UCmans story

[sylent]

I've read a lot of your posts, and whether I agree with you or not, you are probably the most interesting poster on this forum. This topic isnt to criticize your views on baldness at all, I just want to know your full story. When you went bald, baldness in the family, how old you were, how it has affected you, some pics would also be cool. This is not a demand obviously, but I havent found any topics explaining your story, and I'm sure I'm not the only one thats really curious.

 

[uncomfortable man]

I probably started around 21 or 22 but didn't really notice the diffuse thinning until late 23. By 25 I was nw5 with maybe a little more fuzz than right now. A good friend of mine's mom worked at a hair transplant place (HairLossTalk.com) and he took me to an open house. One of the guest clients (previous patients who are there to give testimonials and answer questions) had such a weak density and still very visable horshoe pattern so I wasn't sold on the deal. The doctor there gave me a test trial of propecia but then after that I would have had to pay him for a perscription which you needed at the time. I didn't have a job or any disposable income to dive into a regimen. Plus I was pretty ignorant about treatments... mind you the HairLossTalk.com was not around yet (I think). Strangely enough, going bald didn't bother me until it got past a certain point. If I were as nit picky as many on this site are then maybe I would not be here now. But I can't think about that.

 

[LooseItAll]

Strangely enough, going bald didn't bother me until it got past a certain point. If I were as nit picky as many on this site are then maybe I would not be here now. But I can't think about that.

Maybe because you wre diffusing instead of receding...

 

[Ori83]

I used to think UM has only problem with females in the "frame" of hairloss, but he struggles with society as whole, that i dont really get;
for instance, if a guy would make a comment about my hair, or look at it instead of my eyes, i would think he is being rude and a moron, but i wouldnt care more than that, with a female i see it as a personal thing as she overrules me on the spot as a potential mate, so here lays the intrest for having hair, mainly girls (like 70-80%)
but UM has a gf and a daughter, he really shouldn't give a f*** honestly :dunno:

 

[gascoigne]

I used to think UM has only problem with females in the "frame" of hairloss, but he struggles with society as whole, that i dont really get;
for instance, if a guy would make a comment about my hair, or look at it instead of my eyes, i would think he is being rude and a moron, but i wouldnt care more than that, with a female i see it as a personal thing as she overrules me on the spot as a potential mate, so here lays the intrest for having hair, mainly girls (like 70-80%)
but UM has a gf and a daughter, he really shouldn't give a f*ck honestly :dunno:

What a perfect post. UCman is just idiot, there is nothing more to conclude about it.

 

[Ori83]

UCman is just idiot

hey, i wasnt implying that at all, i have nothing but respect for the guy, i just dont fully understand his drastic view on the subject particularly under his circumstances. (good looking guy who already has a gf and a healthy family life)

 

[Ori83]

gascoigne, i read some of your posts too, and i give you benefit of the doubt for not being a troll, your a good looking guy who has nothing to be on an hair loss forum, your wasting time that could be invested in things like harvesting pussy or getting a collage degree... or even watching tv, anything is better than being on a hair loss forum when you have a full mop up there buddy!

 

[gascoigne]

UCman is just idiot

hey, i wasnt implying that at all, i have nothing but respect for the guy, i just dont fully understand his drastic view on the subject particularly under his circumstances. (good looking guy who already has a gf and a healthy family life)

Ori, you are not a stupid man. When UCman chooses his "extremely blunt" approach to everyone, how does i cant have right to adopt same approach.
Your comment and explanation on my shor post "idiot" is notinhg else then my word sreched in 20 other words and made to look softer and nicer. Be brave my friend.

 

[gascoigne]

gascoigne, i read some of your posts too, and i give you benefit of the doubt for not being a troll, your a good looking guy who has nothing to be on an hair loss forum, your wasting time that could be invested in things like harvesting pussy or getting a collage degree... or even watching tv, anything is better than being on a hair loss forum when you have a full mop up there buddy!

Thank you for your comment abou "good looking guy". I had problem with that confession here. Thank you for your advice also, but, no matter how my hair thick and dense is, i am 22 and surely started to loosing it ( i posted my pics on few topics). By the time i am 26-28, i will lose majority of front hair, so i cant se how can i be relaxed and go out looking for girls.

 

[CaptainForehead]

but UM has a gf and a daughter, he really shouldn't give a f*ck honestly :dunno:

I've wondered about this too.

Two things which came to my mind were:
1. He would like to sleep around, or ditch his GF for another one; and he kinda feels trapped with the GF.
2. He feels maybe his GF has not ditched him because of the kid or something, the relationship would be more valuable if both were real pretty?


Maybe we should ask him to post pics of the GF :mrgreen:

I'm kinda like you, hair for me is 100% women related.

 

[barcafan]

I used to think UM has only problem with females in the "frame" of hairloss, but he struggles with society as whole, that i dont really get;
for instance, if a guy would make a comment about my hair, or look at it instead of my eyes, i would think he is being rude and a moron, but i wouldnt care more than that, with a female i see it as a personal thing as she overrules me on the spot as a potential mate, so here lays the intrest for having hair, mainly girls (like 70-80%)
but UM has a gf and a daughter, he really shouldn't give a f*ck honestly :dunno:

Maybe people are different?



holy sh*t, did i just blow your mind?

 

[uncomfortable man]

UCman is just idiot

hey, i wasnt implying that at all, i have nothing but respect for the guy, i just dont fully understand his drastic view on the subject particularly under his circumstances. (good looking guy who already has a gf and a healthy family life)

Ori, you are not a stupid man. When UCman chooses his "extremely blunt" approach to everyone, how does i cant have right to adopt same approach.
Your comment and explanation on my shor post "idiot" is notinhg else then my word sreched in 20 other words and made to look softer and nicer. Be brave my friend.

So Ori should be brave but my "extremely blunt approach" is discouraged?

 

[gascoigne]

UCman is just idiot

hey, i wasnt implying that at all, i have nothing but respect for the guy, i just dont fully understand his drastic view on the subject particularly under his circumstances. (good looking guy who already has a gf and a healthy family life)

Ori, you are not a stupid man. When UCman chooses his "extremely blunt" approach to everyone, how does i cant have right to adopt same approach.
Your comment and explanation on my shor post "idiot" is notinhg else then my word sreched in 20 other words and made to look softer and nicer. Be brave my friend.

So Ori should be brave but my "extremely blunt approach" is discouraged?[/quote]

You did not understand my comment well.
I said that you , with your "extremely blunt approach", is giving another men space to be blunt also, and then there is no need for Ori (or others) to give their opinons in weaker and softer form so you wont be offended.

 

[s.a.f]

UCman is just idiot

hey, i wasnt implying that at all, i have nothing but respect for the guy, i just dont fully understand his drastic view on the subject particularly under his circumstances. (good looking guy who already has a gf and a healthy family life)

So just because UCman has a G/F and daughter that should cancel out all the other things in life that are effected by his baldness?

Cant you understand that he wants to feel accepted by society in general not just at home?
By that logic none of us should have the right to feel bad about it as long as we have families that are accepting of it.

Ps Gascoigne = Annoying twat. :thumbdown2:

 

[gascoigne]

UCman is just idiot

hey, i wasnt implying that at all, i have nothing but respect for the guy, i just dont fully understand his drastic view on the subject particularly under his circumstances. (good looking guy who already has a gf and a healthy family life)

So just because UCman has a G/F and daughter that should cancel out all the other things in life that are effected by his baldness?

Cant you understand that he wants to feel accepted by society in general not just at home?
By that logic none of us should have the right to feel bad about it as long as we have families that are accepting of it.

Ps Gascoigne = Annoying twat. :thumbdown2:

Ofcourse you shouldnt.
I mean what do you want? What kind of acceptance are you talking about?
Come on, it makes my puke. Such an babycrying, hipocratic sindrom.
Where do you and UCman live? In some strange country where ratio of bald men is 2% ????
Oh, what bunch of unrealistic people.
In my country (and our balding people ratio is pretty lower then in western europe and america) NOONE gives ANOYONE sh*t becouse of he is bald. No one have any problems or discrimination/segregation problems.
IT ONLY HAS TO DO WITH GIRLS/LADIES, and i am aware of that.

I mean, are you kidding me?

"Kme, kme kmeeeeee, i am grown man bald with family and job, but i cant live my life. I am like mascot in my town and i cant stand daily humilation. I am freak in front of others eyes, there is no bald men in my environment."

Its so stupid and pathetic. People dont humiliate or make fun and give sh*t to guys with VITILIGO (search a little bit out your balding-centric system), MAJOR face disformation such as 45 degree twisted nose and rabbit lips etc etc; guys with no one or both legs.

 

[barcafan]

i'm lost

 

[uncomfortable man]

Thank you for taking that one SAF, well put.

Gassy, not descrimination in the form of being refused service at a restaurant or not being allowed to drink from the same water fountain, but rather negative attitudes projected onto me from the public in general. You complain about receiving negative comments too so how are you any different? Maybe if you actually had Vitiligo... or a cleft lip or cross eyed then you would certainly notice people "noticing" you. Then you will feel differently about it, guaranteed. Right now you speak from your own ignorant opinion, devoid of any real life experience. Foolish indeed.

 

[barcafan]

but its all really happening to him today, HE HAS THE DOCUMENTS TO PROVE IT

 

[gascoigne]

Thank you for taking that one SAF, well put.

Gassy, not descrimination in the form of being refused service at a restaurant or not being allowed to drink from the same water fountain, but rather negative attitudes projected onto me from the public in general. You complain about receiving negative comments too so how are you any different? Maybe if you actually had Vitiligo... or a cleft lip or cross eyed then you would certainly notice people "noticing" you. Then you will feel differently about it, guaranteed. Right now you speak from your own ignorant opinion, devoid of any real life experience. Foolish indeed.

Non a single argument in your post.
As i expected. Read my post again, those are pure arguments.

"but rather negative attitudes projected onto me from the public in general" - wow, and so what? Fat people dont expirience this? Geeky, nerdy looking guys dont ? To small people dont?
How the f*** can "negative attitudes projected onto me from the public in general" affect overall quality of your life??? You are grown man with family. Oh my god, in my country people would make ufn of you but not for beeing bald, but if they knew for that silly attitude.

I do have vitiligo, and i expirience everyday how people look to it. Some stare, some turn they head away, some ask me what is that, but what MAJOR SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE PROBLEM are we talking about here? I know its not the most beautiful sight, but no one ever gives me sh*t about it. I am not ignorant, vitiligo problem is 10000 times bigger, more stresful and social more strange then hair loss. And i am still realistic.

Story with girls is something completely different, this was about general social issues.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Pie chart or it didn't happen.