DoctorHouse said:
...I honestly think obese people have it the worst. If you are at a bar and see a bald guy in good shape socializing with a fat obese guy with a full head of hair, who do you think most girls will clammer towards. I bet you the bald guy will be the favorite. No matter what, people will judge you on physical perception. Its up to you, to show them your different from the typical stereotype of who you represent.
Well, I know for certain that some women, particularly young and beautiful ones, are extremely repulsed even at the sight of bald men - muscles and confidence or not. However, not many of them will openly admit this. They are just plain grossed out, and would absolutely never even consider being with a bald guy - unless he was a movie star, or rich, a black guy (for some reason women like head-shaver black guys more than head-shaver white guys), drug dealers, movie producers,...etc
But, even then her motivations for being with them is something
other than him (with the exception of the black guy).
In that situation in the bar you described, most women will probably not gravitate towards either of them - the bald guy with muscles, or the fat guy with hair.
I would say that most of the time, they will go to another bar, or go home with other girls. :tongue:
I have been in a few bars in my time and I have seen this happen over and over again like clockwork.
As far a "typical stereotypes" and bald guys having to show they are different:
This is basically the same thing I just said a few posts ago in this thread. Bald guys are always stuck with a "stigmatism" of being losers, and every time they encounter a new social situation, they have to
prove that they are not the stereotypical, lonely bald loser. If they don't go the extra mile to prove themselves, they will be automatically lumped into the "loser" category - by a
portion of society which can be quite a large portion, btw. On the other hand, guys with a full head of hair are not subjected to this - they are given the benefit of the doubt that they are not losers.
Funny how people always ridicule me on this forum, and start arguments with me, and always seem to disagree with just about everything I say, and yet someone else says the same thing, Dr. House in this case, and nobody even makes one remark about it. :whistle: