When you're in your 30's, you're finished

[Feelsbadman]

1. have hair (Norwood 2.5 max)
2. dont be manlet (5‘10 plus but preferably taller)
3. don’t have a fucked face, 5/10 is enough
4. don’t be framecel

im 0/5

Have you ever shown your photos to anyone here and they said you were ugly? There are plenty more women like your ex, so if you want one just like her, keep looking. If your dog dies, you just get a new one. You need something to fill the void. Plenty of lonely women like your ex out there.

no man i just miss thr sex and intimiacy she had mental illness

 

[Marky]

Thanks man. Yea this is my dilemma. I don't want to derail the thread maybe i should make a new one but everyone is sick of me.

Because i'm ugly and short a few years ago I did everything to "looksxmax" and try to become as good looking as possible. It worked, I was shocked about how much women at work wanted to talk to me. It really is a different world. Despite being awkward, weird women still wanted to talk to me and just approach me. Girls at work would always want to get lunch with me and talk to me.

I used dating apps and slept with a few girls. Then I met my ex girlfriend. She was
a) The most attractive girl i've been with and
b) I actually liked her (personality)

I was surprised she even matched me as prior to that, most of my matches were only average looking women.
She was trash as I explained but i ignored all her issues and red flags due to a) and b). It was ecstasy and so much fun having wild, loving sex with her. I felt like i was on drugs. I loved the girl (oh how stupid i was to fall in love with such a girl!).

Anyway she eventually cheated on me like i said, I know I dodged a bullet. I'm so lucky we didn't have a really long term relationship/babies/marriage.... But i was still very heart broken. Oh well. BUT.

i go back on dating apps.. but my luck is so much worse. My hair starts receding. My skin isn't the same as it used to be. I go out with some girls but they are ugly, fat, and terrible which makes me feel worse.

I feel like I lucked out and that was like once in a life time thing, hence my misery.

Does anyone think becoming sexually active cause premature aging? Like you might have been an 7 out of 10 then started declining when living that life style. Seems you only get one shot at it then better marry before going all to sh*t

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Does anyone think becoming sexually active cause premature aging? Like you might have been an 7 out of 10 then started declining when living that life style. Seems you only get one shot at it then better marry before going all to sh*t

Naa. You have teen beta permavirgins who go bald by age 21.

 

[Marky]

yea very very true
She was a lose canon, hence why she was so fun, so up and down, may have had soom personaltiy disorder wanted to hmarry me and have kids with me and have this crazy sex then would get angry and upset with me suchc a fun rollercoaster..
she thought she was pregant a few times

i often get sad and think i wish i had more sex and explorede more things with her but imagine i got her pregnant? not worth it long term..

thanks u guys have helped me mentally sometimes more than my psychologist

Obviously bipolar. Some fun for two decades child support - terrible deal

 

[Marky]

Majority of bald guys are or they met their spouse before baldness. If you shaved your head, I think that you'd go to no responses or matches on the online services and effectively ruin your account's internal score. Your cold approaches would fall flat and your confidence and mindset would be so ruined that you wouldn't be able to look people in the eyes. Baldness isn't life on hard mode ; it's a preview of death.

Seems like marriage just makes men fat bald and depressed

 

[Feelsbadman]

Obviously bipolar. Some fun for two decades child support - terrible deal

yea like i said i just miss the sex and intimiacy but yea she will rek some poor dude one day lols.

 

[Norwoodcel]

I'm going to try and approach a girl on the street tomorrow

 

[Oknow]

I'm going to try and approach a girl on the street tomorrow

Cold approach

meh

 

[justinbieberscombover]

I'm going to try and approach a girl on the street tomorrow

"Horny?"

 

[Feelsbadman]

SWIped 500+ times an got matched with a 4/10 beast who said hi to me.
oh well.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

SWIped 500+ times an got matched with a 4/10 beast who said hi to me.
oh well.

Swiping that many times is just gonna make the algorithm identify you as a bot and shadowban you

Ideally you should mostly wait until girls swipe on you

 

[Feelsbadman]

Swiping that many times is just gonna make the algorithm identify you as a bot and shadowban you

Ideally you should mostly wait until girls swipe on you

ive tried everythinf didn' work

i got lucky a few years ago with my ex been luckless for 3 years lol

 

[justinbieberscombover]

ive tried everythinf didn' work

i got lucky a few years ago with my ex been luckless for 3 years lol

What did you do that made you lucky? Did you use different pics? Try and repeat those steps

 

[Feelsbadman]

What did you do that made you lucky? Did you use different pics? Try and repeat those steps

i've been through this already i was better looking.

sucks being an ugly male got lucky once in 5 years.

 

[doubleindemnity]

SWIped 500+ times an got matched with a 4/10 beast who said hi to me.
oh well.

You are still doing very well. I used pro photos and my best tested personal ones but I ran out of people to swipe. Like I always say, a hetero bald guy who can go on (any) dates is doing better than expected.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

i've been through this already i was better looking.

sucks being an ugly male got lucky once in 5 years.

Get a transplant and you'll come back better than ever. I get 2-3 new matches everyday

 

[Feelsbadman]

Get a transplant and you'll come back better than ever. I get 2-3 new matches everyday

no i peaked a few years ago, even at my peak the women i matched with were average/below average but my ex was actuallly above average it sucks bad someties makes me have depression but i try not to think about it and just accept it.

 

[vondoom]

someone once said that you should delete tinder and install a new one to get rid of the algorithm...

no i peaked a few years ago, even at my peak the women i matched with were average/below average but my ex was actuallly above average it sucks bad someties makes me have depression but i try not to think about it and just accept it.

 

[vondoom]

cold approach is the way to go, unless its harassment...

Cold approach

meh

 

[doubleindemnity]

cold approach is the way to go, unless its harassment...

Cold approach is not going to be suitable for most bald guys unless they are extremely mentally tough and resilient. People like @Feelsbadman could be destroyed by it. Who could handle going out for hours every week approaching and getting nowhere after 6 months? That happens even to guys with hair.