I have a date on Monday with a satisfactory woman but honestly I'm overall feeling pretty shitty right now regardless. I would like more success but there are limits to what I can do, I'm not white and I have this nerdy Jewish nice guy face.
I had a woman (different woman) cancel on me this morning. She said that she can't make it tonight because she's tired from work. In the abstract, that's fine. In reality, that's BS, as if it were the truth she would say something like "How about Tuesday instead?" which would be ok. There's no alternative date proposed, as what has happened since she agreed to me is that ten or fifteen other handsome and successful guys have asked her out.
This woman who was my roommate ten years ago is discussing her tinder experiences on Twitter. From what I can tell, she gets a date every day.
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Some of you smartasses are going to tell me to "find women in real life", it doesn't work that way when you're in your 30s.
I went to a fancy party on Thursday, it was in a posh restaurant and it was celebrating a fundraiser. A lot of people were there. I speak to two women and the conversation is unnatural, oak fine. I speak to a third (whom I don't know) and everything is flowing well and we have something in common. I'm not leaning into her or anything. Then somebody else sits down, and she says "This is my husband Frank," (I forget his exact name) That's how it goes, after 30 or so, all of the remotely good women are taken. This woman was not a model.
I recently asked a woman from a dance class (she left a while back) if she wanted to meet for drinks. She responded two weeks later and said "I'm sorry that I missed this, I was busy, but maybe we can meet next week ?!" I told her that the following week I'd be out of town, but I'd get in touch when I got back. I got back and messaged her again, she has never responded to me. This is somebody with whom I got along, who gave me a random hug when I bumped into her at another place, who had gone out for dinner with me and somebody else when we were dancing together. It's nothing personal -- she just has tons of options. On any given night there are probably 4 or 5 people willing to meet her.
