So Tired Of Being Genetic Trash ( Rant)

[Baldingat188]

youve had "early diffuse thinning" forever now

lol just stop worrying about it it hasnt even been confirmed yet

Well I mean I am on finasteride so that could be part of the reason ....

However it has been "confirmed" by people on this forum and by several dermatologists that were willing to prescribe me finasteride

 

[buckthorn]

However, we are facing a new epidemic of weak men who have no dominance who think they are ugly.... bad cases of BDD.

says the guy who is probably really good looking in real life. If you're walking through clubs and hot girls are smiling at you then I doubt you're in the same boat as OP.

 

[shookwun]

confidence tends to come with being attractive

Uhh,,, confidence is almost entirely derived from experience.



When you look good, you feel good. Which can help you perform better. Aside from that, it's all participation!

I have good looking buddies who are insecure, and cant pick up any chicks. so much for there confidence! It actually spirals them downwards, because they think somethings wrong with them, not realizing the simple solution, they they refuse to face.

 

[Baldingat188]

confidence tends to come with being attractive

This man speaks the truth


I am insecure as hell. But does anyone care about that ? No. What does matter is your looks and the fact that I will never get to be attractive so I will never truly be happy.

 

[Baldingat188]

Uhh,,, confidence is almost entirely derived from experience.



When you look good, you feel good. Which can help you perform better. Aside from that, it's all participation!

I have good looking buddies who are insecure, and cant pick up any chicks. so much for there confidence! It actually spirals them downwards, because they think somethings wrong with them, not realizing the simple solution, they they refuse to face.

Yea the good looking buddies who can't pick up chicks can end their plight very quickly

One word : tinder

 

[Baldingat188]

says the guy who is probably really good looking in real life. If you're walking through clubs and hot girls are smiling at you then I doubt you're in the same boat as OP.

Yea if I tried to play the alpha it would be an absolute joke . When you are blessed with being 5"6 skinny 12 year old body and baby face the best angle you can play is a twink . You can be successful with women as a twink if you are pretty. But if you are average like me it's kinda just lol !!

 

[buckthorn]

Yea if I tried to play the alpha it would be an absolute joke . When you are blessed with being 5"6 skinny 12 year old body and baby face the best angle you can play is a twink . You can be successful with women as a twink if you are pretty. But if you are average like me it's kinda just lol !!

is that you in your profile pic?

 

[Baldingat188]

is that you in your profile pic?

I wish lol

If I could look like anyone it would be him

 

[Calchas]

confidence tends to come with being attractive

There's no relevance at all.
I know many ugly guys who are super confident for some reason and get the best chicks, and i know many good looking men who are shaking in the view of a woman.

 

[buckthorn]

I wish lol

If I could look like anyone it would be him

dude looks like he's 12!! Anyways, How bad is your hair? do you have any pics of yourself? perhaps you have more to work with than you think. We are all our harshest critics.

 

[Baldingat188]

dude looks like he's 12!! Anyways, How bad is your hair? do you have any pics of yourself? perhaps you have more to work with than you think. We are all our harshest critics.

Lmao yea he does look young , but you can't deny that he is insanely good looking. I look young as well but a lot uglier then that. I'm about a 5/10 .

I have pics of myself but I don't want to post them on here publically. I've read about your hair struggles buck and I am sorry you are going through that. If I showed you a pic of my hair you would probly say it looks "good" relative to hairloss sufferers. But keep in mind I am not even 20 yet and have strong family history of diffuse nw7... so you can see where this is going

Ultimately though it doesn't change how I feel. I've never been a guy that gets much attention from women. The occasional girl will show interest or call me "cute" ( never have been told I'm hot / sexy) but even that is rare.

 

[buckthorn]

Lmao yea he does look young , but you can't deny that he is insanely good looking. I look young as well but a lot uglier then that. I'm about a 5/10 .

I have pics of myself but I don't want to post them on here publically. I've read about your hair struggles buck and I am sorry you are going through that. If I showed you a pic of my hair you would probly say it looks "good" relative to hairloss sufferers. But keep in mind I am not even 20 yet and have strong family history of diffuse nw7... so you can see where this is going

Ultimately though it doesn't change how I feel. I've never been a guy that gets much attention from women. The occasional girl will show interest or call me "cute" ( never have been told I'm hot / sexy) but even that is rare.

well, if you ever want you can PM me some pics and I can give some honest advice. Throughout my twenties I had a lot of experience with women so perhaps I could be helpful. I understand. It's the dooming feeling that is the worst. Knowing your fate.

 

[CopeForLife]

thread is full of coping

 

[buckthorn]

werent you one of those handsome-as-f***-before-hairlosa guys?

I was considered very desirable though my twenties, yes. But, as with the rest of the men in my family, I am one with fleeting, gradually deteriorating looks. My dad was super good looking in his prime as well. In my thirties, I have THE WORST metabolism, bags under my eyes, very diffused hair loss, relatively short (5'8" ish) and a few other things. You could look at a pic of me now and a pic of me at 25 and you would think they are two different people.

 

[Baldingat188]

thread is full of coping

lol

 

[shookwun]

thread is full of coping

Looks = game

'OM, i'm gonna try my best to keep this short. i've posted many FR's here
Last night. I'm in a bar and I make eye contact with a pretty blonde. I call her over to me and she comes over. I tease her. i cold read her- I ask her questions about herself. I implement everything I know about game. It works!! She likes me. I kino her She offers to by me a drink. I take her to the bar. We flirt. This couldn't be going better.
Guess what happens now?..My handsome friend who used to model for ASOS comes over. He literally says 'Hi' to me and now this girl is 100% concentrating on him! She becomes like a puppy. She is drooling! Instantly fascinated with him. Touching him. Complimenting him. Asking him questions etc
I think 'f*** this!! I know that game > looks!'' - I try to engage her and tease her and neg her and self amuse and make her laugh etc etc.....suddenly I am invisible though! She hands me my drink and is now draped over my handsome mate. She is glued to him. I go to the bathroom to compose myself.
I come back and speak to my friend who is now fighting off 2-3 girls! They are all trying to get his attention
He tells me that he will only bang the girl I like if we can both bang her (threesome)
He's trying to do me a favour
I think 'Cool! I know she likes me because before she met my handsome mate, she was all over me''
however, she now tells my friend that she's not remotely into me and so won't do a threesome! I feel like sh*t lol!! She definitely seemed to be interested earlier!
We all dance and my friend clearly feels guilty about steealing this girl from me and is trying to distance himself from her and is now bordeline ignoring her
she presumably realises that he's too handsome for her and leaves.
I pretend not to care about what just happened and me and my friend just talk about something else and are enjoying a beer.
Well....this girl is so obsessed, that she actually pays again to get into the club again so that she can try once more to seduce my friend!!! Again, he tells her that if I can't bang her aswell then, it ain't happening. She says 'no', but keeps trying to touch him but he's ignoring her and she now leaves for good!
We go outisde. Some gorgeous Spanish girl tries to seduce my friend. He ignores her, and me and my friend share a cab.
End of story.

 

[buckthorn]

Looks = game

'OM, i'm gonna try my best to keep this short. i've posted many FR's here
Last night. I'm in a bar and I make eye contact with a pretty blonde. I call her over to me and she comes over. I tease her. i cold read her- I ask her questions about herself. I implement everything I know about game. It works!! She likes me. I kino her She offers to by me a drink. I take her to the bar. We flirt. This couldn't be going better.
Guess what happens now?..My handsome friend who used to model for ASOS comes over. He literally says 'Hi' to me and now this girl is 100% concentrating on him! She becomes like a puppy. She is drooling! Instantly fascinated with him. Touching him. Complimenting him. Asking him questions etc
I think 'f*** this!! I know that game > looks!'' - I try to engage her and tease her and neg her and self amuse and make her laugh etc etc.....suddenly I am invisible though! She hands me my drink and is now draped over my handsome mate. She is glued to him. I go to the bathroom to compose myself.
I come back and speak to my friend who is now fighting off 2-3 girls! They are all trying to get his attention
He tells me that he will only bang the girl I like if we can both bang her (threesome)
He's trying to do me a favour
I think 'Cool! I know she likes me because before she met my handsome mate, she was all over me''
however, she now tells my friend that she's not remotely into me and so won't do a threesome! I feel like sh*t lol!! She definitely seemed to be interested earlier!
We all dance and my friend clearly feels guilty about steealing this girl from me and is trying to distance himself from her and is now bordeline ignoring her
she presumably realises that he's too handsome for her and leaves.
I pretend not to care about what just happened and me and my friend just talk about something else and are enjoying a beer.
Well....this girl is so obsessed, that she actually pays again to get into the club again so that she can try once more to seduce my friend!!! Again, he tells her that if I can't bang her aswell then, it ain't happening. She says 'no', but keeps trying to touch him but he's ignoring her and she now leaves for good!
We go outisde. Some gorgeous Spanish girl tries to seduce my friend. He ignores her, and me and my friend share a cab.
End of story.

is this a true story of yours? how old are you Shook?

 

[shookwun]

is this a true story of yours? how old are you Shook?

lmao, I found this on a pick up forum.

sh*t is hilarious, because it's entirely true.

Game, cannot make up and over ride model looks.
Doesn't matter how suave you are, when you are in field with a handsome man, you are riding shotgun on his playing field.

Women are always choosers. Always remember that!

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[buckthorn]

lmao, I found this on a pick up forum.

sh*t is hilarious, because it's entirely true.

Game, cannot make up and over ride model looks.
Doesn't matter how suave you are, when you are in field with a handsome man, you are riding shotgun on his playing field.

Women are always choosers. Always remember that!

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you're a smart dude, for sure. What field do you work in? Yeah, I mean it's true up to a certain age. When women realize what they NEED instead of what they WANT, things change. This usually happens after 32 or so. I've observed it with almost all my 8-10 looking female friends. All of a sudden they are getting married to chubby, pale dudes that I would consider 5-6 on the scale. I am sure their pussies don't get as wet, haha... but, reliability, career, being well balanced etc starts to trump the looks game when Women finally realize it's their last chance to breed.

 

[buckthorn]

In my twenties, I would say I dated four women that were straight 10's. I mean, perfectly toned bodies, perky large breasts, perfect asses and faces so stunning they could be on a magazine. THREE of them are now married or in serious, long term relationships with dudes that just look like chubby, bearded dads. No stunning features, no model looks, nothing. Just plain old Joe's. They all seem happy too. IDK what's behind the scenes. I am sure they constantly get hit on by very good looking men and of course they like it... but they seem happy with the dudes they are with.