This Place Is Somewhat Good But It Has Had A Negative Impact On My Mindset

[Seeker988]

I never used to think of balding people as losers,subhuman or inferior in any way. Nowadays,even noticing slight baldness in someone makes me pity them or feel bad for them even though they're probably are having a better quality of life than me. All I can think of is what norwood is he,how much of his scalp is showing,how much hair strands do I shed while I shampoo etc. This forum has changed my entire perception towards life and I don't blame the forum entirely. It's my fault too as I get too much obsessed into things related to vanity.

 

[CopeForLife]

Impact section is nowehere close to what it was before though. More soft.

I think threads from 2016 are the best. We lost quite a few members like DBW, FredTheDutch.

 

[Seeker988]

Impact section is nowehere close to what it was before though. More soft.

I think threads from 2016 are the best. We lost quite a few members like DBW, FredTheDutch.

It's a good place to rant and let some angst off your chest, but imagine a young guy who has just started to bald. He has had a cheerful,joyous and a good life till now but what would happen of his mindset after reading terms like cope,incel,baldcel,genetic trash,subhuman etc? He will be totally devastated if he doesn't have enough gall or maturity to realise that this is just a place to rant. Impressionable young guys will be totally torn apart from the inside.

 

[inmyhead]

It's a good place to rant and let some angst off your chest, but imagine a young guy who has just started to bald. He has had a cheerful,joyous and a good life till now but what would happen of his mindset after reading terms like cope,incel,baldcel,genetic trash,subhuman etc? He will be totally devastated if he doesn't have enough gall or maturity to realise that this is just a place to rant. Impressionable young guys will be totally torn apart from the inside.

I see your point. But it is how it is. Some people also feel bad when they realise that they have no free will and it's just an illusion. Doesn't mean that it is not true.

 

[Seeker988]

I see your point. But it is how it is. Some people also feel bad when they realise that they have no free will and it's just an illusion. Doesn't mean that it is not true.

Best place for young guys with <2 norwood is the general hairloss discussion section. They shouldn't tread near the impact section. They should have a hard stomach to survive this place.

 

[CopeForLife]

Best place for young guys with <2 norwood is the general hairloss discussion section. They shouldn't tread near the impact section. They should have a hard stomach to survive this place.

that's why admin moved Impact to the bottom of the page

 

[Johnt1997]

I never used to think of balding people as losers,subhuman or inferior in any way. Nowadays,even noticing slight baldness in someone makes me pity them or feel bad for them even though they're probably are having a better quality of life than me. All I can think of is what norwood is he,how much of his scalp is showing,how much hair strands do I shed while I shampoo etc. This forum has changed my entire perception towards life and I don't blame the forum entirely. It's my fault too as I get too much obsessed into things related to vanity.

When choking on the redpill, a glass of water always helps

 

[Seeker988]

When choking on the redpill, a glass of water always helps

I will always throw away the red pill away if it helps me maintain my sanity and prevent me from going insane over thinking that everything negative happens to bald guys because they're bald.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Sucks when you take off the rose tinted glasses.

 

[Seeker988]

Sucks when you take off the rose tinted glasses.

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[JohnsonDDG]

I will always throw away the red pill away if it helps me maintain my sanity and prevent me from going insane over thinking that everything negative happens to bald guys because they're bald.

I've debated this myself - in the short term blue pilled life could be happier.

Long term the red pill is better if you choose to adapt.

The red pilller can go two ways:

1. retreat, hide, and essentially live in ghost mode.

2. fight; improve what you can and adjust to help cushion the blows.

 

[Seeker988]

I've debated this myself - in the short term blue pilled life could be happier.

Long term the red pill is better if you choose to adapt.

The red pilller can go two ways:

1. retreat, hide, and essentially live in ghost mode.

2. fight; improve what you can and adjust to help cushion the blows.

You can't live all your life being a recluse or in a NEET lifestyle. I had acne and I tried it for a year and it made a me a miserable person. I realised that I cannot live my life in this manner,being away from people and having no one to talk to. I'm a very introvert guy but still I couldn't take it. Online games,music,tv etc can only do so much to alleviate your miseries. We are social animals,most of us,and we can't live a good life without being with someone. No matter how bad we are,there's always someone who can resonate with us and make us feel good. I say throw away the red pill and live in ignorance. It's a bliss they said,very well they said.

 

[SteveTabernack]

It's a good place to rant and let some angst off your chest, but imagine a young guy who has just started to bald. He has had a cheerful,joyous and a good life till now but what would happen of his mindset after reading terms like cope,incel,baldcel,genetic trash,subhuman etc? He will be totally devastated if he doesn't have enough gall or maturity to realise that this is just a place to rant. Impressionable young guys will be totally torn apart from the inside.

But he will know the truth.

That is invaluable.

 

[ZZmop]

 

[Seeker988]

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He should just "shave it brah".

 

[Johnt1997]

I've debated this myself - in the short term blue pilled life could be happier.

Long term the red pill is better if you choose to adapt.

The red pilller can go two ways:

1. retreat, hide, and essentially live in ghost mode.

2. fight; improve what you can and adjust to help cushion the blows.

I was blue pilled to hairloss at 17-18: I was a future sly bald guy. People told me I could pull off bald cos I have a good headshape, masculine features(decent chin, prominent brow and thick eyebrows with good shape). In fact, I would occasionally wish to get to the stage where id have to shave so my hair would no longer annoy me

A girl I was speaking to brutally redpilled me though and I started treatment within a month after that. I now can't believe I was going to let myself go bald without a fight

I think people go too far with the redpill at times though. People are not going to think you're a subhuman freak if youre bald but it is true that It will affect your looks negatively

 

[Seeker988]

I was blue pilled to hairloss at 17-18: I was a future sly bald guy. People told me I could pull off bald cos I have a good headshape, masculine features(decent chin, prominent brow and thick eyebrows with good shape). In fact, I would occasionally wish to get to the stage where id have to shave so my hair would no longer annoy me

A girl I was speaking to brutally redpilled me though and I started treatment within a month after that. I now can't believe I was going to let myself go bald without a fight

I think people go too far with the redpill at times though. People are not going to think you're a subhuman freak if youre bald but it is true that It will affect your looks negatively

Elaborate that redpill incident

 

[JohnsonDDG]

You can't live all your life being a recluse or in a NEET lifestyle. I had acne and I tried it for a year and it made a me a miserable person. I realised that I cannot live my life in this manner,being away from people and having no one to talk to. I'm a very introvert guy but still I couldn't take it. Online games,music,tv etc can only do so much to alleviate your miseries. We are social animals,most of us,and we can't live a good life without being with someone. No matter how bad we are,there's always someone who can resonate with us and make us feel good. I say throw away the red pill and live in ignorance. It's a bliss they said,very well they said.

I think you can go ghost mode - it just takes practice.

Last year I did it for 4 months and I enjoyed it.

- I worked about ten hours a week writing online - earning the bare minimum to survive

- I went to the gym every day and had a few micro interactions

- I read every day

- played computer games and watched films

- talked to mates on facebook and people on here

- cooked a good meal each night.

- went for walks a 3 times a week (it was summer).

- I think I socialized about once every ten days with a friend (we'd go for a walk through a forest or around a castle or something and just have a good in depth conversation).

 

[razzmatazz91]

Sucks when you take off the rose tinted glasses.

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That right there is a perfect poster for what it feels like when you take the red pill

 

[Seeker988]

I think you can go ghost mode - it just takes practice.

Last year I did it for 4 months and I enjoyed it.

- I worked about ten hours a week writing online - earning the bare minimum to survive

- I went to the gym every day and had a few micro interactions

- I read every day

- played computer games and watched films

- talked to mates on facebook and people on here

- cooked a good meal each night.

- went for walks a 3 times a week (it was summer).

- I think I socialized about once every ten days with a friend (we'd go for a walk through a forest or around a castle or something and just have a good in depth conversation).

Did it for 4 months . That's what I'm saying. You can't do that for long mate. We really need people around us,we are social beings. You can't be a ghost forever.