Now I'm speaking from the perspective of a guy who dates different girls every month, off Tinder and OKCupid alone.. I think I have become an expert in the online dating thing, to the point where I could be a YouTube dating guru or something lol. Becoming more successful with the other gender was my mission and in the last 2 years I have invested quite a lot of time and money into it, and made a huge progress. That includes learning what girls are really attracted to, improving my looks through hair transplants, working out, styling (alpha m's channel is great for this) as well as text game and real life game, and so on.
I have been told that I look "exactly the same" (in my opinion - better, but whatever..) in real life, compared to my pics. On the other hand, most girls I have met usually looked more attractive in the pics, sometimes completely different! If balding wasn't already enough of a disadvantage, women have mastered the art of the fraud - angles, filters, lighting, makeup, heels and so on. Every girl who simply isn't fat or deformed will be bombarded by hundreds and hundreds of likes and messages. The game is so imbalanced that it sucks.
What you write in your profile doesn't matter, in fact if you write too much you'll come off as a tryhard. What you want is to give the impression that you're there by complete accident; maybe your friend made you an account.. you're simply too good for that place and nothing like any of those creeps. You might get a slight boost for a prestigious job and writing skills but for the most part it's about how you look. Your facial aesthetics matter the most, followed by your height, then your body, clothes and lifestyle.
I have learned that most girls on dating apps search for the boy next door, approachable, good looking guy:
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In 2019, guys who look like this are the top tier slayers of the online dating game. Not alien looking male models, or jacked up jocks.. just dudes who seem nice and regular.. with a head full of hair. This is because girls are afraid of fuckboys who will pump and dump them and hurt their ego, thus guys like this give them the delusion of hope and safety even if deep down they're actually douchebags who will really dump them soon.
I don't blame girls, they do this subconsciously bc of evolution and the media. It just hurts me to know that bald guys who try to be appealing to women by working their *** off in the gym then taking shirtless pics will be written off as douchebags, tryhards and not cute enough.
I probably didn't say anything new that you haven't heard before, just needed to vent.