Tired Of Baldness. Tired Of Ugliness. Tired.

[Afro_Vacancy]

Not only my DHT sensitive hair fall out...

I have a bunch of GREY hair on my sides. In my early 20-s. (I thought it is just light)

Life is a scam.

f*****g grey hair in my DONOR area

MAGIC

Isn't there an effective cure for grey hair called dyeing it?

 

[I.D WALKER]

Hot is like a mens health model. I'm just decent looking.

I really like this video on whether looks matter - I think it also helps that one of the guys is ginger NW4 and the other is fat:

While you're chillin in Williamsberg, Luxembourg, or St. Petersburg,
I'll be cookin my *** off til hell freezes over here in HairLossTalk.com purg.

 

[tellersquill]

I thank you for the compliments as they are always nice to hear.

Back on topic, I just want these guys to know their lives are not over and that they must not write themselves off. I have friends who are not attractive and they have partner who are attractive (the bastards!).

What most of us need to do is make best of a bad situation. And I know some people are in a worse situation then others but that is no reason to give up. Sure, you may have less hair then you like but you can still improve yourself. Whether that is with taking hair medication or a hair transplant, or whether that is the gym, teeth whitening, better clothes. Or even focusing other very important things such as: career, skills, confidence, learn a language, help other people, or whatever it is that makes you move forwards.

The reason I post all this, the reason I am making an effort is because some people are very young on here and they are very depressed. This break my heart. If there is anyway I can help them then I am more than willing to do so. They have their whole lives ahead of them -- more than fifty years in some cases! - and I'd love to know that they are a happy fifty years and not a miserable fifty years.

 

[hellouser]

THAT's a trophy wife?
She has a trashy hoe type vibe about her.

One man's trash is another man's gold. However, go to a club or bar and that's the type chick that will have the most men around buying drinks for her.

Doesn't matter, even if I had all the hair I'd want, I still wouldn't give her the time of day. I've blown off hot women before, I don't care for looks alone.

 

[tellersquill]

To Whatever,

Yep, I shaved it with a razor and didn't like the feel of it to the touch. When I did a zero guard on my electric razor it had a touch of stubble and I much preferred it. Overall, I am glad I did it because I know that I don't look stupid bald and if it did all fall out one day then my life would go on. Right now I'm halfway through growing it back because I do prefer having hair.

 

[hairblues]

One man's trash is another man's gold. However, go to a club or bar and that's the type chick that will have the most men around buying drinks for her.

Doesn't matter, even if I had all the hair I'd want, I still wouldn't give her the time of day. I've blown off hot women before, I don't care for looks alone.

I agree she's not my idea of hot woman. Im straight woman but still can appreciate beautiful women i dont knock her 'looks' as in her features but her style is cheap to me.

 

[hairblues]

To Whatever,

Yep, I shaved it with a razor and didn't like the feel of it to the touch. When I did a zero guard on my electric razor it had a touch of stubble and I much preferred it. Overall, I am glad I did it because I know that I don't look stupid bald and if it did all fall out one day then my life would go on. Right now I'm halfway through growing it back because I do prefer having hair.

You jus said it!

"you dont look stupid bald."
as in you were afraid how you would look bald.

well what if you did look 'stupid' bald?

 

[EvilLocks]

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With hair and without hair.

If that's you, you do pull of the "bald" look (except you're not bald, as you still have a visible hairline). You pull of the shaved look. You have a good head shape and features that compliment the "bald" look. Are you tall? If so, consider yourself lucky (or as lucky as a balding guy can get).

 

[tellersquill]

I'm around average at 5'11 (depends on what country you are in!).

If I looked awful bald then I would either get a hair transplant or work really hard on other features - like keep improving the body - so that I would have something else that would be sexy in me beyond having good hair. That's all you can do really - either get sad or work hard to get around what you are given. I know which one I prefer.

 

[EvilLocks]

She looks like a narcissist:

https://www.instagram.com/ingriddelao/

I think she's quite pretty, she does have that "bitchy gold digger" look to her though, but then again one shouldn't judge a book by it's cover.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I'm around average at 5'11 (depends on what country you are in!).

If I looked awful bald then I would either get a hair transplant or work really hard on other features - like keep improving the body - so that I would have something else that would be sexy in me beyond having good hair. That's all you can do really - either get sad or work hard to get around what you are given. I know which one I prefer.

Right but you have those options.

Bodybuilding can work optimally for you as you have decent bone structure. The bald picture shows off your strong hands and long fingers.

Some people here cannot get hair transplants, as they are poor or have DUPA.

 

[hellouser]

I think she's quite pretty, she does have that "bitchy gold digger" look to her though, but then again one shouldn't judge a book by it's cover.

Her instagram profile is very telling though. You can pretty much bet your house on her living up to the stereotype. All her pics just scream 'self absorbed'. It's a turn off.

She is attractive, I'll agree on that.

 

[EvilLocks]

However, go to a club or bar and that's the type chick that will have the most men around buying drinks for her.

So true. It seems like most men (at least in clubs and bars) gravitate towards the fake-tanned, bleach blonde, heavy makeup, short dress-girl with her silicone tits on display. Not my style.

 

[hairblues]

Her instagram profile is very telling though. You can pretty much bet your house on her living up to the stereotype. All her pics just scream 'self absorbed'. It's a turn off.

She is attractive, I'll agree on that.

well its a good match for them probably.

I do think some men value whatever they consider to be ideal hot (p**rn star vs couture model type)
and some women value money over other criteria with men..

so its a good match when these people find one another because they would make other people miserable.

If a gold digger type woman married a man who could not deliver than she would make his life hell
and if an unattractive man who wanted a trophy to live up to expectations he would make his ordinary wife miserable.

 

[hellouser]

So true. It seems like most men (at least in clubs and bars) gravitate towards the fake-tanned, bleach blonde, heavy makeup, short dress-girl with her silicone tits on display. Not my style.

I was gonna say that generally, physical beauty is universally recognized / admired. But I don't understand why guys go for the look you describe.. all the fakery, and it's desirable? Why? It's all a lie...

 

[hairblues]

So true. It seems like most men (at least in clubs and bars) gravitate towards the fake-tanned, bleach blonde, heavy makeup, short dress-girl with her silicone tits on display. Not my style.

most men in clubs looking to have sex so these girls look more likely they would have sex--weather they would or not...but same men usually when looking for a relationship dont go to clubs they wind up girls in school with them or through work etc. And usually dont want wife to look like this.

I'm being very generalized in saying this of course.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I'm defnitely turned on by great breasts.

Could be fake or real, but I'll point out:

Big breasts don't count if they're on a fat girl.

 

[hairblues]

I was gonna say that generally, physical beauty is universally recognized / admired. But I don't understand why guys go for the look you describe.. all the fakery, and it's desirable? Why? It's all a lie...

because it looks easy and it looks also a lot like women in porns. Some men love the p**rn-girl look.

 

[hellouser]

most men in clubs looking to have sex so these girls look more likely they would have sex--weather they would or not...but same men usually when looking for a relationship dont go to clubs they wind up girls in school with them or through work etc. And usually dont want wife to look like this.

I'm being very generalized in saying this of course.

What contributed to this mentality? It applies to women as well looking for their trophy husbands; downtown Toronto financial district is notorious for this, where girls are chasing good looking guys that are bankers. I have some girl friends that are EXACTLY like that.

 

[resu]

I agree she's not my idea of hot woman. Im straight woman but still can appreciate beautiful women i dont knock her 'looks' as in her features but her style is cheap to me.

She's an average good looking woman, she wouldn't embarace any guy looks wise and yeah she can be a trophy wife given his appearance.