qball01 said:
...I'm not denying there is a difference between a thick Norwood 1 who buzzes with no guard and a bic'd Norwood 6, and even that isn't a huge difference. But when you're comparing a razor'd down Norwood 2 or 3 and a razor'd down Norwood 6 the only person who will notice is the guy himself or other obsessed bald guys...you need to realize I'm right on this one. Look at somebody like Ami James, hes nearly as bald as they come, shaved all the way and he still looks great. Its not about the hairline...its about the head shape and facial features that make bald look good or not.
as for the face framing argument...a lot of the time a little facial stubble will make a big difference because it adds back some character to the face when the hair is gone.
Women will notice the difference, and they will reject a NW6 who shaves it down, versus a non-balding guy who shaves it down - everything else being equal.
Why? If the woman desires a guy with hair some time down the road and gets tired of her "head-shaver" boyfriend, the non-balding dude still has the
ability to grow all his hair back and will still be a considered a mate. The NW6 is S.O.L. is this situation.
Because of that situation, a
portion of society will reject the NW6 for that reason (for being "less desirable" to women), at least on a subconcious level. The NW6 has to work
harder to prove to the superficial portion of society (which makes up an astronmonical number of people, btw) that he is still equal to non-balding dudes - minus the hair. If anybody in that bald guy's social group contests, or thinks that the bald is inferior, the bald NW6 is once again, S.O.L. and will be treated as "lesser" of a man, than a non-bald would be treated. Because of his obvious difference to the rest of the guys in the group, others will only
hear about him being a "loser" and
assume it is because of his hair loss, even if the reason why he is considered a loser doesn't have anything to do with his male pattern baldness.
The difference that the non-bald is always given the benefit of the doubt, at least on a subconcious level, where the bald NW6 has to prove themself that they are "worthy" and just as "happening" as everyone else.
If the bald NW6
doesn't choose to go the extra mile and impress poeple that they are "worthy"
every time he encounters a new group of people, in new social situations the NW6 will
automatically be lumped into the "loser" category, and regarded as a dork, dweeb, etc...who has allowed his hairloss to ruin his life. He will be looked down upon, and not respected.
Non-balds are not subjected to these types of social things involving hair loss. Neither are NW1's and 2's who have only experienced a "taste" of the full force of male pattern baldness.