So What's Wrong With Being Confident Again?

CopeForLife

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Lol..Comparing Belgium with India .

India is a country of two type..
One Rich and One Poor.


Also,Indian Medical Education is of very high standards, why because of huge patient's exposure.
Dude,Its 2 Trillion dollar Economy...

What about Belgium..?

30/40% doctors of US are from India.

Also,private Hospitals here are so sophisticated,even an average american man can't afford treatments.

Deluxe rooms in such Hospitals cost more than Five star Hotel.


So funny,I have read comments on Rxpg that even american medical graduate cannot crack FMGE..
which is licencing exam for foreign graduate's in India .

I have seen USMLE book,
It is half of our sylabus.
I can Easily Crack USMLE and get admission in US Medical PG college..

Problem is why to Invest that Money.

Just only in Few things US wins and that things include advance surgeries that mostly not required for maximum people.

And this HairTransplant association fools the Internet telling its an art and all that,promoting only their association doctor's.

My friend's who are Norwood zero laughs when they heard such doctor's claims,
Dude,my few friend are doing Pediatric Neurosurgery,uro surgeon,Neurologist.
Its billion Times difficult than hairtransplant.

One mistake and your patient is dead,end of career..

What about Hairtransplant, almost about more than half doctor's are using technicians for this easy game.

Hair Transplant depends maximum on patient conditions.

What the point of luxury hotels (in India) if you go outside on the streets and see this:
https://www.quora.com/Do-Indian-people-really-sh*t-in-streets/answer/Sumathi-Rawwraalyngham

A girl in Jharkhand committed suicide as her parents refused to build toilet ! India as a Nation must wake up and build toilets on priority
https://twitter.com/digvijaya_28/status/617170306570924032?ref_src=twsrc^tfw

Sorry but I cannot take India serious.
 

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It's a choice. You want to make your life harder for the sake of it and think it makes you a better person, fine. But then don't rage when you see people who make smarter choices.

There is validity in what you are saying, but as David pointed out before, you treat circumstances that apply specifically to you and then speak of them as though they are monolithic norms.

Your argument is torn asunder by the fact that these "choices" are simply not an option to a vast majority of people. I think this is what those SJW assholes refer to as "privilege"

I know tons of people who were just shy of literally being kicked out by their parents when they turned 18. What say you, then? They should have "chose" to have different parents? Some grow up poor and have to go to work to support themselves, their family or both at as young an age they legally can. Some people pursue an education or job when they are young that gives them no choice but to relocate. So they should not have made a choice, one for the purpose of bettering their lives I might add, because they might have been afflicted with hairloss sooner than they could've expected? f*****g and having your hair trumps all though, so they should have chose to stay at home so they could have more money for a transplant instead? Your mother offered to pay half your transplant. Good for you - most people's mothers will try to talk them out of getting a transplant.

The fact remains that many people are burdened with responsibilities they were born into and most of the responsibilities that people have taken upon themselves are done with the ambition of a prosperous future. You're suggesting people should not make such decisions if it will interfere with their finances to get a transplant in the future and be left in loathing of their hairloss - that is a terrible choice. What should happen, and finally seems to be, is that the medical industry needs to start giving at least half a sh*t about curing a disease that society at once treats as a non-issue whilst discriminating against those who suffer it and leaving them to their silent torment. Because most of the potentially viable future methods are using technologies that could have been put into use in the last 20 years if only enough doctors had cared to research and apply them for this purpose.
 

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but as David pointed out before, you treat circumstances that apply specifically to you and then speak of them as though they are monolithic norms.

When so many people say the same thing...

One of the biggest problems in life is that people who know the least like to speak the loudest. Often, the brightest and most clued up are the quietest and just get on with things where as those who shout the loudest are too busy doing so to learn any different. Fred practically made it his life mission to preach about dating to a bunch of guys on hair loss forums but his experience is actually quite limited; 1) it is just his world view based on his quite different persona 2) it is largely based on internet dating because he admits that he takes any form of rejection extremely badly.
 

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I've been making more money than anyone I know since I was 15 years old.

On top that, I don't suffer from misplaced pride by refusing my mother's help. She was the one who wanted to help me.

And I was smart enough not to move out because of social pressure, like you probably did.

Lol at being proud of having "responsabilities" that you forced upon yourself. It's like people who take pride in working hard, and then rage when they see me having it good.

It's a choice. You want to make your life harder for the sake of it and think it makes you a better person, fine. But then don't rage when you see people who make smarter choices.

It isn't wrong of you to accept your parents' help. Lots of people take help from their parents well into their 20s, and many other people inherit six or seven or more figures from their parents at later ages. If you can take help from your parents, and they can afford it, do it.

However, it is wrong of you to assume that everybody has it as easy as you. The majority of people out there cannot ask their parents for a few thousand dollars for a hair transplant, or to keep burdening them into late adulthood.

We're not forcing responsibilities on our parents. It's just not feasible for many parents to support their kids forever.
 

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It isn't wrong of you to accept your parents' help. Lots of people take help from their parents well into their 20s, and many other people inherit six or seven or more figures from their parents at later ages. If you can take help from your parents, and they can afford it, do it.

However, it is wrong of you to assume that everybody has it as easy as you. The majority of people out there cannot ask their parents for a few thousand dollars for a hair transplant, or to keep burdening them into late adulthood.

We're not forcing responsibilities on our parents. It's just not feasible for many parents to support their kids forever.

At 27, I just moved back in with the parents. I pay them rent, but it's super cheap.

They're against the idea of me getting a transplant, so asking then for money for it isn't something I'd consider, but I don't think I'd be able to afford to get one if I wasn't living with them and reaping the benefits of living cheaply.
 

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I see these couples who have 3 kids, three cars, a six bedroom house and a massive mortgage.

They love playing the martyr as they tell you how exhausted they are.

B-b-b-ut, they're livin' the dream, I tell ya!

It's sad some people sacrifice a simple, well lived life for meaningless objects just to impress other people. That's all it is really. Like a lion puffing out his chest, we all need to somehow prove our societal worth through material crap. My Father is extremely successful and very wealthy, yet still drives a 2006 Chevy Silverado. During social gatherings he never brags about how much money he makes, and will only talk about his business if people ask. He has always been an inspiration to me.

As children, our lives were somewhat simple. It's weird we worked so hard throughout our twenties and thirties to make them as complicated as f*ck. Some time after that, a lot of us will want to make them simple again. Either that or die from a f*cking heart attack.
 

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I went through like a 1.5 year period where I was hanging around a lot of black dudes and the "hood rich" mentality started to rub off on me...wasting all this money on watches and shoes and stuff...basically making it look like you're rich while living paycheck to paycheck.

Some of the dumbest sh*t I've ever done. Sh*t does nothing to help you get laid more, etc. You can still dress stylish and respectably while living cheaply.

Even though I wasted a ton of money I'm glad I went through that phase so now I know how not worth it all the lavish living sh*t is.
 

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[QUTE="CopeForLife, post: 1359888, member: 125187"]What the point of luxury hotels (in India) if you go outside on the streets and see this:
https://www.quora.com/Do-Indian-people-really-sh*t-in-streets/answer/Sumathi-Rawwraalyngham

A girl in Jharkhand committed suicide as her parents refused to build toilet ! India as a Nation must wake up and build toilets on priority
https://twitter.com/digvijaya_28/status/617170306570924032?ref_src=twsrc^tfw

Sorry but I cannot take India serious.[/QUOTE]


Why U should take India Serious.

India is a 2 side country.
One Rich and One Poor.

How can you undervalue 500 million on the basis of 300 million People.

This 500 Million people live a life of dreams,having all essential goods to live a life.

India has per capita Income of just 1000 US Dollars.
While many Indian are earning about half million US Dollars Every Year.

I have written very well reply to you but i deleted it because i think its not good to post in public.

About those who goes on open to defecate..
they are such a kind they do not even care that it is problem
They just don't care about it.
 

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Exceptions as always. I'm not talking about people who get kicked out or have abusive parents, which let's face it, are a minority.

I'm talking about the reason the vast majority of people move out. We've all heard it before: "I don't want to be a mommy's boy! I want to be independent. Lol at you stacking money and making a smarter move! Mature people depend on their boss!"

This is the reason most people will make their life more difficult. They could have stayed with their parents, but chose to move out. Then they will take pride in the fact that they are living paycheck to paycheck.

"Life is hard!" No it isn't, you made it hard.

Congratulations, you've succumbed to the capitalist propaganda, the more households, the better.

This social pressure is why so many people make irreparable mistakes, get married in a hurry, have children with the wrong person or even join sects.

But of course, people who have no choice have my respect. Being kicked out by your parents is like losing your hair, in the sense that it's not your fault. I respect people who solve their problems, not that create them themselves, then solve them, and then act like they deserve other people's praise.
Strong cope.


The only people passed 25 who live with there parents are those who are not finncially suffecient. Its not a surprise, most entry level jobs pay crap. Being I debt from school doesn't help so it takes you another 10 before you can be independent.


Life is amazing having your own place, car and freedom. Its a next milestone in our lives and is great.



Broke = live with parents

School = residence or live with parents


Financially well off = own place

I could not imagine living with my parents all over again after having my own pad. Lol at bringing chicks back and hiding them in your room as a grown adult while the family is in the living room. Teenager flex.


However, if you have the whole basement to yur self that's a debatable
 
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shookwun

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I went through like a 1.5 year period where I was hanging around a lot of black dudes and the "hood rich" mentality started to rub off on me...wasting all this money on watches and shoes and stuff...basically making it look like you're rich while living paycheck to paycheck.

Some of the dumbest sh*t I've ever done. Sh*t does nothing to help you get laid more, etc. You can still dress stylish and respectably while living cheaply.

Even though I wasted a ton of money I'm glad I went through that phase so now I know how not worth it all the lavish living sh*t is.
Lawll.


Only style you need is a fresh hair cut. You will make all your clothes look good. After a fresh trim I can wear a white fruit of the loons t shirt, and Levi jeans and look like I am dressing to impress. Its the man that makes the clothes look good. If you look like a dweeb you will always look like one

Hailo effect
 

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Strong cope.


The only people passed 25 who live with there parents are those who are not finncially suffecient. Its not a surprise, most entry level jobs pay crap. Being I debt from school doesn't help so it takes you another 10 before you can be independent.


Life is amazing having your own place, car and freedom. Its a next milestone in our lives and is great.



Broke = live with parents

School = residence or live with parents


Financially well off = own place

I could not imagine living with my parents all over again after having my own pad. Lol at bringing chicks back and hiding them in your room as a grown adult while the family is in the living room. Teenager flex.


However, if you have the whole basement to yur self that's a debatable

This. I don't understand what's so cool about living with your parents while approaching your 30's. It's much better to be independent, cook your own meals and clean your own home.
 

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I think bringing girls back home is a terrible idea, parents or not. They know where you live and if you piss them off somehow, good luck with that.

So where do you and your girlfriend spend time together? Her place? Oh wait, I forgot, she lives with her parents as well xD
 

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It has nothing to do with being cool, it's just smart.

My girlfriend lives with her parents too, same for most of my friends.

It's about keeping your money for other things than renting some space where you can rot on your own.

You are not independent.

Independent means you don't owe anything to anyone.

Why don't you stop showing up at work? Oh you can't? I thought you were independent?

I'm standing on my own two feet, I pay my own bills, so yeah - I'm independent. Of course nobody will truly be independent in the sense that they don't owe anything to anybody, well unless they are loaded, but I'm independent because I don't depend on my parents to put a roof over my head or meals on my table.
 

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Lawll.


Only style you need is a fresh hair cut. You will make all your clothes look good. After a fresh trim I can wear a white fruit of the loons t shirt, and Levi jeans and look like I am dressing to impress. Its the man that makes the clothes look good. If you look like a dweeb you will always look like one

Hailo effect

A bad outfit can make even a good looking dude look sloppy.

Don't be the dude walking around in baggy pants and skater shoes like it's 2005
 

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Be honest Evil, you would not be able to afford that apartment without your grandmother's inheritance.

Yes, I would be able to afford an apartment without my grandparent's money, maybe not a very nice apartment like the one I own today, renovated top to bottom, but a place nevertheless. I work, I'm able to pay my bills :)
 

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So you are not independent. People who are truly independent are people who have made enough cash so they can sustain themselves indefinitely.

Just say you don't depend on your parents, that's more accurate.

Fine, I'm independed from my parents, if you want to be stubborn. I'm my own person now that I live on my own, and play by my own set of rules. And that's a great feeling.
 

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But I still don't see the advantages, especially when you cite "cleaning your own place" and "cooking your own food". I hate both of these activities.

Well, then I guess you should never move out, unless you are rich enough to hire somebody to take care of those activities for you. But I think that's just laziness to be honest!
 
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