Tired Of Baldness. Tired Of Ugliness. Tired.

[Afro_Vacancy]

Thanks guys.

I think I'm going to take a bit of time off from posting here.

Interesting, you are a lot better looking than I imagined, based on the way you portray yourself. A little more stubble, a few more lbs lost and some thick framed malcom X glasses and you be slaying boy. Guaranteed.

What is rainforest station? That is a real koala, no? Carry that little guy around with you and women will just drop their panties.

It was near the town of Kuranda, which is near Cairns, in New South Wales. Daintree is the world's oldest rainforest.

Stranger Things was fantastic. I really don't know anyone, any age range who has not enjoyed it.

I think that Devin Faraci didn't like it.

@David_MPN, looks like you're pretty close to being at a healthy weight, good sh*t

Honestly dude, lose those few extra pounds, tone up, bring the hairline down a bit, I think you could do alright with at least average to slightly above average women. You're situation is far from a lost cause

I've been hearing pep talks for decades.

David-MPN, Are you at all open to experimenting with a beard?
How is your beard density quality?
This may not interest you, if you are 'overly-conscientious' of beard shading variances?

BTW your complexion in the picture looks very good
and you have very nice expressive eyes.
No wonder Kuddles took a shine to you.

LOL.

I have decent facial hair. I should be more consistent about stubble. No to beards though.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Her face was very pretty but average pretty not striking. She oozed innocent to me every young--this is turn on for some more than actually beauty.

Very pretty
Oozing innocence
Young

...siren call to sperm.

 

[Dench57]

Woooo I meet a gold standard of something!

Sad but true (6'1" checking in). 6'2" is gold standard.

6'2" master race checking in

 

[EvilLocks]

Very pretty
Oozing innocence
Young

...siren call to sperm.

She's oozing something, but it sure ain't innocence ;D

 

[Dench57]

Dani Daniels is very "fuckable" as someone else in this thread put it. She has quite feline facial features and looks mischievous. Amazing curves too. Some girls just turn men on without being conventionally beautiful. I'm sure it is the case for women too. While I find Cheryl Cole and Eva Longoria attractive, and by any objective standard they are 9s/10s, they don't turn me on in the slightest.

 

[That Guy]

6'2" master race checking in

"Dench, you son of a b**ch!"

Dani Daniels is very "fuckable"

Agreed. Dani Daniels is hot.

 

[Dench57]

She's oozing something, but it sure ain't innocence ;D

Delicious creampies?

 

[EvilLocks]

Delicious creampies?

Yeah, something like that

 

[Roberto_72]

The really tiresome aspect of hair loss, to me, is the fact that, EVEN when you can hide it, it dictates your style. Hair is a wonderful way to express one's personality to both the people you know and to strangers.
When your hair is thinning, 99% of styles are forbidden and it's a friggin shame.

 

[EvilLocks]

The really tiresome aspect of hair loss, to me, is the fact that, EVEN when you can hide it, it dictates your style. Hair is a wonderful way to express one's personality to both the people you know and to strangers.
When your hair is thinning, 99% of styles are forbidden and it's a friggin shame.

So true. I know men and women's hair styles are different (usually), but I can't express how much I miss doing all kinds of cute hair styles; braids, curls, straight, up, down, parted in the middle, parted to the side, wavy, long, medium length, ponytails... The list just goes on. Of course now that I have extensions I can do a few more styles, but it's still limited as you can't put too much pressure on the extensions if that makes sense, that'll ruin them. Besides, I miss doing all those things to MY hair. I miss having the options, I miss going to the hairdresser and feeling fab when I walk out the door... I miss it all! Without my extensions I'm basically limited to one style: up in a bun. A miserable, Toppik-covered bun. Not to mention how much I miss the length and feel of my own hair. Extensions are alright but they're just not the same as real hair.

 

[Roberto_72]

I kept my hair long because I was complimented for it. The only positive aesthetic aspect I possessed. I suffered a lot because of my ugliness but I was proud about my hair, it was a key feature of my identity. When I started to lose my hair at age 19 I realized I was genetic trash and that my life was indeed going to be even more miserable, forever.

Not to mention that everybody likes a man with long hair because he can convey a flavor of anti-conformism, self-awareness, even a modicum of enviable rebellious character. I feel for you.

So true. I know men and women's hair styles are different (usually), but I can't express how much I miss doing all kinds of cute hair styles; braids, curls, straight, up, down, parted in the middle, parted to the side, wavy, long, medium length, ponytails... The list just goes on. Of course now that I have extensions I can do a few more styles, but it's still limited as you can't put too much pressure on the extensions if that makes sense, that'll ruin them. Besides, I miss doing all those things to MY hair. I miss having the options, I miss going to the hairdresser and feeling fab when I walk out the door... I miss it all! Without my extensions I'm basically limited to one style: up in a bun. A miserable, Toppik-covered bun. Not to mention how much I miss the length and feel of my own hair. Extensions are alright but they're just not the same as real hair.

See? Of hundreds of options, you are left with the one that hides the thinning the better.

And when you try something different, you feel like people are going to laugh at you for being a balding daredevil!

 

[swingline747]

I could never do a style. My hair was always to wavy and curly so I cant say I miss that. I had great hair though. girls loved my curls. When I grew it long, down past my back in highschool, I had those proverbial Sampson locks that waved down into long shierly temple'ish curls. Looking back at pics, it really wasnt a good style lol but girls loved messing with it. Black girls in my classes loved braiding it and stuff, and I just liked the attention from them. At the end of High school I started shaving the sides but then after that I would cut it almost to a curly, wavy fro and honestly that was my favorite.
The main thing I hate is that without the hair, as Ive said before, my awkward features that were once characteristic are now just..... well awkward. My nose looks enormous, my eyes show the droopy lazy left one a bit more and things like their sunken baggy appearance just come off making me look sickly. I dont even like smiling because where I used to look nice, now it just make my features look exaggerated. Photos are the worst and my forehead is like a billboard. I wonder if I rented it out to adverts if I could make enough money to quit my job and get a REALLY good hair transplant?

 

[DBW]

Overrated.

One of my fleet managers confirms this. He's 5'5, ripped-muscular, handsome face a full head of hair. Picks up girls all the time
. He's 39 and just before we got back on rotation he ended up one night standing a pretty 23 year old


Its all face bro.

Yeah, this has been my experience too and it's vindicating to know that people like yourself have observed similar. The only guy I know whose height has had a genuinely negative influence on his ability to attract women is about 5ft 2, apparently the result of a medical condition. Height obviously matters somewhat, but as you note, it's overrated in the extreme. Probably the three biggest slayers I know are all only around 5ft 8/9, but they keep themselves in great shape (scratch that, one of them's a little overweight) and have faces straight out of an Abercrombie ad. I'm not sure it would really be ethical of me to link any actual pictures, but I've found some (unsurprisingly) male models who look virtually identical to them. http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZwlEa5x_L...ch-abercrombie-Instagram-September-8-2014.jpg < I'd say the real life equivalent of this guy that I know is actually better looking! http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2518/3706056464_78dbd52387.jpg and http://s1.favim.com/orig/3/abercrombie-drew-van-acker-hot-model-Favim.com-155188.jpg. Interestingly, they all share a very particular look; white, toned but not overly muscular bodies, and a good-looking face in the classical sense - chiseled jawline, tussled hair etc. I'm not sure whether women's preference for this particular caste of man is innate or acquired. These guys certainly conform to a very western stereotype of male beauty, but I think this perhaps more the result of what human's find naturally attractive rather than something created by the media. Is this preference for 'male models' stoked by fashion trends, billboard campaigns and general exposure? Most definitely. But it'd take a lot to convince me there isn't some natural set of beauty standards that kicked it all off in the first place.

 

[EvilLocks]

Photos are the worst and my forehead is like a billboard. I wonder if I rented it out to adverts if I could make enough money to quit my job and get a REALLY good hair transplant?

OMG :')

 

[hairblues]

Dani Daniels is very "fuckable" as someone else in this thread put it. She has quite feline facial features and looks mischievous. Amazing curves too. Some girls just turn men on without being conventionally beautiful. I'm sure it is the case for women too. While I find Cheryl Cole and Eva Longoria attractive, and by any objective standard they are 9s/10s, they don't turn me on in the slightest.

agree...-Dani just does not do it for 'me'.
sex appeal is individual...To me right now sexiest is probably Marion Coltiaard.
I like women who are sexy in an elegant way and ooze sensuality not so much overt sexuality (like evil locks posted girl).
When i look at 'Dani' I dont see a woman who is going to touch 'me' the way i would want to be touched.....
its different perspective probably for men because you have penis lol different kind of sexual drive.
Eva Longoria does nothing for me. No offense to her she is very pretty.

Everyone has own taste go for what they like.

I will always chose sexy man over handsome.

Very handsome men who are lame/dull do nothing for me.



Marion..sorry sexier to me then Dani

 

[Exodus2011]

Very pretty
Oozing innocence
Young

...siren call to sperm.

exactly. looks super sweet and innocent and cutesy

call to worship i mean sperm like u said

 

[CaptainForehead]

 

[CaptainForehead]

exactly. looks super sweet and innocent and cutesy

call to worship i mean sperm like u said

Right there with you buddy

 

[Dante92]

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[CaptainForehead]

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