So she wanted to kiss me all night , I wasn’t...

[vondoom]

Lots of truth in this post

I learned to become better with women , worked on my career, image (gym, clothing) and social skills

From experience, Women look for well rounded individuals who they are not only physically attracted to but ALSO share a mental connection and vibe with them.

That’s why the woman in the OP kissed me, she really enjoyed our evening together plus found me attractive.

@Caillou i bet you would f*** up the opportunity even if you got a good one right now because you are on such a downer, where people can sense it, and find it unattractive

@doubleindemnity has proven that there is more to pulling women than hair, hence with the system on he is still struggling,

mate, its easier in your 20s because not everyone is married, is in a relationship, has kids already...
everything else is most likely roughly the same, at least from my observations...

also you got way less chances to find someone later, most dont go out and/or keep to themselves...

 

[Caillou]

so are you bald, or not? apparently not...

Currently still diffuse NW2, which is the most I can handle without losing my sh*t completely.

 

[Caillou]

we never said that physical attraction is not important, but as you’ve seen in @doubleindemnity case, with hair he’s finding there is more to it

You need both. But you can work on not being an autist much easier than you can work on getting hair and good looks

 

[Oknow]

mate, its easier in your 20s because not everyone is married, is in a relationship, has kids already...
everything else is most likely roughly the same, at least from my observations...

also you got way less chances to find someone later, most dont go out and/or keep to themselves...

I found it much harder in my 20s imo

 

[vondoom]

can tell you all that money isnt inportant^^

 

[Caillou]

I've just told you, I had no difficulties socializing with girls in their mid to late 20's in the UK in 2019 prior to when the pandemic hit.

Because balding at your age is normal and society sees nothing wrong with it. If you turned into a 20 years old balding guy nowadays you would get what I'm trying to say

 

[vondoom]

I found it much harder in my 20s imo

na never.... we had so many parties and events, could hook up all the time^^ was awesome

 

[20YearsOnFin]

Because balding at your age is normal and society sees nothing wrong with it. If you turned into a 20 years old balding guy nowadays you would get what I'm trying to say

If you are saying being heavily receded at 17, wasn't hard for me when all my friends and peers were NW1's then you truly are a moron.

 

[Caillou]

If you're not balding and you take care of yourself, your dating life can improve in your 30's actually. You have more money, more stability and more experience in your 30's compared to your 20's unless you're retarded

You can easily get with 18-20 yo girls as a 35 yo man if you look good. Of course old hags with parasitic worn-out pussies that smell like death and feminists wouldn't like it, but f*** them as long as it's not illegal

 

[Caillou]

If you are saying being heavily receded at 17, wasn't hard for me when all my friends and peers were NW1's then you truly are a moron.

It was still hard idiot, I never denied that. But being a 17 yo balding guy nowadays is like walking around an aids-ridden dick coming out of your forehead

 

[20YearsOnFin]

It was the same then you moron, you think girls in the 90's would automatically radiate towards the one or two heavily receded guys in a nightclub when everybody else in there was a thick NW1?

 

[vondoom]

If you're not balding and you take care of yourself, your dating life can improve in your 30's actually. You have more money, more stability and more experience in your 30's compared to your 20's unless you're retarded

You can easily get with 18-20 yo girls as a 35 yo man if you look good. Of course old hags with parasitic worn-out pussies that smell like death and feminists wouldn't like it, but f*** them as long as it's not illegal

doesnt work that way...

can happen if you look younger, otherwise chances are slim...

 

[20YearsOnFin]

To be brutally honest Caillou, looks are the least of your problems when it comes to dating,

because unless you turn up with a strip of duct tape across your mouth, as soon as she hears all the negative, self loathing bile that spews out,

she's gonna' run a mile anyway.

 

[Caillou]

doesnt work that way...

can happen if you look younger, otherwise chances are slim...

Looking younger = having a fullhead of hair, fit body and good skin. You can also manipulate how old you look by keeping your beard short and hair long

Getting a fit body and good skin are both doable with good, consistent routines. But it's the f*****g hair that is the problem and ruins everything

 

[Caillou]

To be brutally honest Caillou, looks are the least of your problems when it comes to dating,

because unless you turn up with a strip of duct tape across your mouth, as soon as she hears all the negative, self loathing bile that spews out,

she's gonna' run a mile anyway.

You're retarded as f*** if you think that my forum personality is my actual personality and how I talk to people IRL. People IRL would be legit shocked if they saw the sh*t I post on here

And as I said before, I can easily talk to women and charm them, probably much more than you can since I've been this way since the day I was born and it comes natural to me. It all doesn't mean sh*t when I have the hair of a creepy old man in my early 20's

 

[20YearsOnFin]

You're retarded as f***

I think its fairly clear who is the retarded one in this conversation.

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

I think its fairly clear who is the retarded one in this conversation.

Sure he's a little edgy and self-loathing but he's right in the sense that you cannot compare the dating dynamic across generations. It has become much much harder in the West for a young, average man to find a mate. There exists loads of data that confirms this. The phenomenon is becoming an actual societal problem at this point.

If you're good-looking you're practically an Ubermensch to young women. And of course women of every generation gravitate towards looks, it has always been like this to a certain extent.

But imagine constructing an entire culture around superficiality and consumerism, where good-looking people are constantly celebrated and share 90% of every platform, where every young women has a catalogue of handsome men at her fingertips, of course physical beauty will become the most important factor in the equation of attraction. You desire what you're exposed to, especially if that thing is very desirable in itself.

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

No not really, I have to work much harder than my white friends

Maybe they just don't like the fact, that you are so feminine mentally. The smell of 20 different brands of perfume and cologne and peacocking in designer suits after watching dating tips from a gay fashion designer and all that...

 

[Oknow]

To be brutally honest Caillou, looks are the least of your problems when it comes to dating,

because unless you turn up with a strip of duct tape across your mouth, as soon as she hears all the negative, self loathing bile that spews out,

she's gonna' run a mile anyway.

his vibe is too negative for a woman to want to be with him

Women do not like negative people , even if they are negative themselves, they want a guy who is confident and comfortable within their own skin

they love the happy go lucky types

 

[Oknow]

Sure he's a little edgy and self-loathing but he's right in the sense that you cannot compare the dating dynamic across generations. It has become much much harder in the West for a young, average man to find a mate. There exists loads of data that confirms this. The phenomenon is becoming an actual societal problem at this point.

If you're good-looking you're practically an Ubermensch to young women. And of course women of every generation gravitate towards looks, it has always been like this to a certain extent.

But imagine constructing an entire culture around superficiality and consumerism, where good-looking people are constantly celebrated and share 90% of every platform, where every young women has a catalogue of handsome men at her fingertips, of course physical beauty will become the most important factor in the equation of attraction. You desire what you're exposed to, especially if that thing is very desirable in itself.

I’m having more luck now than in the 90/2000s