The Frequent "official" Origin Of My Recent Failures With Women

[Afro_Vacancy]

In my experience, conversation becomes effortless when a woman is interested, whereas it's like drawing blood from a stone when she's not.

And you guys see that I know a couple things about the world and I can discuss ideas and opinions. However, if I meet a woman who doesn't find me attractive she is very likely to think that "David is really boring, the conversation was so awkward and difficult," her description may not be the deep truth but it would be real to her, an accurate description of events.

And you can see in the world lots of boring people with partners.

So just be a decently good person, have a few interests, the true variable is LMS.

 

[hairblues]

Those are my best hopes, to find a woman that does all the talking! Unfortunately with my luck that's a rare treat unless it's those ones that make me feel like I'm being interrogated by the police which I really don't like.

Can I ask, how old are you? In college?

 

[Jimbo5]

Since there still isn't even a speck of credible or compelling evidence to support the existence of a god, the only intelligent, logical position, in my view, is to be an agnostic who leans atheist.

I laugh (hard) at these jesus freaks who know, just know that their god exists...

 

[biddybomb]

What I find weird is, even if God is real he/she is a f*****g prick that lets people suffer in some of the most horrendous ways..."inb4 but da da plan bro, he got da plan". By believing in god to get your ticket into heaven you are essentially yielding to blackmail from a reprehensible terrorist.

I also find it disgusting because believing that 'god has a plan for everyone' involves having a worldview that people in far worse situations than yourself are there for some kind of reason rather than dumb blind luck. Convenient. Not to say religious institutions don't strive to help people in need because they certainly do but its a strange paradox when these people believe everything is a result of the hands of god so they are basically fixing the problems God has instigated. They call it doing God's work, shouldn't it be undoing God's work?

 

[Xander94]

You all dont get what Im trying to say. But it's expected few people do.

 

[Xander94]

What is your evidence for it and what is it's relevance in this discussion?

There is no evidence you exist as well. You could be a fake electromagnetic impulse in my brain and I could be living in a similation that's not even prime reality.

In probability mathematics the impossible event and the event with probability 0 are different. Impossible event can never happen while the event with probability 0 has never been seen but can still happen.

Thing is we are getting some things axiomatically, thinking that we have enough "evidence" to prove them. Yet there is no absolute 100% truth. There must be one Universal Cosmological truth that exists always existed and holds.

About the position and movement of electrons around the core of an Atom no deterministic way exists to give us the actual position of the electrons only a probabilistic.

Einstein said the theory is incomplete "God doesn't throw dice", then Bohr replied "Don't tell God what to do".

I could be wrong Im only human after all.

 

[pjhair]

There is no evidence you exist as well. You could be a fake electromagnetic impulse in my brain and I could be living in a similation that's not even prime reality.

I am aware of that. In fact some prominent physicists have argued that it is more likely than not that we live in a simulated universe. However, this proposition has nothing to with a positive evidence in favor of God's existence. To clarify, here is how our conversation went:

Pjhair: What is the evidence for God's existence?

Xander94: There is no evidence you exist as well.

Do you see the flaw in your argument? Doubt about my existence can't be used as an argument in favor of God's existence.

Yet there is no absolute 100% truth. There must be one Universal Cosmological truth that exists always existed and holds.

Your two statements in this statement seem contradictory. You first claim that there is no absolute 100% truth. You then immediately claim that there must be one Universal Cosmological truth. Clarify your position. Is "absolute 100% truth" not the same as "Universal Cosmological truth that exists always existed and holds" ? If they are not the same then then elaborate how you distinguish between them. Also, provide argument to prove the validity of both of these statements.

 

[resu]

Can I ask, how old are you? In college?

Early 30's and I've had relationships but not from "dates".

 

[pjhair]

Since there still isn't even a speck of credible or compelling evidence to support the existence of a god, the only intelligent, logical position, in my view, is to be an agnostic who leans atheist.

I laugh (hard) at these jesus freaks who know, just know that their god exists...

I don't find arguments provided by many agnostics very convincing. Why being an agnostic at all? Is it because no one can refute the existence of God? Well propositions like God are not falsifiable, hence they are not taken seriously. No one in the world can refute my claim that there is a ten headed monster who lives on a planet that is ten billion light years away from earth. Can one be agnostic about this claim? No one can refute my claim that Einsteins ghost didn't visit me yesterday. Can one be agnostic about this claim? Our inability to refute absurd claims doesn't give us ground to be agnostic about their validity. All one can say is I don't believe the claim as there is no evidence for it.

I once asked a theist, what evidence will convince you that God doesn't exist? He replied that if I can explain how universe came into existence without any gaps. I pointed out even if we could explain all that, that still wouldn't qualify as refutation of God's existence. Explanation of origin of universe is not the same as refutation of God's existence. Despite thinking very hard, he couldn't come up with even one evidence that would have convinced him that God doesn't exist. How could he? Claim that God exists is not a falsifiable claim.

 

[resu]

This was one of my fears when I was 17 but not once in 87 dates had I to deal with an awkward silence. Women love to talk, so yeah, just nod.

And don't listen to @hairblues advice. A first date should be in a bar with a coach (two coaches facing each other if you can find that). Tip: if she choses to sit in front of you rather than next to you, you're never touching that girl.

Simplicity is important and conversation should flow even just being in a bar, doing something special to get her to talk screams try-hard.

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When I was decent looking women used to close themselves up and be very embarrassed, they would blush and nod but not say anything making me feel bad, this is something that was always a problem, I felt they looked up to me as someone respectable and were trying to impress in an equal respectable matter although I don't know why.

I can't go to bars because I have addiction issues and I know if I started to drink I would end up as an alcoholic, I also don't smoke and when I used to go to bars when I was young I would always arrive home smelling like I chain smoked cigars all day, I said enough is enough and I quit.

Best way to meet women is from other people and friends or if you're good looking from online dating, being Tom Cruise short at 30 I can't use online dating, plus with baldness on top it would be a cruel joke, not to mention that there's less women available at this age and the decent ones that aren't even lookers to begin with are seen as a catch if they meet a certain criteria like not having kids and being thin which the single good looking guys in this age bracket clean up all the scraps! Leaving pretty much nothing.

I was just curious about how a date would develop since I've never had one.

 

[Dante92]

Favorite sex positions.

Really? I would have thought sad frog memes.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Shiiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeet mang, what if we're all connected to the matrix and none of this is real. What if I'm really a fullhead.

 

[Dante92]

Shiiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeet mang, what if we're all connected to the matrix and none of this is real. What if I'm really a fullhead.

Nope. No hair in the vat.

 

[hairblues]

This was one of my fears when I was 17 but not once in 87 dates had I to deal with an awkward silence. Women love to talk, so yeah, just nod.

And don't listen to @hairblues advice. A first date should be in a bar with a coach (two coaches facing each other if you can find that). Tip: if she choses to sit in front of you rather than next to you, you're never touching that girl.

Simplicity is important and conversation should flow even just being in a bar, doing something special to get her to talk screams try-hard.

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Let me clarify since you tagged me.

If it's a first 'meet' face e to face he should just do a coffee--maybe a walk if weather is good and he is nervous.

If its a first date and he is 'nervous' about talking at a dinner or lunch--i mean doing something active can ease anxiety for people who have anxiety around making small talk.
You go do something, or experience something (not a movie) then sit and talk about it.

If he can do a dinner thats best but if he is crippled by unease about it he may want to do something that is more active mentally or physically thats fun.

I do think women like to talk about themselves if you give them little cues.

 

[Dante92]

I do think women like to talk about themselves if you give them little cues.

They gladly do it without the need of "little clues".

 

[hairblues]

They gladly do it without the need of "little clues".

I bet it makes your ears bleed.

 

[Dante92]

I bet it makes your ears bleed.

Not only my ears.

 

[hairblues]

Not only my ears.

You can always unfollow me Dante no need to be a victim of my words

 

[hairblues]

LOL by "unfollowing you" it would imply I give any importance to you or what you write in the first place. That's not the case, fear not, milady.

Okay, I feel relieved to hear that since I did not want to be the cause of your 'eyes bleeding'.
Sounds dreadful.

 

[Xander94]

I actually had casual chat with several women today. Went ok ofcourse there was no phone numbers exchanged or anything and they seemed to kind of ignore me after the chats. So they make up their mind after a short chat its either a do or a don't.