So she wanted to kiss me all night , I wasn’t...

[Caillou]

That's exactly what I thought, he doesn't look like a guy who should have too much difficultly in scoring from this pic.

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What do you think is attractive to women isn't what is actually attractive to women. He looks too masculine, women like pretty guys nowadays

 

[Oknow]

Brown and Black guys are kinda popular in the Uk so maybe that's why you're successful there

No not really, I have to work much harder than my white friends

 

[Oknow]

What do you think is attractive to women isn't what is actually attractive to women. He looks too masculine, women like pretty guys nowadays

not true
Have a mate , similar build, looks similar to Russel Crowe in gladiator, has over 1500 matches on one app alone

I’m quite masculine looking

 

[20YearsOnFin]

Well, what do you expect retard? Baldness during my formative years has pretty much destroyed my psyche forever. The trauma was so deep and severe that I literally went insane

Well I was receding heavily by 17, not everybody who starts balding young whines about on here everyday so what's your point?

 

[Caillou]

No not really, I have to work much harder than my white friends

You don't seem like you're working hard at all

 

[Oknow]

You don't seem like you're working hard at all

Idiot

I still need to find a person to date and be confident / charming

 

[Caillou]

Well I was receding heavily by 17, not everybody who starts balding young whines about on here everyday so what's your point?

You're old as f***, back in your days it was leagues of difference compared to nowadays. I grew up in the age of social media where appearance is pretty much 90% of your life. I never got the proper chance to socialize and I missed out on having girlfriends because of it and had no choice but to rot on Incel and hairloss forums for years, even my academic life and career both got fucked in the *** because of this bullshit

 

[Caillou]

Idiot

I still need to find a person to date and be confident / charming

All of that is easy as f***, i'm actually pretty good at talking to women as whenever I tried online they all told me that i'm cool, fun to be around, amazing, etc. I have no idea how people can't talk to women since it's not rocket science. People here see my posts and think that I act like a bitter autist IRL as well lol

If I had hair and looks getting women would be like taking a sh*t for me

 

[20YearsOnFin]

he probably is like what I was in my 20s, goes on the dates and doesn’t know how to create the right vibe for them to want to be intimate with him.

I learned that the key to it was to be relaxed and not care about the outcome , but then read their body language at the same time, and knowing when to make the move when you can sense that they are attracted and in the mood to be intimate with you.

Knowing how to read a situation that way only comes with experience, which I suspect he might be lacking.

People don't seem to get that's there's an art of manipulation or an act that's going on when talking to women, you are essentially telling them what they want to hear and mirroring their interests and views, rather than telling them what you actually think.

 

[20YearsOnFin]

You're old as f***, back in your days it was leagues of difference compared to nowadays. I grew up in the age of social media where appearance is pretty much 90% of your life.

Haha...yes I forgot you know everything and are always right.

FYI I look about 35, last time I was in a club in the UK girls under 30 were happy to talk and flirt with me all night, so its made no difference to me what decade it is.

 

[Oknow]

People don't seem to get that's there's an art of manipulation or an act that's going on when talking to women, you are essentially telling them what they want to hear and mirroring their interests and views, rather than telling them what you actually think.

that is pretty much what I meant

I’ve had so many situations where if I’m not telling them what they want to hear, they lose interest on the basis of ‘saying the wrong things’ to quote a woman I knew

 

[Oknow]

Haha...yes I forgot you know everything and are always right.

FYI I look about 35, last time I was in a club in the UK girls under 30 were happy to talk and flirt with me all night, so its made no difference to me what decade it is.

the last one night stand I had was with a 28 year old at 35

 

[Caillou]

FYI I look about 35, last time I was in a club in the UK girls under 30 were happy to talk and flirt with me all night, so its made no difference to me what decade it is.

I don't care if you look 10 year old, you still lived in a much different time than the social media obsessed current time. You have no idea how brutal it is for young men like myself nowadays, if we don't have perfect NW1's and aren't tall we miss out on everything that men back then took for granted regardless of how they looked

 

[20YearsOnFin]

I’ve had so many situations where if I’m not telling them what they want to hear, they lose interest on the basis of ‘saying the wrong things’ to quote a woman I knew

That's the mistake I used to make in my teens.

Now I just lie the whole night, don't say any thing negative, and keep the positive compliments flowing.

 

[Oknow]

All of that is easy as f***, i'm actually pretty good at talking to women as whenever I tried online they all told me that i'm cool, fun to be around, amazing, etc. I have no idea how people can't talk to women since it's not rocket science. People here see my posts and think that I act like a bitter autist IRL as well lol

If I had hair and looks getting women would be like taking a sh*t for me

it’s about understanding what they are looking for romantically and positioning yourself as that guy.

So that means figuring out their deal and dealbreakers quickly, and also building healthy sexual tension.

Having a general chat is not going to automatically mean she will want to bang you.

You are having one with me right now, I don’t want to bang you

 

[20YearsOnFin]

I don't care if you look 10 year old, you still lived in a much different time than the social media obsessed current time. You have no idea how brutal it is for young men like myself nowadays, if we don't have perfect NW1's and aren't tall we miss out on everything that men back then took for granted regardless of how they looked

I've just told you, I had no difficulties socializing with girls in their mid to late 20's in the UK in 2019 prior to when the pandemic hit.

 

[Caillou]

that is pretty much what I meant

I’ve had so many situations where if I’m not telling them what they want to hear, they lose interest on the basis of ‘saying the wrong things’ to quote a woman I knew

People don't seem to get that's there's an art of manipulation or an act that's going on when talking to women, you are essentially telling them what they want to hear and mirroring their interests and views, rather than telling them what you actually think.

Literally all of this is bullshit lmao. "Art of manipulation", well I doubt any of you can legit make prime girls with tons of options fall for you just by your words alone without showing your faces, which I did a bunch of times before. I can literally open snapchat now and chat some random girls and build a connection like nothing because it's that easy for me. "Talking to girls" is only a big deal for autists

It all doesn't mean sh*t when you have sh*t hair and consequently sh*t looks. I would rather be a brain-damaged Chad with dribble on his chin who shits himself since the chance of success is 10000% higher than being me

 

[Oknow]

That's the mistake I used to make in my teens.

Now I just lie the whole night, don't say any thing negative, and keep the positive compliments flowing.

I used to do that well into my early 30s out of principle of not being dishonest

But then I realised that women do the same thing with guys too, where if they fancy them, they will tell them what they want to hear and be ultra nice and sweet.

 

[vondoom]

I'm not gonna be bald anyway. If I don't get my hair back and keep balding i'm killing myself before becoming a disgusting deformed bald monster

so are you bald, or not? apparently not...

 

[Oknow]

Literally all of this is bullshit lmao. "Art of manipulation", well I doubt any of you can legit make prime girls with tons of options fall for you just by your words alone without showing your faces, which I did a bunch of times before. I can literally open snapchat now and chat some random girls and build a connection like nothing because it's that easy for me. "Talking to girls" is only a big deal for autists

It all doesn't mean sh*t when you have sh*t hair and consequently sh*t looks. I would rather be a brain-damaged Chad with dribble on my chin who shits himself since the chance of success is 10000% higher than being me

we never said that physical attraction is not important, but as you’ve seen in @doubleindemnity case, with hair he’s finding there is more to it