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Who Is Hair Loss Worse For? Ugly Or Handsome

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I can just say as an average looking guy (I'll pm anyone a picture to prove it, since I feel some people here are a bit unfair to themselves as to how bad their looks are), I feel it has impacted me a lot.

Nothing I can do besides trying to maximize everything else (working out, low bf%, keep my complexion clear, etc.).

I am somewhat tall so it slightly helps, but I would easily trade height for my full head of hair again.
 
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buckthorn said:
until you get your hair back. then you'll be banging brad pitt looking millionares in the club. ;)
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Well, by the time I get my hair back (if) I'll be old and washed up, so no Cinderella story for me I think ;) I need to get out there now while I'm still young, before it's too late and it all goes downhill. Too bad I don't have the energy for it. I fear the best years of my life are well behind me. At least I have the memories.
 
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my native lang based on cyrillic so I will not even bother
 
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And you're right, French is incredibly beautiful! I also really like Hungarian actually. Sounds like a beautiful language that elves would speak...
 
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Dench57 said:
I think it just becomes tiresome because a lot of the threads in this section, over the last few weeks especially, are basically tellersquilltalk.com where you talk about yourself, how intelligent and cultured you are, how many women you slay, how big your dick is etc. Its fine blowing your own trumpet now and again but at a point I think its quite insensitive to guys in this section who are dealing with advanced hairloss, at a young age, that has a huge impact and their looks and quality of life - some of whom are genuine incels. And then calling them "bitter virgins" is hardly "offering hope to younger posters" is it? You say its "sharing positive experiences and giving people hope" but I think its more just making you feel good about yourself in a place where others don't. You're NW3 at 30 (?) with slow loss, with a shaved head and probably a 6 face so you will not have any problem slamming Tinderellas if you put the effort in. That's a much more unlikely scenario for younger guys with heavy diffuse NW4+ who are 3-4s facially so your stories are meaningless to them. At least when Fred talks about his conquests he's actually experienced extreme baldness and knows both sides of the coin, so it has value in a hairloss forum. If talking about yourself so much is your "therapy" as Fred calls it then fine - but don't pretend you're doing it to help young baldites with the Impact of Hair Loss.
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That's a terrific piece of writing, Dench!
 
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tellersquill said:
There was a chap who was threatening to kill himself and everyone mocked him and I remember trying to help him hang in there - I think that's what made me stay on this forum - to show that there was still life even if you were balding.

That's why I shaved my hair off to test whether a man with no hair could get women (they can).
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Please. You're NW2.5 at 30 years old, what do you know about being bald? Fine, you're baldING, and you fully have a right to be here on HairLossTalk. There's room for both low and high Norwood's here, even women like me, but please don't pretend you know sh-t about being bald. Shaving your head is not a realistic experience of what It's actually like to be bald. Look, I don't think you're a bad guy, actually far from it. But what bothers me is when someone who has not lived 'the bald life' tries to pretend he knows what it's like, and that it should give 'hope' to others. If anything, it's only false hope, because the sad NW4 20 year old guy who's reading your posts might be mislead (just an example). Of course you can 'slay' women, you are in shape, have a decent head of hair and a decent face. But the same can't be said for everyone here. If you truly wanted to live 'the bald experience', laser your hair off in a NW5 pattern and then try to go out there and slay women. And don't be surprised if your results are not the same.
 
buckthorn

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EvilLocks said:
Sounds like @hairblues and @pasbrillantebrunette has got it bad for @tellersquill haha. I'm not joining the fan club.
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I just think he's a good looking guy who means well.

I understand the guys with severe hair loss crippling there dating lives perspective though.

Im 45 so i equate it to women who freak out that they are turning 30 and think they are getting 'old'...its like 'b**ch-please'..so i get it.

BUT he does mean no harm.

I think intentions are really important when people say things..he has no bad intentions.
 
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hairblues said:
BUT he does mean no harm.

I think intentions are really important when people say things..he has no bad intentions.
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No, I don't think he has bad intentions. But I don't think he's stupid either. He's a good-looking 30 year old NW2, of course he can't share the experiences of those who are (much) less fortunate. He says he just wants to give hope to bald(ing) guys, that It's possible to slay women while bald, but this is just giving false hope to less attractive, more severely balding guys who are not as lucky as him. Deep down he must understand this, that he's not in a position to give (false) hope to balding men (or women), because he's NOT BALD. There's nothing wrong with being a slayer, but please do not talk like you know what It's like to be bald when you really don't.
 
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EvilLocks said:
No, I don't think he has bad intentions. But I don't think he's stupid either. He's a good-looking 30 year old NW2, of course he can't share the experiences of those who are (much) less fortunate. He says he just wants to give hope to bald(ing) guys, that It's possible to slay women while bald, but this is just giving false hope to less attractive, more severely balding guys who are not as lucky as him. Deep down he must understand this, that he's not in a position to give (false) hope to balding men (or women), because he's NOT BALD. There's nothing wrong with being a slayer, but please do not talk like you know what It's like to be bald when you really don't.
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I agree with this.
He is attractive and he has a good amount of hair for a man his age that no one would assume he's losing his hair.
And shaved is completely different then bald for sure.
Unless you are waxing your head (which no one would do) you can see shadow.
 
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