shookwun
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What's wrong with Duran Duran now? They have pretty cool pop songs.
Your arrogance is showing again. Yeah some people don't have any passions, or have ones that are boring as sin.
I'm not judging them, as long as I can have a pleasant conversation with them.
As I've said before, me and my best friends have little in common. But our friendship just "works" based on our sense of humor. We basically just like hanging out with each other, talking about the most random things. Not about our passions and interests, who gives a sh*t.
One thing one of my friends loves to do is quoting the same TV commercials over and over again. Yeah his passions and interests pretty much boil down to watching cable TV. In the end, it doesn't matter, I really like this guy and I've spent some of the most amazing moments of my life with him.
Again, I don't believe all this matters much when it comes to creating a bond with people. People think I'm batshit crazy when I say this, but I believe friendship is also based on your genetics.
There's something about some people, you can't explain it, why do these people become your best friends? Why not the countless other persons you've interacted with in your life.
I've met people who shared a lot my interest, like cinema, music, video games, yet for some reason, I've never developed a friendship with those people. Not as strong as the ones I have with my closest friends.
Dating websites also believed that they could match people based on their common interests and passions. LOL, that nonsense never worked, it always was about the pictures.
Common interests are overrated in my opinion. I believe it's way more enriching to hang out with people who don't like the same things as you.
Stop judging people because you think that what they like is lame.
I can entice many womens interests initially, and am good at articulating my thoughts around theres. But I have no life..... Women get bored, some tolerate me better then others. It doesn't help that my a.d.d makes it difficult as I struggle with inter personal relationships.
When I was dating.. I kept it simple by just bringing them back to my house.
I had this one chick who every days off of my rotation I would call her to come over. We had this arrangement going on for around 4-5 months.
Women want to be around spontaneous guys who take them out, and well.. have a life.
Guess what, almost everyone left me. it wasn't my looks, because this was established through sex, make outs and the compliments.