Why Do People Start To Think You Are A Pedo If You Are Balding Or Have A Receded Hairline

[swingline747]

"Why Do People Start To Think You Are A Pedo If You Are Balding Or Have A Receded Hairline"?

I was going to type out this long thing about history and perceptions and blah blah blah, but really there is one short answer

"Because its fun"

pretty much it.

 

[Dante92]

I've got a mate who is a nw2 with a bald spot at the back and he has a stunning girl friend. But he is also 6'2, on decent money, and a really interesting guy (plus, average face).

Surprise surprise. Yet another absolute victory for the red pill. Looks, money, status. Nothing else matters.

 

[Rudiger]

nobody does condescension like blackg

There's becoming nothing worse on here then seeing in your alerts "blackg has quoted your post" even when it's an apparent compliment.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Don't be like that, man. I'm also a Norwood 3 and have been for over three years and in the last three years I've slept with around 10 people.

In another thread I poster their pictures and I'm sure other people will agree that they were decent looking (not stunners - but decent).

Its such a shame to write yourself off - I understand if you were a nw5 and fat or something - but if you are in decent shape, with an okay face, than Norwood 3 isn't really a deal breaker for a normal woman.

I've had a lot of women I met on Okcupid, POF and irl offer but I don't want to until I have hair. It's not that it's hard to find girls who are willing, it's that I disgust myself with my fuking pedo hairline. Also I decided after organising my transplant that I won't have sex until I have hair again.

 

[JeanLucBB]

"When I'm perfect, I'm going to start doing things, you'll see!"

Heard that before and I don't get it, it's just a bad hair line.

When I decided to stop dating, I was bald, I had boobs and acne, all at the same time.

Here it was common sense, horrible combination. Lol, "pedo hair line".

To me it's a cope, "Tomorrow will be better! I'll be happier when I have a pool, a horse, a big house, etc."

It probably won't be unfortunately. You should be able to get sex now.

I literally have a girl who asked me to have sex with her before I went away, and complained I couldn't make time before Thursday when I head off. I don't want to have sex without hair, its that simple.

Why would I get sex now when I don't want it? The issue isn't that I can't get sex, the issue is I don't want sex without a hairline because I feel gross.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

The issue isn't that I can't get sex, the issue is I don't want sex without a hairline because I feel gross.

When it comes to sex there are many things that can be considered as gross. That doesn't mean you shouldn't do them though. Some of the nastiest things I have done have also been the most fun.

Stop wasting these opportunities. They will not last forever.

 

[JeanLucBB]

When it comes to sex there are many things that can be considered as gross. That doesn't mean you shouldn't do them though. Some of the nastiest things I have done have also been the most fun.

Stop wasting these opportunities. They will not last forever.

I also think that any girl that sleeps with a norwood 3 like myself has mental issues and isn't good enough for me. I just want to be a normal human with a norwood 1 hairline and then I can enjoy sex again. Should only be 8 months away.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

"When I'm perfect, I'm going to start doing things, you'll see!"

Heard that before and I don't get it, it's just a bad hair line.

When I decided to stop dating, I was bald, I had boobs and acne, all at the same time.

Here it was common sense, horrible combination. Lol, "pedo hair line".

To me it's a cope, "Tomorrow will be better! I'll be happier when I have a pool, a horse, a big house, etc."

It probably won't be unfortunately. You should be able to get sex now.

You see I get not dating if you are a nw6 with acne and moobs. Its these other men who are Norwood 3s and they act like its the end of the world.

 

[JeanLucBB]

You see I get not dating if you are a nw6 with acne and moobs. Its these other men who are Norwood 3s and they act like its the end of the world.

Because I'm goddamn 22 ffs, I lost my fuking virginity as a norwood 2. I want to have sex with a full head like a normal person.

 

[JeanLucBB]

This. I'm not delusional. I now tomorrow can only be as shitty as today, if not shittier, and that a transplant wouldn't change anything in terms of girls and attraction. I'm ugly, not desperate nor delusional.

You can't be that bad. 99.9% of the population can get 5/10 girls as long as they are a norwood 1 and not a burn victim.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Because I'm goddamn 22 ffs, I lost my fuking virginity as a norwood 2. I want to have sex with a full head like a normal person.

Why do you think you will be fullhead in 8 months?

I really think you should still keep dating - its a shame to give up so young

 

[Rudiger]

I don't know why but it always niggles at me a little whenever I see people say to Dante "You can't be that bad" or "You probably aren't that ugly man" without even seeing him. What if he is?! Then what do you say? Lies and cope?

I'm not saying he is or isn't, possibly it's BDD, but it's not really about Dante or the situation itself really, it annoys me more because there are legit 2/10's that exist in the world, and it shows that the only way we can fathom dealing with the ones we know, is to tell them they aren't in the lowest percentile of attractiveness.

Why? Just because we know/encounter them, and have to deal with them, and it appears the only way we know how to do that is to sugarcoat things instead of actually dealing with it as it is (or may be).

I know people have the best intentions when doing this, but that says it all really. We're all so superficial that we can't deal with the idea someone could be so ugly, we'd rather just assume otherwise without even knowing anything about them.

Sorry but, these people exist too. Facial deformities exist, burns victims exist, they are out there, and I feel like telling every person who is ugly/feels they are "no you must be more beautiful than that" is somewhat of a step-back in logic really, that if their aesthetics are as bad as they say, they wouldn't count as human, they simply must be more beautiful than that. For the sake of being a person.

 

[Xander94]

I've had a lot of women I met on Okcupid, POF and irl offer but I don't want to until I have hair. It's not that it's hard to find girls who are willing, it's that I disgust myself with my fuking pedo hairline. Also I decided after organising my transplant that I won't have sex until I have hair again.

Mate you are retarded I have Nw1,5 and cant even find a girl consider yourself lucky.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Why do you think you will be fullhead in 8 months?

I really think you should still keep dating - its a shame to give up so young

Cos my transplant will give me one

 

[JeanLucBB]

I don't know why but it always niggles at me a little whenever I see people say to Dante "You can't be that bad" or "You probably aren't that ugly man" without even seeing him. What if he is?! Then what do you say? Lies and cope?

I'm not saying he is or isn't, possibly it's BDD, but it's not really about Dante or the situation itself really, it annoys me more because there are legit 2/10's that exist in the world, and it shows that the only way we can fathom dealing with the ones we know, is to tell them they aren't in the lowest percentile of attractiveness.

Why? Just because we know/encounter them, and have to deal with them, and it appears the only way we know how to do that is to sugarcoat things instead of actually dealing with it as it is (or may be).

I know people have the best intentions when doing this, but that says it all really. We're all so superficial that we can't deal with the idea someone could be so ugly, we'd rather just assume otherwise without even knowing anything about them.

Sorry but, these people exist too. Facial deformities exist, burns victims exist, they are out there, and I feel like telling every person who is ugly/feels they are "no you must be more beautiful than that" is somewhat of a step-back in logic really, that if their aesthetics are as bad as they say, they wouldn't count as human, they simply must be more beautiful than that. For the sake of being a person.

But what if he IS actually half decent? I want to see him. The chance that he couldn't even f*** a fat 4/10 if he was a norwood 1 is like 1 in 500. If he went to the gym the chance he was that bad is like 1/1000.

 

[Rudiger]

But what if he IS actually half decent? I want to see him. The chance that he couldn't even f*** a fat 4/10 if he was a norwood 1 is like 1 in 500. If he went to the gym the chance he was that bad is like 1/1000.

Completely missed my point, I will say that my post is directed at a lot of people, not just you, as I see the same comment on a weekly basis.

Anyway, fine if you want to see what he looks like, but by assuming he has to be decent based on nothing, it represents that you hope he is, because nobody wants to deal with truly ugly people.

And everyone else says the same "you can't be that bad" because it's uncomfortable to deal with those who are, and aesthetically have no hope. It's like they can't exist, the thought of it is too much for us to deal with. Their problems are too much to deal with, so let's hope it isn't the case, let's hope they don't exist.

It's irrelevant what he looks like, it's just the superficial hope that he must be average looking, because ugliness is too hard to be around. Even as a brief encounter with someone on an internet forum.

That's all.

 

[SmoothSailing]

I don't know why but it always niggles at me a little whenever I see people say to Dante "You can't be that bad" or "You probably aren't that ugly man" without even seeing him. What if he is?! Then what do you say? Lies and cope?

I'm not saying he is or isn't, possibly it's BDD, but it's not really about Dante or the situation itself really, it annoys me more because there are legit 2/10's that exist in the world, and it shows that the only way we can fathom dealing with the ones we know, is to tell them they aren't in the lowest percentile of attractiveness.

Why? Just because we know/encounter them, and have to deal with them, and it appears the only way we know how to do that is to sugarcoat things instead of actually dealing with it as it is (or may be).

I know people have the best intentions when doing this, but that says it all really. We're all so superficial that we can't deal with the idea someone could be so ugly, we'd rather just assume otherwise without even knowing anything about them.

Sorry but, these people exist too. Facial deformities exist, burns victims exist, they are out there, and I feel like telling every person who is ugly/feels they are "no you must be more beautiful than that" is somewhat of a step-back in logic really, that if their aesthetics are as bad as they say, they wouldn't count as human, they simply must be more beautiful than that. For the sake of being a person.

I agree, but to answer your question; BDD is rampant nowadays. Before confirming someone is 2/10 I still think there's a decent chance they just view themselves as such. I have not confirmed Dante's appearance but I now believe him based on everything I've heard.

But the initial assumption that someone isn't as ugly as they say is not an unreasonable assumption. Just look to some users here such as xander or baldhurts. Without picture confirmation it would be easy to view these as a genuine incel (exander) or as an average-ish guy (baldhurts).

I don't think I'm coping by presuming a large percentage of people on these "incel" forums are not genuinely incel.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Completely missed my point, I will say that my post is directed at a lot of people, not just you, as I see the same comment on a weekly basis.

Anyway, fine if you want to see what he looks like, but by assuming he has to be decent based on nothing, it represents that you hope he is, because nobody wants to deal with truly ugly people.

And everyone else says the same "you can't be that bad" because it's uncomfortable to deal with those who are, and aesthetically have no hope. It's like they can't exist, the thought of it is too much for us to deal with. Their problems are too much to deal with, so let's hope it isn't the case, let's hope they don't exist.

It's irrelevant what he looks like, it's just the superficial hope that he must be average looking, because ugliness is too hard to be around. Even as a brief encounter with someone on an internet forum.

That's all.

No I'm not saying that because it's uncomfortable to deal with which is a totally bogus statement, I'm just pointing out that the chance that he's that ugly is insanely low, and even he can't truly know until he's seen himself with a norwood 1 and is in good shape. I couldn't care less about making someone uncomfortable, I do it all the time.

I genuinely cannot think of someone I would consider a 3/10 or below who is fit and works out and has a norwood 1 hairline. They barely exist.

 

[JeanLucBB]

I agree, but to answer your question; BDD is rampant nowadays. Before confirming someone is 2/10 I still think there's a decent chance they just view themselves as such. I have not confirmed Dante's appearance but I now believe him based on everything I've heard.

But the initial assumption that someone isn't as ugly as they say is not an unreasonable assumption. Just look to some users here such as xander or baldhurts. Without picture confirmation it would be easy to view these as a genuine incel (exander) or as an average-ish guy (baldhurts).

I don't think I'm coping by presuming a large percentage of people on these "incel" forums are not genuinely incel.

Exactly, they have psychological issues of hatred towards themselves, are unfit, dress poorly, don't make an effort and are scared of having sex. For 99% of incels, it is pure fear. Fear of the pussy.

 

[SmoothSailing]

No I'm not saying that because it's uncomfortable to deal with which is a totally bogus statement, I'm just pointing out that the chance that he's that ugly is insanely low, and even he can't truly know until he's seen himself with a norwood 1 and is in good shape. I couldn't care less about making someone uncomfortable, I do it all the time.

I genuinely cannot think of someone I would consider a 3/10 or below who is fit and works out and has a norwood 1 hairline. They barely exist.

Dante is not NW1 though, and he has admitted to being 4/10 at NW1.