The Mistake of Neglecting Hair Loss

[zdm632]

Look, you're not the first one pretending that he had an epiphany and that telling us we're all morons for caring about our hair loss.

I don't pretend I have all the answers, but I firmly believe that your discourse is pure delusion. You can't escape reality.

You can pretend you have found the light and that all of a sudden "hair doesn't matter", the truth will come back to you, and with a vengeance.

We've all had moments like these, especially when we were sinking in desperation. "Screw it, I don't care about hair, hair is nothing!"

Then a few weeks later, we come to our senses: "Who am I kidding? Hair is important for a man, and there's no other way to look at it."

Yesssssssss! I had moments like this when i was your age. Definitely! But now it's other story, they got fewer and fewer until complete "remission".

No, delusion is something like this "omg, i don't have a full head, i'm diffused/receded/bald crown, i look in the mirror at 15 minutes, and feel miserable, and i am depressed, and ...and...and. I get suicidal thoughts, i want th cure now or feel i'll jump from a building" (it's full of this on this site).

Coming to reality is something like this: "What the fvck, there are bald men everywhere, let me just buzz my hair short so it looks best possible, and let's get over and go on with my life. How stupid was i for obsessing for some stupid hairs so much years?Omg what a moron i was, haaaa. And, look at it, buzzed/shaved, it doesn't look bad at all. "
That means "coming to reality". I know, when we're very young we feel that we will be immortal, that whole world must be at our feet, that we must look perfect, but guess what, nature is very imperfect and,,,bad luck or else, we were not given good hair genes. But what should we do now? Live a ****ty life constantly bothered by our hair, or accept it, do whatever we can in order to compensate, and get over?
First choice means immaturity, second means maturity.

Have in mind this is just MY OPINION. I understand and respect yours, but i don't adhere to it.

You said above, that when your hair grows, sometimes it looks crappy and you shave it. I bet you'll come to my conclusion soon.
And, i NEVER said "i don't care". Why are you putting words into my mouth?
If i was not to care i wouldn't buzz it in order to look best and cleanest possible. But, i buzz it, and here ends my misery.

You know how liberated was i when i first buzzed it some 4 years ago? Going from some wispy diffused top, i looked in the mirror everyday, i even was sleeping without a pillow for my hair to not mess around during the night(how stupid, yes). For a good year i was just sleping on my back, because if laying on the side it would ruin my styled hair, for which i was spending some good mins after shower. Imagine that, and then, i buzzed it, and practically felt i was born again. No more styling, no more problems.

 

[shookwun]

Look, you're not the first one pretending that he had an epiphany and that telling us we're all morons for caring about our hair loss.

I don't pretend I have all the answers, but I firmly believe that your discourse is pure delusion. You can't escape reality.

You can pretend you have found the light and that all of a sudden "hair doesn't matter", the truth will come back to you, and with a vengeance.

We've all had moments like these, especially when we were sinking in desperation. "Screw it, I don't care about hair, hair is nothing!"

Then a few weeks later, we come to our senses: "Who am I kidding? Hair is important for a man, and there's no other way to look at it."

These guys come out of the wood works all the time, in a few weeks their back at the ol' hair is everything way of thinking. Constant cycle of emotions. it's better to just accept that the only thing that makes up for a loss of hair is HAIR.

These men need to go to a club where alcohol is involved, and find out what women really think of them. It's a big reality check, because when you're good looking despite these MGTOW forums say women will actively approach, and accept your advance. Opposed to going to the book store during broad day light, and having women in retail giving a courtesy-sympathy smile then thinking 'damn this girl is attracted to me'

 

[doublebatman]

Enjoy your new community: http://www2.slybaldguys.com/smf/

Community there is the polar opposite. They will say everyone looks great sly. Some people look horrible.

A little bit too much of an echochamber there.

 

[VeprSuper]

Community there is the polar opposite. They will say everyone looks great sly. Some people look horrible.

A little bit too much of an echochamber there.

Correct. No matter how bad it looks, they will say, "you rock the look", "you look much younger without hair", etc,ect. It's all just ego balm.

 

[swingline747]

Correct. No matter how bad it looks, they will say, "you rock the look", "you look much younger without hair", etc,ect. It's all just ego balm.

And the proverbial, "I never had trouble with the ladies", "I get hot chicks all the time"

lol

 

[VeprSuper]

And the proverbial, "I never had trouble with the ladies", "I get hot chicks all the time"

lol

Haha, tan, work out, facial hair and CONFIDENCE, bro! It fixes everything!

 

[swingline747]

Haha, tan, work out, facial hair and CONFIDENCE, bro! It fixes everything!

And you TO can pick up sweet sweet honies like that!

 

[Agustin Araujo]

Correct. No matter how bad it looks, they will say, "you rock the look", "you look much younger without hair", etc,ect. It's all just ego balm.

And that's why I don't take advice from people about my hair anymore.

Baldness is for absolutely no one, and having a shaved head isn't for everyone.

 

[Wolf Pack]

Guys, the last page was too hilarious in regards to that other forum. We should send some representatives from this forum to over there to debate with them!

 

[Exodus2011]

****ed up . . . . . but funny as **** lmao

 

[Nadester]

So... You attraction level will ensure you pussy, is what you tryin to say shookwun??

 

[shookwun]

Money doesn't get you laid unless hookers, and frequent visits to the philippines is what one desires. Let's face it most people will never see a 200,000K + salary so that leaves money out of the equation for mattering.

If you never got laid when money didn't matter what makes people think that becoming educated, and career oriented will. Almost as bad as those PUA enthusiasts. I would say asides from hair making up for not having hair, exercising and building a muscular physique is the only thing that would marginally increase attraction.

 

[Nadester]

Okay MORE blogs like these pls

 

[swingline747]

how about a NSFW warning on those posts.

 

[Exodus2011]

not to mention its usually the good looking average to above average intelligence clean cut white guys that seem to make the most money lol . . . . the same guys that already didn't have problems getting girls haha. same kind of guys i see at chick-fil-a and on the bachelor.

we can't be having a double standard though, the girl sucking off different "hot guys" is the same as guys doing the sl*t at the party.

 

[VeprSuper]

Guys, the last page was too hilarious in regards to that other forum. We should send some representatives from this forum to over there to debate with them!

We have had them here and there is no debating them. They know they can't give an inch or the whole thing falls apart.
They would ban us there in a heartbeat for "negativity".

 

[uncomfortable man]

So shokwoon, the moral to your story is that you have to be in the top one percentile of men or life isnt worth living?

 

[Wolf Pack]

We have had them here and there is no debating them. They know they can't give an inch or the whole thing falls apart.
They would ban us there in a heartbeat for "negativity".

I hear you. I went on that forum but they overcompensate too much, it's not based on reality at all. They definitely would ban us. Although people are negative on here it's with very valid reasons, accepting balding is a good trait, being irrational about its 'benefits' isn't.

 

[2bald2young]

There is one thing that we have in common with that community; we don't sugarcoat the truth and tell people directly what attracts women and other things that has to do with it.

What is the difference? Ow well, we don't tell hair loss sufferers to shoot a bunch of NW1's...

 

[VeprSuper]

HairLossTalk.com always seemed the most grounded part of the Triangle of Death (HairLossTalk.com, Sluthate, SBG).