificent breasts too, honestly I was turned on just meeting her, we introduced with the standard kiss on the cheek plus hug and within 10 seconds I was aroused. An obvious bad sign (I think) is that she wanted to split the check, it's not always the case and there's a lot of variation, but very often if a woman does not want to see a man again she will pay her part of the bill. I could not kiss her at the end, she said that she wanted to be honest and that she was not feeling it, she was getting more of a friendship vibe.

She said that she's open to hanging out at friends. I said that this would be fine and that she is free to get in touch. I expect to never hear from her.

what race was she? btw you should mention the race of these women as its one of the most noticeable physical features

engineer + hot = suicide fuel. i hate hate hate hot AND smart people its like WTF are you a superhero!?!?!?!?! are you a f*****g mary sue created by a god?!?!?! lmao

 

[CopeForLife]

I had the date tonight with the woman that I was least excited about, as she was the most beautiful. I figured that I stood no chance, and thus I just focused on enjoying my time. Spoiler: It ended up as I expected.

I met her at 8 and we had dinner at a nearby restaurant for a little over an hour. She's an engineer and at a advanced weapons manufacturer, we talked a little bit about work, hobbies, life, family, prior online dating stories, dogs, values, family, etc. She laughed at a lot of my jokes and I teased her a little bit, which she laughed at too. Talking was split evenly. She has a lot of nice qualities, she was open about which meals she liked and didn't like, when it was time to order dessert she said "always!" rather than "I'm watching my weight" or something, we ended up splitting dessert. She's close to her family, she likes her job, likes board games, the avengers, etc.

There was basically no chance though. She is a solid 8, great face and great body, nice shapely legs, luscious lips, and magnificent breasts too, honestly I was turned on just meeting her, we introduced with the standard kiss on the cheek plus hug and within 10 seconds I was aroused. An obvious bad sign (I think) is that she wanted to split the check, it's not always the case and there's a lot of variation, but very often if a woman does not want to see a man again she will pay her part of the bill. I could not kiss her at the end, she said that she wanted to be honest and that she was not feeling it, she was getting more of a friendship vibe.

She said that she's open to hanging out at friends. I said that this would be fine and that she is free to get in touch. I expect to never hear from her.

eager to see a photo of her

 

[CopeForLife]

what race was she? btw you should mention the race of these women as its one of the most noticeable physical features

engineer + hot = suicide fuel. i hate hate hate hot AND smart people its like WTF are you a superhero!?!?!?!?! are you a f*****g mary sue created by a god?!?!?! lmao

A few years ago, I had a smalltalk with fairly attractive asian girl with high-fWHR and perfect hair and darker skin who worked in IBM.

Attractive classy girl + engineer = autopilot tutorial mode

 

[CopeForLife]

Jaysus! The image of you jerking off four time is not something I need while eating a late lunch.

Now I'm wondering how Dante dislocated his shoulder.

 

[swingline747]

I still always have to disagree with this. How did having female friends ever get you laid? I have had various regular female friends since undergrad and they have never been helpful in getting me dates unless I wanted to date a girl who was directly part of my core 4-5 friend circle (which I didn't because i never liked any enough to risk the circle dynamic).

Plus as adults most people have busy lives and very little time for true friendship. So I doubt that woman was remotely sincere about "being friends". I'm with Afro on that one.

And if Afro did become friends with her, in my experience the most it might get him is her bringing along a fat/gross friend one day for a shared activity.

Re read my post. If you are out and ha e a hot girl with you all other women will automatically start showing interest. Use that to start approaching them. They will inquire about the girl you're with and you say "no we're just good friends". Trust me it worked every time.

 

[IdealForehead]

7 mg/day of cialis, which I'll reduce to 3mg/day soon. It also helps with urination.
0.50 mg of cabergoline, twice a a week. That's a prolactin inhibitor that's also a dopamine agonist. My prolactin levels were at the upper end of the normal range. Might reduce the dose of that as well, but one thing at a time.
That's two of what's considered the 3 major ingredients for erections, the other is testosterone. BTW I did an ultrasound, I don't have a venous leak.


Did you also consume 150+ grams of protein a day and train properly, lifting to failure at 10 reps or less, include squats, etc?
Isn't 200 mg a low dose as well?

Is it possible for you to assess whether it's the cabergoline or cialis doing most of the work? I tried cialis a few times just for fun and it gives me brutal heartburn for 2 days after every time. Same with v****. Just thought of something - maybe i should try crushing them up into a topical and applying to my dick to limit stomach side effects...

Never tried cabergoline. But you're intriguing me.

Unfortunately when i was running my test experiment i was also recovering from some joint/nerve issues so i couldn't do much aggressive exercise. That was part of my motivation for trying the test - to see if it would accelerate my physio/recovery which it didnt. Just made me jerk off 2+3x/day, hair shed more, hungrier, more aggressive/edgy, and gave me more acne.

My test levels were above the measurable range at the lab on it. Test-e 200 mg twice a week is a legit dose.

Always curious what would happen if i tried it again when i am able to exercise better. I am certain i could up my daro dose to effectivwly protect my hair. In a match up, enough daro will beat test every time. But i wouldn't dare do that for another year or two first to be safe.

 

[IdealForehead]

Hey while I see you active, could application of Minoxidil to the face cause shedding of scalp hair? I tend to apply it to my face during night, do you think it's likely I rubbed my face then touched my scalp?

Absolutely some percent of minoxidil can transfer and additionally, some small percent goes systemic from skin absorption.

See:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/3977334/

They estimated 2-5 mg systemic minoxidil exposure per day from full scalp application. People do oral doses of minoxidil as low as 1-2 mg per day for hair.

So it could be the case that it's getting to your scalp from the outside or the inside.