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[DoctorHouse]

@hairblues


Would statham be slaying if he didn't have his status?

Lets put it this way, if he had your social anxiety and low self esteem, he would be in the same boat as you.

 

[CopeForLife]

Cope what was that libedo killer you were talking about? Also will this effect my intensity in the gym and with my mma training?

finasteride also will help your hair

 

[JohnsonDDG]

and nothing was wrong with majority of your matches

they are not instagram models but who cares?

Agreed. I also think you were looks matched for all of them accept the Italian looking woman.

Go for it and enjoy yourself.

 

[Baldhurts]

in college i was friend with strippers from Scores (used to be famous don't k now if it exists anymore) one of them was a feature dancer who traveled all over the country because in addition to being stunning she could actually dance do flips etc.

IF you saw these girls in their off hours--they looked like slobs. they were NOT sexy if you just saw them grocery shopping or like the one i went to school with she used to come to school in her Pajama bottoms and a huge sweatshirt no makeup and hair piled on top of her head like she did not even comb it.

but when going out? they were stunning.

so i think sometimes if you see a woman with a man and she is looking sloppy dumpy no make up no hair etc she can look 'ugly' but not actually 'be' ugly.

next time you see young people you think the guy is better looking i would love to know if the woman looked sloppy in her dressing hair and makeup.

I only consider a woman ugly if she's fat. That is why I will not under any circumstances date a woman who isn't on top of her diet and fitness. I put in hard f*****g work to stay at 10% bf year round.. so if someone down the line eventually did want to date me she better be working hard also.

Ps: women who have medical issues and can't get lean this doesn't include them.

 

[hairblues]

@hairblues


Would statham be slaying if he didn't have his status?

slaying young 20 year olds? no

I think you guys over estimate the power of an older man with young women when he's working class dude or broke or money is not involved.

MOST young women who are attracted to older men is because they are not 'struggling' which means they have money.

its not that at 20 you are looking at 50 year old men and thinking 'oh wow he's hot'

i think this is a myth

women are attracted to the lifestyle they believe an older man who is comfortable can give them

are some into older men like a 'fetish'? yes but not many

this is usually because they enjoy feeling like a 'baby' girl that the guy is so into their youth it feeds their attractiveness

because when you are a hot 20 year old a hot 20 year old guy is not going to make as big a deal over you as a 40 year old..so they feed off that energy.

 

[Baldhurts]

Agreed. I also think you were looks matched for all of them accept the Italian looking woman.

Go for it and enjoy yourself.

I had a date lined up last night but by the time she texted me to go out it was already 8pm, I didn't have time to get ready.

I deleted my bumble tho, I still don't think it's as popular as tinder, I remember I could swipe for weeks and there would be endless people on there, bumble doesn't have the same user base I don't think. Most of my matches expired without them messaging me.

 

[CopeForLife]

The older girl in this video is 26! Also it is obvious everyone put a pic in which they look very good, does not mean they are that good in real life.

I told in post that photo/angle/makeup fraud discussion aside.

 

[Baldhurts]

I told in post that photo/angle/makeup fraud discussion aside.

1 month ago I went out on a date. A coffee date at a Starbucks. The whole thing was weird. She was 30 years old. It only lasted about 45 mins. I think she was overall dissapointed with what I looked like in person compared to pics. She said we had no chemistry... just lol. That's code for no I am not attracted to you and will not proceed with a second date.

She was still in party mode though and travelling. I'm a homebody gymcel.

 

[hairblues]

I only consider a woman ugly if she's fat. That is why I will not under any circumstances date a woman who isn't on top of her diet and fitness. I put in hard f*****g work to stay at 10% bf year round.. so if someone down the line eventually did want to date me she better be working hard also.

Ps: women who have medical issues and can't get lean this doesn't include them.

i will say if you are seeing ga lot of pretty faced girls with hot men it probably they had a baby or have kids.

women just don't look great for a few years when raising kids..

 

[Baldhurts]

Why not just get a sociable job? You'll be cured in a week.

I'm in the middle of it. I got laid off from oil and gas. My dream as a kid was always to be a police officer, my dads best childhood friend is a detective in the city I currently live in and we are working on everything and preparation for when I apply in the spring.

 

[CopeForLife]

I'm in the middle of it. I got laid off from oil and gas. My dream as a kid was always to be a police officer, my dads best childhood friend is a detective in the city I currently live in and we are working on everything and preparation for when I apply in the spring.

wow that's interedasting

keep us informed

 

[JohnsonDDG]

1 month ago I went out on a date. A coffee date at a Starbucks. The whole thing was weird. She was 30 years old. It only lasted about 45 mins. I think she was overall dissapointed with what I looked like in person compared to pics. She said we had no chemistry... just lol. That's code for no I am not attracted to you and will not proceed with a second date.

She was still in party mode though and travelling. I'm a homebody gymcel.

Well it might not be about looks as much as you think. Sometimes you meet people and the conversation is boring or stiff - if there is no natural flow then you are pretty much doomed.

 

[Baldhurts]

Well it might not be about looks as much as you think. Sometimes you meet people and the conversation is boring or stiff - if there is no natural flow then you are pretty much doomed.

Yeah man I agree. Reading this forum and past experiences have really been an eye opener for me. Iv decided that I'm just done with online dating iv closed the book on it. I can't let this decide my happiness. I'm focusing on applying with the police and getting even more shredded and just keeping my head high for myself. If I do not meet a woman or have a relationship I'm done being upset by it.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Yeah man I agree. Reading this forum and past experiences have really been an eye opener for me. Iv decided that I'm just done with online dating iv closed the book on it. I can't let this decide my happiness. I'm focusing on applying with the police and getting even more shredded and just keeping my head high for myself. If I do not meet a woman or have a relationship I'm done being upset by it.

May I ask when your anti-social tendencies began? Have you always been introverted? Was you ok at school?

 

[DoctorHouse]

Yes, I see wht you mean, and 20/50 is a bit too much of a difference. When I was 20 I was not looking for a 50 yo man, true. Though a 35, why not.

I coold be okay with a 20 years age difference I think. I don't care about the job, but the personnality matters a lot to me (not always linked with the professional situation).

Pas, you mean I might have chance with you now. Bucky is in for one hella of fight now.

 

[CopeForLife]

Yeah man I agree. Reading this forum and past experiences have really been an eye opener for me. Iv decided that I'm just done with online dating iv closed the book on it. I can't let this decide my happiness. I'm focusing on applying with the police and getting even more shredded and just keeping my head high for myself. If I do not meet a woman or have a relationship I'm done being upset by it.

Lol I made same decision recently. Feels much more better.

 

[Baldhurts]

May I ask when your anti-social tendencies began? Have you always been introverted? Was you ok at school?

Just my childhood was robbed from me. My dad was extremely hard on me. When I was 6 or 7 my mom and dad split up and my dad paid my mom to move away from Canada with me and my little brother so we ended up going back to Scotland with her for a year (she born and raised there)

We moved back home and my parents tried to make it work. It didn't work, they always fought. I continued playing hockey, my dad was also a hockey player chad who was amazing and could of went pro (my family said he was so f*****g good but he got involved in partying and women) so I think he was so hard on me in hockey because he wanted me to go as far as I could in it. Just nothing I did was good enough.

I was a big goal scorer, no matter how much I scored he still told me it was crap.

High school was tough for me, I was ugly and a framecel so I got bullied.

 

[Baldhurts]

Lol I made same decision recently. Feels much more better.

Feelsgoodmane

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Just my childhood was robbed from me. My dad was extremely hard on me. When I was 6 or 7 my mom and dad split up and my dad paid my mom to move away from Canada with me and my little brother so we ended up going back to Scotland with her for a year (she born and raised there)

We moved back home and my parents tried to make it work. It didn't work, they always fought. I continued playing hockey, my dad was also a hockey player chad who was amazing and could of went pro (my family said he was so f*****g good but he got involved in partying and women) so I think he was so hard on me in hockey because he wanted me to go as far as I could in it. Just nothing I did was good enough.

I was a big goal scorer, no matter how much I scored he still told me it was crap.

High school was tough for me, I was ugly and a framecel so I got bullied.

Sounds rough, mate. An unhappy childhood can make it very easy to go within yourself.

How do you mean framecell? You have I good body that is very receptive to training.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Just my childhood was robbed from me. My dad was extremely hard on me. When I was 6 or 7 my mom and dad split up and my dad paid my mom to move away from Canada with me and my little brother so we ended up going back to Scotland with her for a year (she born and raised there)

We moved back home and my parents tried to make it work. It didn't work, they always fought. I continued playing hockey, my dad was also a hockey player chad who was amazing and could of went pro (my family said he was so f*****g good but he got involved in partying and women) so I think he was so hard on me in hockey because he wanted me to go as far as I could in it. Just nothing I did was good enough.

I was a big goal scorer, no matter how much I scored he still told me it was crap.

High school was tough for me, I was ugly and a framecel so I got bullied.

Yet look at you now. That is all in the past. You have evolved. Don't let that "inner child" control your life. I do it all the time and my life sucks.