yep. the "averaged white girl next door" is super popular it seems, i love it and it shows everywhere in p**rn lol. studies have shown faces that are close to the average are considered hot so it makes sense
I love it when you use this kind of language, ID.While you're chillin in Williamsberg, Luxembourg, or St. Petersburg,
I'll be cookin my *** off til hell freezes over here in HairLossTalk.com purg.
Men and women have different ideas as to what constitutes beauty in women, which I think explains the confusion of @hairblues and @EvilLocks .
See this famous pic:
Men and women have different ideas as to what constitutes beauty in women, which I think explains the confusion of @hairblues and @EvilLocks .
See this famous pic:
Your post comes off as a little rude, but I'll respond calmly and matter-of-factly.
1) I don't have a high aesthetic standard. You're basing that off the pictures I posted but those were specifically selected to be "hottest women celebrities", hottest. Not Julia Roberts or Jennifer Aniston or Amy Schumer or Meryl Streep. Certainly not Sarah Jessica Parker. If you think those represent a "high standard", then you're actually agreeing with me that they're the hottest.
My standard is modest. I have asked out a lot of average-ish women. As another poster said, it's like drawing blood from a stone. They'd rather have a man who is 6'4, of northern european extraction, and well-built.
2) I don't "focus on the body", I'm a heterosexual man so both the body and face matter. All the women I linked to have great faces as well. Look at Alexandra Daddario's eyes, lips, skin, and hair. They're hypnotic. They contribute to her being famous:
If you don't find her sexy then you have a minority opinion, equivalent to saying you don't like chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream. She was in one of the world's most respected sex scenes, which won awards, and is one of the most downloaded women.
3) I'm hard on myself because women are hard on me. Every woman I've ever asked out in real life (save one) has turned me down. They were not all gorgeous. Several were average relative to their age group. When I go on tinder, etc even if I lower my standards to zero (by that I literally mean zero) I get a less than 1% response rate. This is well-documented widely, unless a man is in the top-20% he will struggle to get and to keep even average women.
I'm working on getting toward ~10% body fat, and will be getting multiple surgeries soon, because I probably have no other good choice. My other (non-good) choices are to be single forever, or to get with a woman who is obese/crazy/older who won't even love me but will see me as a cuckold and wallet. No thank you.
If I had never had much trouble with women before I might not be on a hair loss forum, nor would I be on minoxidil and an experimental drug from China. I would just shave it off. However I see the barren abyss of my life with women even with hair, and I don't want to live a world where I lack hair and it's even harder.
