So Tired Of Being Genetic Trash ( Rant)

[DoctorHouse]

All of u are 10/10s in my eyes. Every1 is beautiful

Very true!!! @sunchyme1 is definitely a legitimate 10 no doubt!!!!!

 

[blackg]

o.k.! watcha look like?

Buckthorn is trustworthy, I know that.

 

[blackg]

Well, 1.82cm, 78kg.

5'11 and 171 pounds, for my American friends.

 

[Saurabhaj]

What's wrong with "I am in love with your body" words in shape of you song of Ed sheeran.

Since when america got so restricted?

 

[blackg]

What's wrong with "I am in love with your body" words in shape of you song of Ed sheeran.

Since when america got so restricted?





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Ed Sheeren songs are heavily provocative, both sexually and socially.

The guy is a classic pinko, degenerate, communist out to destroy the pillars of western civilisation.

I hope he doesn't succeed.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Genetic trash is a too strong word for hairloss..

Video of 10 most painful diseases..

 

[Baldingat188]

Has anyone seen your picture? Some people are saying you don't look masculine from the posts, unless I'm getting confused. I haven't time to read it fully. Maybe you're being hard on yourself which is wasted emotion and loss of life opportunities - need to find out what the case truly is.

If you're a realist and truly beta looking, then you're going to have to hold onto that hair even more so, beyond your youth. That and basic grooming, clothes, cool hair style will bring you around the average mark. Cultivating a good dress sense and funky hairstyle will help offset the face and putting on some muscle. Then live your life with everything and everyone.

Now I know what you said, being average sets you up for a shitty life. But it depends what you want from life - if you're constantly looking above and comparing yourself, you won't be too happy. I agree with you that being good looking with full hair is the biggest privilege in life and sets up amazing spontaneous moments and limits/softens low blows. There is no point denying this, it's better than money/career. Pretty girls are far more common (due to simply being thin and cosmetics) than handsome men which is a further advantage. Most people will be aware if they're good looking by 17-18 tbh.

That ability to make friends randomly and girls to fall in love quickly on first impression - not possible in the same way without looks. The biggest benefit is you never think about looks and enjoy each moment and you know already people like you the way you are. Inner peace. You've alluded to all this which makes me worried, in the sense you're too smart for your own good.

But life can throw a "spanner in the works" in many ways regardless of looks. There are plenty of unhappy good looking people. And some less good looking people are happier too - so it's about changing your thought process as hard as it is and discovering yourself and life objectives. This is probably a phase you'll grow out of as you get older when you'll develop other passions/career distractions/relationship stress/travelling. And that's a good thing to snap out of this in any way possible. You don't want to be old, bald and beta, still focusing on this. If you can't get what you want, change what you want or be content with "lesser success" which is still success.

Of course you can think about serious plastic surgery but it's an expensive route and you need something to work with. It's best for someone who has a massive visible flaw on an otherwise good looking face. Imagine someone with good cheekbones, jawline, low brow but a weird nose or ears that stick out and destroy him. That can be corrected easily and make a big difference. Cosmetic surgery whether hair or otherwise works best on someone who already is "almost there."

Yea I've shown some people my picture. I would share it over pm as long as it's not on here publically. Buck thorn gave me some advice last night so I am doing what he said. I do have a beta face though. With hair I look ok - maybe even slightly above average but with a feminene / baby face ( not ugly , but not "attractive" either). . But that doesn't matter really because it's still basically a harder life. without hair I would be 2/10.

I do have some passions and I can focus all on instead but ultimately the nagging anxiety hairloss presents me with is hard to over come. Never knowing if my hair loss is going to get worse at any moment. I don't see my life worth living as a bald man.

I do agree with what you say about dressing , I might even go far as say I might get tatttoos just so I would stand apart from the stereotypical incel when I'm bald. Not like the bald bad *** type , just kind of like a hipster I guess lol. I'm to skinny and short to be bad ***.

The issue is with comparing myself because I can never stop doing it. It is the source of why I worry about my apperence so much. I am hard on myself in a sense when I compare myself to good looking people , but knowing I will never be beatiful or whatever really bothers me. I think there is something wrong with me because as long as I can Remeber I have been like that - super focused on what I look like. It's probly one of my biggest downfalls as a person. Hair loss simply magnified that feeling times 10.

There are happy unattractive people I agree but that could never be me. Even if I was able to change my thoughts I could never reach a point of true happiness being ugly and bald knowing that I used to be average. If I could keep my hair for ever perhaps I could learn to be fine with how I look but never can I learn to be happy with losing hair.

 

[davesmith420]

Send your pictures my way @Baldingat188

 

[CopeForLife]

Saw his pictures yesterday. Not going to repeat everything but he's spot on regarding what he's wrote. It's not BDD. He does have diffuse thinning and he absolutely needs that full head of hair. Anyway I hope the tips I gave you going forward make a difference because you really can improve - and that you eventually mentally accept and like yourself.

he absolutely needs hair

he will be 3/10 with a bare scalp

 

[Baldingat188]

he absolutely needs hair

he will be 3/10 with a bare scalp

Wow nice to see people actually agree with me on here. Now imagine when I try to tell a family members or something about why hairloss bothers me. I say I will be a 2/10 and they tell me " oh your crazy it's just hair!"

The thing is I may be looks obessed but I am a logical person and I can clearly see how being bald would effect me.

It's finasteride > duta > hair transplants > hair piece > death

 

[Baldingat188]

With keeping that hair full, maturing facially, some muscle, light stubble as his beard is weak, good dress sense and wicked hairstyle - he could pass off as cute/endearing/quirky/geeky to some girls. It's about cultivating a look like I said. Genuine attractiveness (7 and above) which he mentioned requires masculine jawline, cheekbones blah blah and he's spot on. Bright young man, too much for his own good. But he has something which is better than being nothing.

Bald he'll be a beta cuck and exposed facially, genuine nightmare. Not the features you would want to bring out.




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Intelligent beyond your years. But learn to treat your hair AND don't let life pass you by. You think too much but you're smart.

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That's the problem with having some attractiveness but not legitimately being attractive. I have old people tell me I am good looking occasionally - or even sometimes a girl will call me cute ( more in a little brother kind of way then a "I would date you"). But it's never hot girls , and it's never girls that would actually find me sexually attractive. With hair I'm able to trick people into thinking I look decent , but my actual facial features are somewhat lackluster. Without the hair it simply brings out the bad features. That's why truly good looking people can still look good bald. The "fake" good looking people that are right around the average cusp are forced to take clever angled selfies for tinder , go to all extents to maintain hair and looks max in all ways possible.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Chads,In the making.

 

[CopeForLife]

With keeping that hair full, maturing facially, some muscle, light stubble as his beard is weak, good dress sense and wicked hairstyle - he could pass off as cute/endearing/quirky/geeky to some girls. It's about cultivating a look like I said. Genuine attractiveness (7 and above) which he mentioned requires masculine jawline, cheekbones blah blah and he's spot on. Bright young man, too much for his own good. But he has something which is better than being nothing.

Bald he'll be a beta cuck and exposed facially, genuine nightmare. Not the features you would want to bring out.




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Intelligent beyond your years. But learn to treat your hair AND don't let life pass you by. You think too much but you're smart.

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I think he passes as cute/geeky guy already (strong no homo).
I don't think he needs "muscles" though since they don't suit short non-masculine-faced guy.

If he saves his hair he's gonna be all right

 

[CopeForLife]

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Chads,In the making.

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[CopeForLife]

We agree. I think a tiny bit of muscle does no harm, just to appear firm n fit into clothes better.

If a girl likes your face with full hair, she'll be attracted for sure. As you know I dated a 9 and during giving me a bj she would be wet or if I'm playing with her hair and massaging. She'd say 'sorry' or its 'been a few days since we did it.' She'd clean up as if it's too wet I feel less tight inside and slippery. Genuine attraction different ball game, physiological. Women can turn off their sex drives just like magic though for long periods and she had before we were together.

If she saw a cuck no matter how jacked he was, no interest. It's all looks in such circumstances.

looks AND voice

voice matter a lot as well

I see how women react to me when I actually start to talk – their interest fades in a matter of a second since I am stuttering due to childhood trauma and my voice sucks

I saw goodlooking guys with bad voice... They didn't have much success as well

 

[shookwun]

fat grafting made my face more broad, and defined along the cheeks, and jaw OP

looks AND voice

voice matter a lot as well

I see how women react to me when I actually start to talk – their interest fades in a matter of a second since I am stuttering due to childhood trauma and my voice sucks

I saw goodlooking guys with bad voice... They didn't have much success as well

So Legit.

Voice is so crucial, especially the tone and how you project your words.

Speak with your belly like a bullfrog, slow and calmy.

 

[Calchas]

I'm sorry but I really need to rant right now. I could barley get motivated to get out of bed or do any work today. Comparing myself to pictures of celebrities and just looking at how bad I look. My thinning hair is a big part of that , but it's also just my face. 0 jawline , asymmetrical face and bloated cheeks. I took some pictures and videos of myself and I just sort of can't shake the feeling of wanting to kill my self knowing I will never be good looking. The fact is I will probly live an average life if I'm lucky and never do anything meaningful in the world. Being good looking truly is the best privilege.
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I see that you have created a 100 threads whining about how unfair life has been with you.
I really wish you,from the bottom of my heart,that you will never experience how truly unfair life can be.

 

[shookwun]

I see that you have created a 100 threads whining about how unfair life has been with you.
I really wish you,from the bottom of my heart,that you will never experience how truly unfair life can be.

Looks = Game

BEST THEORY!!!!!!

OM, i'm gonna try my best to keep this short. i've posted many field reports here
Last night. I'm in a bar and I make eye contact with a pretty blonde. I call her over to me and she comes over. I tease her. i cold read her- I ask her questions about herself. I implement everything I know about game. It works!! She likes me. I kino her She offers to by me a drink. I take her to the bar. We flirt. This couldn't be going better.
Guess what happens now?..My handsome friend who used to model for ASOS comes over. He literally says 'Hi' to me and now this girl is 100% concentrating on him! She becomes like a puppy. She is drooling! Instantly fascinated with him. Touching him. Complimenting him. Asking him questions etc
I think 'f*** this!! I know that game > looks!'' - I try to engage her and tease her and neg her and self amuse and make her laugh etc etc.....suddenly I am invisible though! She hands me my drink and is now draped over my handsome mate. She is glued to him. I go to the bathroom to compose myself.
I come back and speak to my friend who is now fighting off 2-3 girls! They are all trying to get his attention
He tells me that he will only bang the girl I like if we can both bang her (threesome)
He's trying to do me a favour
I think 'Cool! I know she likes me because before she met my handsome mate, she was all over me''
however, she now tells my friend that she's not remotely into me and so won't do a threesome! I feel like sh*t lol!! She definitely seemed to be interested earlier!
We all dance and my friend clearly feels guilty about steealing this girl from me and is trying to distance himself from her and is now bordeline ignoring her
she presumably realises that he's too handsome for her and leaves.
I pretend not to care about what just happened and me and my friend just talk about something else and are enjoying a beer.
Well....this girl is so obsessed, that she actually pays again to get into the club again so that she can try once more to seduce my friend!!! Again, he tells her that if I can't bang her aswell then, it ain't happening. She says 'no', but keeps trying to touch him but he's ignoring her and she now leaves for good!
We go outisde. Some gorgeous Spanish girl tries to seduce my friend. He ignores her, and me and my friend share a cab.
End of story.
I just feel sick lol. I have never before been so cinvinced that looks = game!

 

[sunchyme1]

i guess all that surgery you just got was a waste of f*****g time then

 

[shookwun]

i guess all that surgery you just got was a waste of f*****g time then

To many to count, Jeff