Thinking about joining POF, and meeting some new women

[Exodus2011]

I have not had an orgasm for more than a year. I fap but not to completion (voluntarily).
There, now you all will seem normal by comparison.

i have to be put down in some way to achieve orgasm xDDDD

it seems like my fetish could easily turn into your fetish . . . . . .but i couldnt handle not nutting. busting me a fat nut to a white wh*** is one of the few things that still gets my rocks off

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I suffer from both impotency and erectile dysfunction, and I have never been happier.

didn't you say you were married at one point?

were you serious? how was it?

 

[hellouser]

CONFIDENCE!

Just look at this guy, looks like he's oozing with confidence and is able to get all these ladies!

 

[Exodus2011]

da FUQ. he is prolly crushing real hard on that girl next to him but will inevitably end up with the fat one lmfao

where did you find this pic? lmao

 

[billybob mcdougal]

i have to be put down in some way to achieve orgasm xDDDD

it seems like my fetish could easily turn into your fetish . . . . . .but i couldnt handle not nutting. busting me a fat nut to a white wh*** is one of the few things that still gets my rocks off

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didn't you say you were married at one point?

were you serious? how was it?

When the Doctor diagnosed me, a huge wave of both relief and euphoria washed over me. No more night walkers for me anymore, save money so I retire early and hibernate away from humanity.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Even with hair that guy is a average at best. Nice deep v-neck though.

 

[Exodus2011]

Even with hair that guy is a average at best. Nice deep v-neck though.

since he started average what is he now? lol

if you were average to begin with that only makes hair more important . . . . .

 

[doublebatman]

since he started average what is he now? lol

if you were average to begin with that only makes hair more important . . . . .

I'd say he's below average even with hair. Without hair he just looks terrible

 

[Wolf Pack]

None of those girls look nice except the one with red hair despite all that make up.

 

[bilboswaggins]

damn he looks like a cancer patient

 

[Wolf Pack]

I see most baldies that look like him, clones of corpses, all dressed well and lean. It's actually what convinced me to take hair loss seriously. I'm much better looking than him but would also look hideous bald. He could do with a beard/stubble. He looks so hairless like a baby but in a gross way :shakehead:

 

[billybob mcdougal]

I see most baldies that look like him, clones of corpses, all dressed well and lean. It's actually what convinced me to take hair loss seriously. I'm much better looking than him but would also look hideous bald. He could do with a beard/stubble. He looks so hairless like a baby but in a gross way :shakehead:

Its only people that are balding that advocate growing facial hair. Society hates a bald man with facial growth, compensating, bouncer type, scary, monster ect. The majority of men bald are clean shaven, even they hate a bearded bald man, trust me, I speak from experience.....oh unless its "designer" stubble like the rest of the trogladites, no f**king heart, blinding copying some Z celebrity no-mark.

 

[shookwun]

Well looks like i'm no longer involuntarily celibate

Had drinks last night at my place, watched a movie on the bed, and then went from there. Got that 16+ day NO FAP PMO nut out of me. Surprisingly my erection was harder then I thought, but obviously not at 100%. Over a year ago the last time I tried to **** I couldn't get it up, and had like a 20% erection, the chick I was with literally had to death grip HJ me to orgasm :laugh:

I'm officially DONE with p**rn and masturbating. Going to continue talking to other women and just get back on recovery with real women verses a keyboard and twenty tabs of HD pr0n.

 

[Exodus2011]

If you have all that free time to do that, then by all means, why not.

Just keep in mind that some of us have little free time to be chasing entitled Western women all the time.

So p**rn and masturbation can be a reasonable alternative.

This masturbation obsession is laughable by the way, it has nothing with your weak erections in the past.

yea i agree . . . . . . the problem is you, not the p**rn

i fap to p**rn and hd p**rn all day and just seeing a cute girl in real life gives me a ****ing boner that i have to stop and reach down into my pants to adjust

 

[shookwun]

Keep telling yourself that, whatever helps cope. The problem isn't masturbating itself, but the introduction of p**rn that over prolonged period, meaning years makes it a bad thing. If you've never been with a women you will be in for a huge wake up call when your dick doesn't respond.. ha ull see. Ive been there, and was like others p**rn addict with no relationship experience. The difference is I had hook ups, and kept wondering why the **** it wont get up, and respond. These women were attractive in my mind, but my dick wouldn't get aroused. Get's rock HARD when p**rn is introduced, but cant achieve a full erection with a real women. If I'm not mistaken u said that ur dick gets limp even from p**rn, hence the introduction of even sicker stuff such as femdom, and cuckold p**rn :laugh:


Exodus you've never been with a women your entire life. Ur brain is triggered by ur addiction and ur hand, it doesn't even know what a pussy is.... your libido is a p**rn addiction. I know it's hard to accept and believe but Fred for example has been in relationships his whole life so isn't as effected by sex with a partner, p**rn, and masturbation.


ED medication such as cialis doesn't work for psychologically induced ED which is p**rn. Men who get actively laid then also watch p**rn aren't as effected as an incel who sits and masturbates to p**rn as their only form of release.

Even before I quit p**rn i had sporadic boners all day, constantly thinking about sex bla bla bla...:wave:

 

[swingline747]

Keep telling yourself that, whatever helps cope. The problem isn't masturbating itself, but the introduction of p**rn that over prolonged period, meaning years makes it a bad thing. If you've never been with a women you will be in for a huge wake up call when your dick doesn't respond.. ha ull see. Ive been there, and was like others p**rn addict with no relationship experience. The difference is I had hook ups, and kept wondering why the **** it wont get up, and respond. These women were attractive in my mind, but my dick wouldn't get aroused. Get's rock HARD when p**rn is introduced, but cant achieve a full erection with a real women. If I'm not mistaken u said that ur dick gets limp even from p**rn, hence the introduction of even sicker stuff such as femdom, and cuckold p**rn :laugh:


Exodus you've never been with a women your entire life. Ur brain is triggered by ur addiction and ur hand, it doesn't even know what a pussy is.... your libido is a p**rn addiction. I know it's hard to accept and believe but Fred for example has been in relationships his whole life so isn't as effected by sex with a partner, p**rn, and masturbation.


ED medication such as cialis doesn't work for psychologically induced ED which is p**rn. Men who get actively laid then also watch p**rn aren't as effected as an incel who sits and masturbates to p**rn as their only form of release.

Even before I quit p**rn i had sporadic boners all day, constantly thinking about sex bla bla bla...:wave:

do you take finasteride? There were a couple times this happened to me and finasteride was one of them.

Either way most of the time this schit is psycosematic and you just have to get to the root of the issue. Maybe being around actual women again is making you nervous. Not of the women but of the pressure in performing and thats causing the problem. I remember once with my ex our first time was drunk and AWFUL! I laughed that one off but the next time I couldnt get it up cause I was under a TON of stress. I never had this issue except one other time when I actually injured myself there and physically it hurt to perform. I thought that was the problem. After I overcame the stress I was back to being an addict.

I find p**rn doesnt affect my attraction and actually makes it better but I know some people become desensitized to regular sex because they fantasize to much about p**rn sex and those girls.

Im not you so I cant be 100% sure but I dont think its the p**rn. I think you are stressing about performance.
I would say before you go out, get one out. Youll be more relaxed and when the time comes not so sensitive to everything.
Are you nervous with new girls and first times?
Do you foreplay first or go right for the bomb? Hands and what not? teasing?
Do you actually find these girls attractive or just settling?

Honestly no good comes from holding out, if you feel you wanna watch some p**rn and plop one out on a dishrag then do it, I think you are stressing yourself and just spiraling deeper over the current issue. As soon as you break the cycle once youll be back to normal.

Also do you work out and/or run? Ive noticed since picking up running that I have some issues that go away when Im not running. This mainly started after I began REALLY working out my legs again. I think the muscle building in my thighs is actually adversely causing me some pain in the urinary area.
Might be things to consider as well.

 

[Exodus2011]

well my main point was just because you cant get a boner in real life doesnt mean the same will necessarily happen to me

i do agree that i've had to get into sicker **** to keep getting off but thats easy to fix. i just take a break for a few days. i've been bating to just normal pics of girls now. feelsgoodman

i mainly do the ****ed up stuff when i have no juices left lmao

and honestly i do agree on the p**rn addiction. but lets face it, its not that serious of an addiction so i don't really "count" it. i worked with my friend in florida for a while and went without p**rn for like a week. i didn't have cold chills and hallucinations or anything. if i keep busy then i feel fine

 

[swingline747]

well my main point was just because you cant get a boner in real life doesnt mean the same will necessarily happen to me

i do agree that i've had to get into sicker **** to keep getting off but thats easy to fix. i just take a break for a few days. i've been bating to just normal pics of girls now. feelsgoodman

i mainly do the ****ed up stuff when i have no juices left lmao

and honestly i do agree on the p**rn addiction. but lets face it, its not that serious of an addiction so i don't really "count" it. i worked with my friend in florida for a while and went without p**rn for like a week. i didn't have cold chills and hallucinations or anything. if i keep busy then i feel fine

Luckily as far as my issues are Im not into like sick stuff. Im not into fetish or dom or anything with like animals or coke bottles being shoved into places. Just good ol amurican p**rn

 

[Exodus2011]

lmfaoooo lucky dude

idk what it is but the ****ed up stuff really does make me feel better about baldness x.x

 

[CaptainForehead]

Just good ol amurican p**rn

Clubdom is american.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Exodus will probably blow his wad the first time he holds a chicks hand. On the other hand seasoned gentlemen like shookwun, swingline, myself, and others sometimes need to do a little extra to spice it up a bit. Sometimes the same old same old just doesn't cut it. A few years ago when I was still in the game I would always bring two things with me: 1) A back pack with a change of clothes and a toothbrush and 2) A brief case with toys, oils, plugs, lube, gag balls, etc. You would never try to work on your car without your tool box would you? When it comes to love making you shouldn't arrive without the proper tools to do that job either.