he probably is like what I was in my 20s, goes on the dates and doesn’t know how to create the right vibe for them to want to be intimate with him.
I learned that the key to it was to be relaxed and not care about the outcome , but then read their body language at the same time, and knowing when to make the move when you can sense that they are attracted and in the mood to be intimate with you.
Knowing how to read a situation that way only comes with experience, which I suspect he might be lacking.