Response From A Girl I've Been Seeing About My Hair Loss

[Runninghair]

Fred it is natural im afraid regardless what you think. Most guys look worse bald... And so yes as a result the lady attention will decrease. Alot of guys just dint suit it even though they dont get a choice in the matter!!

You can argue all you like about the women thing. When it comes to average blokes girls prefer em with hair. We all know here few girls like baldys. Same way fewer guys into girls with washboard chests. Its all about attraction and i dont blame women one bit.

 

[That Guy]

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Lol,i love people who have mentality like you
If you don't have matter to fight,start grammar terrorism.
I am coming to your home,i will not pay the fees,teach me English.
Put your address here.

That guy is my New English Teacher.
Finally i found my English Guru.loll.

You're flipping your sh*t over a picture of a unicorn.

Instead of coming here, I'd recommend booking an appointment with a therapist.

 

[Dante92]

You're flipping your sh*t over a picture of a unicorn.

Instead of coming here, I'd recommend booking an appointment with a therapist.

Bluepilled people in general need professional help.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

start grammar terrorism.

Yeah, grammar terrorism.

 

[Rudiger]

Lol, I was one year and a half with my ex and I was still putting on minoxidil (just skipped it when I was with her).

Yet baldness never came up on our discussions, for me, Fred 'baldest person at a young age in the world' the Belgian.

How did I do it? Simple, if you keep your mouth shut about it, women won't bring it up, at all.

I told one of the girls I broke up with for the hell of it. "I was bald at 22, and then, a hair transplant!"

Her reaction? "Yeah right." She didn't even believe me. A man can't be as vain, right? After that, our conversation was awkward and she started talking about her acne as a teen like it was even comparable.

Also, the crust of a hair transplant fall off after ten days, after that, you can tell her you had a bad rash, and she won't even question it.

My point is, nobody gives a f*** about your hair loss, your emotional turmoil and the measures you take to "fix" it, especially women, and especially the women you're dating.

They don't want to hear it. A man just cannot have insecurities, and if you have some, don't talk about them to her. She can talk about her insecurities if she wants, you'll find it cute and you won't lose your attraction for her.

But the other way around? She'll end up questioning why she even picked you. How can you be such a pussy and so vain? "It's only hair!" <= That's what she'll be thinking if she has never lost hair herself, basically almost all women out there.

Keep your mouth shut and she won't bring it up. Hell I managed to date 4 different girls the last few months and none of them brought it up.

Read this thread, buckthorn brought it up, not her. Why would you do this to yourself?

Didn't you used to constantly go on about my posts being too long? This is absolute garbage.

You go on and on about the fact you "kept your mouth shut" yet you never responded to the main point of my post- how exactly do you hide the treatments?

How did you manage that? Because I have reserve finasteride in my wallet, car, travel bag, I have liquid minoxidil in reserve as well as my more commonlsy used foam minoxidil stored deep in my bathroom cupboard, and nizoral stored in bottles that are not labled as nizoral.

And your advice? "Keep your mouth shut".

You don't have a clue, stop kidding yourself, nobody with half a brain believes your sh*t.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Why would you need to lie to your girlfriend if attraction is based 100% on looks?

Just tell her you're vain and you apply minoxidil for better hair, and that you've had two hair transplants (if she asks).

Whether you're vain or not won't matter.

Because attraction is 100% looks.

;-)

 

[Rudiger]

Are you really claiming a hair transplant isn't noticeable after 10 days?

This is coming from a guy who claims his girlfriend of over a year never noticed his thinning crown or hair transplant.

 

[Rudiger]

It's not about attraction, it's about her losing respect for you here....

...Fred's tedious link to get away from the point.

 

[Rudiger]

You don't even have to do any of those things, many times, my minoxidil was in plain sight in my bedroom and my ex never commented on it.

For some reason I couldn't see your response after clicking David's, but anyway, was your ex the biggest retard in the world?

 

[Rudiger]

Exactly, maybe she noticed but she's never felt the need to mention it? What about her family? Her friends? What about my colleagues at the time? What about my colleagues now? 0 comment.

And this is me 8 days post-op: http://users.skynet.be/v-site2/fue/day-8-recipient.jpg

Notice anything?

Were you not completely bald before your hair transplant?

 

[Rudiger]

Do you have any other examples of hair re-growth like that, after a hair transplant, in not only 8 days, but let's say a month?

Especially considering you aren't follically gifted or anything.

 

[Runninghair]

I agree fred but im not saying they hate balding.

My original point is its natural for women to find guys less attractive without hair. Cus they simply dnt look as good (in most cases). Im not talking about how baldys are portrayed etc im talking purely attraction. So guys here shudnt slate girls for it. Their entitled to like what they find attractive and what they dont.

Its bitter pill swallow for a lot of guys on here and they end up throwing the hate at the girls because their overlooked.

 

[buckthorn]

Why would you need to lie to your girlfriend if attraction is based 100% on looks?

Just tell her you're vain and you apply minoxidil for better hair, and that you've had two hair transplants (if she asks).

Whether you're vain or not won't matter.

Because attraction is 100% looks.

;-)

It's weird, when I was going to get my hair transplant three years ago, I was very revealing to my girlfriend at the time about it. Almost excited. I had pretty minor hair loss at the time and it was a horrible and very overly vain idea. Still, I told her. She responded with, "those things don't work. My friend **** got one". Oh, how she was SOOOOOO right in my case.

You can tell your girlfriend you treat your hair loss. What kind of a b*tch would she be to hold that against you, or think you're less of a man for it.

You are killing two birds with one stone here - 1) you are not consuming time hiding it and 2) you are weeding out women that probably shouldn't be in your life.

She spends probably an hour a day getting ready, putting on makeup, etc... and you can't medically treat your f*cking hair from falling out?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

It's weird, when I was going to get my hair transplant three years ago, I was very revealing to my girlfriend at the time about it. Almost excited. I had pretty minor hair loss at the time and it was a horrible and very overly vain idea. Still, I told her. She responded with, "those things don't work. My friend **** got one". Oh, how she was SOOOOOO right in my case.

You can tell your girlfriend you treat your hair loss. What kind of a b*tch would she be to hold that against you, or think you're less of a man for it.

You are killing two birds with one stone here - 1) you are not consuming time hiding it and 2) you are weeding out women that probably shouldn't be in your life.

She spends probably an hour a day getting ready, putting on makeup, etc... and you can't medically treat your f*cking hair from falling out?

The reason most people believe that hair transplant's don't work is that they only hear about the bad hair transplants.

They only notice the bad ones, so they see hair transplant = bad hair transplant as a perfect correlation.

 

[buckthorn]

Why don't you let out a big fart the next time you're in bed with her?

You can tell her it's natural, and if she cannot accept it, she's not worth your time.

Two birds with one stone.

one is taking care of your physical appearance while the other is being disgusting. What kind of comparison is this? Not a good one. Every human being has the right to take care of their appearance. If she cannot understand that, then she's just a selfish brat.

 

[buckthorn]

Not men, men are supposed to look awesome effortlessly.

If they can't, they're vain and pussies who care about what others think.

Double standards I know, but that's just how most people think.

You either accept it or suffer the consequences of your actions.

f*ck, can't really argue with this

 

[Rudiger]

After a month, you're back to bald. The grafts fall, you know that right?

Exactly! So let's get this advice of yours straight:

Get girlfriend, tell her you're going away for 10 days with dubious shitty explanation, re-appear with improved hair line, 3 weeks later tell her you're going away again, for wait what, 2 months? And re-appear with further improved density.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Exactly! So let's get this advice of yours straight:

Get girlfriend, tell her you're going away for 10 days with dubious shitty explanation, re-appear with improved hair line, 3 weeks later tell her you're going away again, for wait what, 2 months? And re-appear with further improved density.

You're focusing on logistics, and that's good, but you're leaving aside the issue that there should be honesty in a relationship. If you're lying about a hair transplant, which is an expensive surgery that will have long-term consequences, then you'll probably be lying about other things as well.

 

[buckthorn]

Women and Gay men are allowed to OBSESS about their looks. OBSESS. And it is simply normal. For example, women can talk about DYING their hair for hours straight and it's considered completely normal. I CAN'T even mention the fact that MY F*CKING HAIR IS FALLING OUT without coming across as vain and insecure?? It's all true. You guys are right. Who am I fooling? I always feel like a pathetic fool when I bring it up. I have crazy sympathy for my 70 year old mother who's losing her hair (which will grow back because it's simply Telogen Effluvium, not androgen related) and I fail to have even an ounce of sympathy for myself, as a single 34 year old who's about to transition from 32 years of thick hair to potentially looking like I am sick.

This world is f*cking backwards. I have NEVER complained about anything to anyone. ever. not even once. This forum is the only place I have ever vented. I have ONE thing that's effecting my mental well being and I am discouraged from talking about it. While the entitled, spoiled rich girls that reside in the suburbia that now surrounds me b**ch and moan about how they can't find the right foundation for hours straight at Panera f*cking Bread.

 

[kj6723]

Not men, men are supposed to look awesome effortlessly.

If they can't, they're vain and pussies who care about what others think.

Double standards I know, but that's just how most people think.

You either accept it or suffer the consequences of your actions.

Pretty much this.

I used to start a lot of conversations about working out, diet, fashion, skin care...looking good in general is just an interest of mine.

I don't do this anymore. If someone asks me why I'm ripped I shrug, "eh, I work out a bit."

My mom drives like 40 minutes away to get her hair done by this specific stylist. She borderline starves herself to stay ridiculously skinny.

When I mentioned to her I wanted a hair transplant....no support, but flat out discouragement.
When I tell her I don't want to eat something because I like keeping lean, "oh you can afford to eat it"