So she wanted to kiss me all night , I wasn’t...

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You have to be lucky to even get past two minutes in person. I've heard of guys who go out doing that in the streets for 3 2 hour sessions per week (6 hours plus travel /setup time every week) and get no dates.
just means you dont look as good as you think you do, you are not as smart as you pretend to be, or you are boring....

all of that happens all the time, so no bad feelings...

it is still easier than online dating...
or people just try to hit on women they can never get anyway...
 

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Insecure grown man literally approaching his 40's and instead of having a family of his own and doing something meaningful for his age, he's fishing for validation and attention from a bunch of mentally ill balding losers on an obscure shitty forum
mate, you dont even get sh*t done in your 20s, when you should be banging women and have fun...
what meaningful thing do you do? spamming?
 

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mate, you dont even get sh*t done in your 20s, when you should be banging women and have fun...
what meaningful thing do you do? spamming?
I'm balding moron. Been balding since my late teenage years. The f*** do you expect me to do?
 

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How do you even get dates? I have hair system, polished photos, new social media account and everything but it's a war zone out there to get dates. 5 years ago with hair it would have been a piece of cake. But now it seems similar to how it was when I was bald... I couldn't even buy a date. You should quit what you do and become a dating coach. It's a terrible profession but now you have the credentials.

It's getting harder every generation. You're in your thirties, you're still fishing in a less shallow pool. Imagine what young guys go through.
 

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I'm balding moron. Been balding since my late teenage years. The f*** do you expect me to do?
i expect you to go out and live your life, just like everybody else does...
if you want to stay in yo basement, go ahead...
if you want to have some quality of life, forget all that nonsense and go out and live... do whatever you ever wanted to do...
nobody can stop you from that (well, your wallet can)...
 

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i expect you to go out and live your life, just like everybody else does...
if you want to stay in yo basement, go ahead...
if you want to have some quality of life, forget all that nonsense and go out and live... do whatever you ever wanted to do...
nobody can stop you from that (well, your wallet can)...
Once I get my hair back I will step up my game. But for now my badly diffused NW2 with massive forehead isn't cutting it and I can't move on before dealing with it first
 

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Once I get my hair back I will step up my game. But for now my badly diffused NW2 with massive forehead isn't cutting it and I can't move on before dealing with it first
one thing to remember: if it hasnt been easy in your 20s, it wont be easier on your 30s...
not kidding here...


also, are you sure you will get your hair back? didnt happen to me... maintenance, sure... slowing down, sure...
but regrowth? no...
 

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one thing to remember: if it hasnt been easy in your 20s, it wont be easier on your 30s...
not kidding here...


also, are you sure you will get your hair back? didnt happen to me... maintenance, sure... slowing down, sure...
but regrowth? no...
Lots of truth in this post

I learned to become better with women , worked on my career, image (gym, clothing) and social skills

From experience, Women look for well rounded individuals who they are not only physically attracted to but ALSO share a mental connection and vibe with them.

That’s why the woman in the OP kissed me, she really enjoyed our evening together plus found me attractive.

@Caillou i bet you would f*** up the opportunity even if you got a good one right now because you are on such a downer, where people can sense it, and find it unattractive

@doubleindemnity has proven that there is more to pulling women than hair, hence with the system on he is still struggling,
 

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You have to be lucky to even get past two minutes in person. I've heard of guys who go out doing that in the streets for 3 2 hour sessions per week (6 hours plus travel /setup time every week) and get no dates.

to be fair, I was that guy, in my 20s with a NW1.

I think the principle is the same as online dating I.e. approach as many women as you can, until you are successful

it’s just more brutal.

Good chance, that these same women would reject you from an online dating app too

Again it doesn’t matter for you, you are getting matches and dates , I think it’s how you are coming across in person might be the problem, and if I were to put my finger on it, not knowing how to build healthy sexual tension on the first date. Probably coming across as the kinda guy you have just a nice chat with over a cup of tea.

I’m quite good at flirting with women on a date using just my body language.
 

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@Caillou i bet you would f*** up the opportunity even if you got a good one right now because you are on such a downer, where people can sense it, and find it unattractive
Without hair i'm a freak and can't blame women for not being with me. Actually it's the right thing to do, bald fucks should be forced to die alone so that this sh*t gene finally dies out. I need at least a thick NW2 before even considering approaching any woman
@doubleindemnity has proven that there is more to pulling women than hair, hence with the system on he is still struggling
He's a locationcel. Trying to pull in London (or UK in general) is nigh impossible even for tall fullheads. Only the biggest Chads and Tyrones can compete in that place, and they're competing for hideous skanks anyway since British women are ugly as hell
 

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Without hair i'm a freak and can't blame women for not being with me. Actually it's the right thing to do, bald fucks should be forced to die alone so that this sh*t gene finally dies out. I need at least a thick NW2 before even considering approaching any woman

He's a locationcel. Trying to pull in London (or UK in general) is nigh impossible even for tall fullheads. Only the biggest Chads and Tyrones can compete in that place, and they're competing for hideous skanks anyway since British women are ugly as hell

HAHA I’m living in London too, and I’m still living with my parents in my mid 30s, yet getting some action. On paper, he’s actually doing better than me. Better paid job, has his own property, in better shape.

It’s not impossible , you just need to know how to play the game, which only comes with experience dating and understanding how women think.

Women are very emotive, players know how to create a spark, romantic chemistry.
 

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HAHA I’m living in London too, and I’m still living with my parents in my mid 30s, yet getting some action. On paper, he’s actually doing better than me. Better paid job, has his own property, in better shape.
That's exactly what I thought, he doesn't look like a guy who should have too much difficultly in scoring from this pic.

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You seem to think and post like a freak, so maybe that's a perfect match?
Well, what do you expect retard? Baldness during my formative years has pretty much destroyed my psyche forever. The trauma was so deep and severe that I literally went insane

Have another version of me that never possessed this disgusting gene and compare us and you'd be astonished at the damage baldness has inflicted on my personality over the years
 

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HAHA I’m living in London too, and I’m still living with my parents in my mid 30s, yet getting some action. On paper, he’s actually doing better than me. Better paid job, has his own property, in better shape.

It’s not impossible , you just need to know how to play the game, which only comes with experience dating and understanding how women think.

Women are very emotive, players know how to create a spark, romantic chemistry.
Brown and Black guys are kinda popular in the Uk so maybe that's why you're successful there
 

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That's exactly what I thought, he doesn't look like a guy who should have too much difficultly in scoring from this pic.

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he probably is like what I was in my 20s, goes on the dates and doesn’t know how to create the right vibe for them to want to be intimate with him.

I learned that the key to it was to be relaxed and not care about the outcome , but then read their body language at the same time, and knowing when to make the move when you can sense that they are attracted and in the mood to be intimate with you.

Knowing how to read a situation that way only comes with experience, which I suspect he might be lacking.
 
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